This girl, when you asked me this question, I was really shocked, "Why doesn't he want to marry me after divorce? Does he just want to fall in love with me?" The question of
fully reflects Out of your girly heart.
Who wants to marry you? Go to hell right out of the fire pit?
Regarding your future, I will not talk about morality, because it is not necessary. It is more important to talk about reality, but it has to be divided into three levels: the first level of
is the stage you feel is suppressed. At this time, you will feel that love is the greatest. It is the third person who is not loved. You think you are Romeo and Juliet, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai. Even if the world is against me, two people must hold hands. Fight against the evil world.
In this turbulent phase, you only stare at each other and deeply believe that outsiders do not understand your lofty love and great sacrifice, and people on this earth do not understand love, and just want to break up your marriage. I always feel that I must love when I die. Only you know my world best. The three lives and three generations of ten miles of peach blossoms bloom in the colder.
Therefore, friends' advice, spouse's warning, you all regard them as a shame. If the other half makes a mobile report, you will feel that you are simply a mandarin duck. If you miss this life, you will definitely see you in the next life. Feelings become more steadfast, and external forces cannot stop them. In the words of the ancients, it is probably like this:
"I want to know each other and live forever. The mountains have no tombs, the rivers are exhausted, the winter thunder shakes, the summer rains and snow, the heaven and the earth are united, but I dare to be with the king."
In the second stage, there will be a steady decline. Let's introduce the term "half-life". According to Wikipedia, half-life refers to: "The concentration of a certain substance, after a certain reaction, is reduced to half of the time it took for the initial period." Your life and death agree. How long does it take to enter the half-life? ? In fact, it varies from person to person. In principle, it depends on the determination of the original partner and the patience of the third party. If the original partner's determination is strong, the half-life will be shorter. After all, the original partner has always been facing the original partner to find a credit agency to come in at any time. If he sees himself naked, he will not feel good, so he will consider whether to end the relationship. And if the patience of the third party gets worse, Lu Xiaoxiao will start to appear, and perhaps the concentration of emotions will also decrease. After all, no one likes to be bothered. It's annoying at home and annoying outside. It's not Afanda. If you are annoyed every day, don't you need to do anything?
Yes, this stage will start to be a little sober, this person finally thinks of a world outside of the two of you. Therefore, the pressure will increase at this time. He found that in fact, the accused adultery, infringement of spouse rights, etc., are not very interesting. The half-life will follow the changes in the external environment and begin to accelerate. In the third stage of
, if your spouse can't hold on and decides "I can't love you, I wish you happiness", that is, divorce and goodbye to your lover. At this time, there will be a short glimpse of your relationship. Two people will feel that the sun suddenly becomes so brilliant, even the haze in the air is bright, and they breathe with a rose-like fragrance. But the most important thing in life is that egg. You have a great chance to move towards a breakup.
why?
because of you become like his original match. When you start to get along with him for a long time, you will find the shortcomings of concealing under pressure, which all appear at this time. He suddenly woke up, it turned out that the problem of firewood, rice, oil, and salt was not solved by the replacement. The original partner is very nagging, this is not much more convincing, the original partner has a strong desire to control, this is more powerful, the original partner does not like his parents, this is not even willing to see your parents. Then, in order to divorce, he gave up property distribution, custody, and paid a large amount of money to support the child, and then the defendant committed adultery and violated his spouse rights. I was alone, thinking about who had harmed him like this. Who? Who do you think it is? Of course
is you! You ruined his family and lost his wife. Who wants to marry you? Who are you, miss?
Do you understand this? What is not available is always the best. If you break up with him at this time, you are his best memory, but after his divorce, you are his worst nightmare.
Of course, this is not a general case, there will always be exceptions, but please don't spend your time on a relationship that is not necessarily worth looking forward to. You must know that life is limited and desires are endless. Now even if you think you will die without him, if you don't contact for half a year, you will find that you will die without him.
This girl, he doesn't just want to fall in love with you, he just wants to be in love for a lifetime.
