Lisi, thank you for your article, so many helpless people including me can often find themselves in the answers to other people's questions.
recently broke up with a foreign boyfriend who has been in a relationship for 5 years. Both of us are facing the problems that many people will encounter when they are 30 years old, nothing more than marriage and career.
We are in different countries, holding different passports, and the mileage accumulated in the past 5 years can probably be exchanged for several business class tickets. In the process, both mentally and financially, we are all obvious to all.
One day last month he said that he was tired and proposed to break up for the first time in 5 years. It was very sudden, just a few days after we crossed the ocean to see you again.
My first reaction at the moment was to fly over and talk. I thought I would stage a scene of hugging my thighs and crying bitterly. The lines I thought were useless, but I didn’t expect the last two people to sit peacefully in the cafe and talk goodbye. , The content is nothing more than the pressure of marriage and work pressure have crushed each other.
We didn't contact us anymore. In fact, what I couldn't get through was a goodbye in a foreign relationship. Will we really see you again in this life? What mentality should I use to face the passing of a relationship that still loves each other but is defeated by real problems?
I'm still used to watching the local time, caring about local news, and paying attention to local airfare prices, even though those have nothing to do with me.
Regardless of whether Lisi is free to answer me, thank you for providing a self-talking tree hole.
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This little girl, 5 years is not easy, after all, in your life, maybe there will be no such 5 years again.
Actually, the only thing I can comfort you is "Time can heal everything", because you must have enough pain before you decide to let it go. At least it's better to get together and to disperse. Many people are in the attachment relationship that they can't let go. These constant cycles of greed, anger, and ignorance can even ruin their lives.
Long-distance feelings have a distance from love in reality, because this part is always imaginary and romantic. Without these elements, long-distance feelings will become a joke.
After all, when you are in a bad mood, you want to find him to give you a hug. Even if he arrives immediately, it will take a day. At this time, you may have returned to normal, and you have forgotten why you are sad and weeping.
dear, this is reality. Love needs to be tempered and cultivated by reality. The so-called tempering of
is because love is actually full of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea. So when a man thinks that the girl in the hotel is gentle and considerate, please think about how much it cost. If 16,000 can be given to his wife for 3 hours a night, I believe that his wife will immediately become a kind and considerate interpreter.
Besides, the husband and wife are not beautiful at all, and they are completely different from boy and girl friends. If two people live together, there will be many realities. If you can't accept the other party's plain makeup without makeup; you can't accept the other person's tone of eating garlic.
might wake up suddenly one day in the middle of the night. When listening to the other person's screaming, he patted his head and yelled: "OMG~How could I choose this unkempt person as my "lifetime" partner?"
So what is training? Cultivation is to allow the two of you to grow a lot of tacit understanding and memories through various kinds of life training. These nutrients will allow you to make the trace of pity suddenly appear every time you almost cannot go on. That is the meaning of "love and righteousness, worth a thousand dollars."
Long-distance love is not easy to succeed, not because you don't love each other, or the pressure in life is too great, but because love is originally firewood, rice, oil and salt, and you are missing these vulgar things. These things
may not be the subject of love at first, but in the future they will be deeply cultivated with love, and love and family affection will gradually become one. Without these "vulgar" things, love can only float in the air, just like an orchid without roots.
Li Zongsheng did not say the same:
"Work is easy, but it is difficult to make money.
It is easy to fall in love, but it is difficult to get married.
It is easy to fall in love, but it is difficult to get along.
decision is easy, but waiting is difficult. "
In love, if you can't get it, nothing is better. Because you can't get it, sometimes it's just because it's not suitable. Moreover, if you keep indulging in that emotion, you will drown without knowing it.
And these emotions still need time to resolve. If it can be solved in a moment and a half, then what are your five years? So, just let yourself cry a few more times and talk more times!
It’s right to release your emotions. Please don’t be strong or feel fragile. Anyway, time will make you cry less and less and complain less and less, and in the end it will be like a constant fax back and forth Like paper, the handwriting is gradually blurred so that you can't remember it.
wants to pursue true love in real life, it is very brave. Even if you fail this time, don't give up, at least my tree hole will always be there.
article source: Lv Qiuyuan Facebook
editor: Hequ
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