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Lu Lisi Hello: I have always been a fan of you, but I didn’t expect that today because of my friends, I can’t help but ask for your valuable opinions, because I don’t know what to do Up.
friends are about to enter the auditorium next week, the wedding banquet, the two have also registered their marriage on October 10 this year. But the woman recently discovered that the other half is suspected of derailment. After verifying with the man, he also bluntly said that he lost the feeling of love, and developed a period of "pure love" with his company colleagues.
But the wedding is coming soon. Friends dare not tell their parents that there are too many banquet tables. Have to silently bear the pressure. Hope to finish the divorce in a low-key.
As a friend of the woman, I feel very distressed. Is there no other way? I really can't bear to see girls make a strong smile on their wedding day. Doesn't the man have to pay any moral responsibility? Hope Lisi can enlighten.
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girl, I know that your friend is not you, but whether it is you or not, we have to think about it, after all, this is not a trivial matter.
"Pure love" is actually pretty good. I also know why he said that. After all, after they registered their marriage on my birthday, they already had marriage rights and obligations. If it is not pure, it may have to be cut. head.
Hey, no, it's adultery. Therefore, they can only be pure, which we can understand. However, Lawyer Lu frowned and realized that the matter was not simple.
He was so arrogant at the beginning of registration, and no one will know what more exaggerated situations will happen in the future. After all, people are shameless and the world is invincible. It is not impossible to claim divorce in an affair, but it is not so easy to collect relevant evidence.
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And during this period of time before the divorce, perhaps he is unwilling to advocate for divorce, so he just waits for the woman to file it.
Because he wants to create the illusion of his innocence to gain sympathy, for example, everything is suspicious of the woman, the man should continue torturing the woman so that the woman can file for a divorce, and then require certain conditions, such as the cost of the wedding. The woman's all expenses and so on.
This relationship is broken, because it is obvious that the man has no intention of looking back, he just wants to humiliate your friend, so in any case, he must act decisively to solve this problem.
Your friends must tell your parents that this matter cannot be contained in paper. Even if the wedding is around the corner, there are still some losses that can be reduced, but at this time, the whole family must unite to deal with the crisis, instead of being borne by her alone.
I would suggest that the whole family go to the man's house to visit each other, spread everything out, and remember to record the whole process so that the other party will not deny it in the future. The two families can discuss how to dissolve the wedding, how to compensate the hotel, and contact relatives and friends present, and the divorce proceedings can be handled together in a few days. The
wedding can’t be done, because in this wedding, relatives and friends are here to witness the love between the two parties. Since they are about to divorce, they have to collect guest gifts. Does this look like a fraud?
Throughout the wedding, the bride is like the ghost Nana, and the groom is like the ghost Chaji. Can you watch this? Don't treat your relatives and friends as idiots, especially if you divorce immediately after the wedding is over. Does such a wedding make any sense?
If the man is unwilling to talk, or resolutely denies cheating, or thinks that it’s not a big deal, and the bedside quarrels with the end of the bed, then we respect the opinions of the man’s family, but we will immediately notify relatives and friends when we go home, and we don’t have to attend the day.
then burned all the evidence of the man’s affair and the recording files of the negotiations into CDs. At the wedding that day, the CDs that were originally scheduled to be played on the "interaction process, growth process" and so on were replaced.
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playing the full record of this affair on the spot, it should be possible for the man’s relatives and friends to see this moment of history with his own eyes, especially his colleagues and officers, should be for the man and the third The pure love between the two is deeply impressed.
This girl, since this man is married, his responsibility is not morality, but law.
If you can talk, you can communicate well. Getting together and ending the meeting is an option, butIf the other party is so nasty, and when they are newly married, they directly point out that they "have pure love" with others and "have no feeling of love" with their wife, then what we have to do shouldn't be just letting go. You know what I mean.
However, in any case, face is not important at this time, and this wedding cannot be held. This is a time for the whole family to face it together. Don't carry it alone. The family will feel distressed in the future.
Article source: Lv Qiuyuan Facebook
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