first love is unforgettable for most people. Why is it unforgettable? It is probably a girl who grew up with a boy.
The person who truly loves you has taught you how to grow up and how to love someone, but the price is often the separation of the two, two flowers blooming, and each other.
The movie Xiaotian recommends to everyone today is a movie directed by Wong Kar-wai -"Happy Together", this movie is joined by two smash hits, Leslie Cheung and Tony Leung and . Created, the film itself is a rich visual feast.
This film tells the story of a pair of gays who went to South America to play because they lost their way and stayed in Buenos Aires, and then they broke up because of a series of contradictions.
This movie is a classic literary film on the subject of homosexuality. When you see this, many people may be puzzled. Why can't such pure love be performed by two actors, one man and one woman? Must be gay.
Xiaotian didn't quite understand it at first, but after reading this article, it suddenly became clear that whether he is gay is not that important anymore, and Xiaotian's final focus is not on that.
Xiaotian thinks that the director might want to use the same sex to weaken our prejudice against a relationship. It does not necessarily mean that girls are vulnerable and need to be protected, while men play a strong protective role.
In fact, regardless of whether it is male or female, they are all in common in love, and there is no absolute and socially influenced judgment.
When we ignore gender differences and watch this movie, Xiaotian will hardly sympathize with He Baorong from a female perspective, nor will he think that Liang Yaohui should choose tolerance from a male perspective, because the most basic premise of love is Both parties are equal.
In the movie, He Baorong is provocative and playful, while Liang Yaohui is silent and introverted, earning money for the two of them to spend, and taking care of He Baorong.
After watching the film, many people think He Baorong is too much, and they do not understand Liang Yaohui at all. The public's love is also biased towards the role of Liang Yaohui.
But Xiaotian believes that it is not a coincidence that the two people were together until they finally broke up.
The reason why they are together is also because of the bright spots of each other. Liang Yaohui's bright spots are easier for the public to discover, but He Baorong's bright spots are not easy to be noticed or even understood.
It can be seen that the two of them love each other deeply, He Baorong is more like a child who has not grown up, because Liang’s tolerance makes He Wuhuo unscrupulous. Maybe he has already regarded Liang as a relative. I really believe in Liang's love for me, so I dare to indulge myself so confidently.
On the other hand, Liang is better at taking care of people because of who is more in need of care. In fact, where Liang's value is reflected, Liang also needs someone like this to make up for his mental vacancy.
Many people think He doesn’t love Liang, because every time it’s why the two broke up. It’s not as good as He Baorong when we’ve come over from the beginning. It looks like it’s breaking Liang’s trust again and again without paying attention This relationship.
Xiaotian would like to say that in this world, everyone has their own imperfect side, and I believe that many people will have their own imperfect side. People who have experienced
must know that it is because of too much love and too insecure that they will do it again and again to prove the tenacity of this relationship.
He and Liang, like countless lovers in life, in countless times of opening and closing, and finally completely broke up, although it is a pity, but for each other, it is not a relief. Maybe they all need to grow.
In the second half of the film, Liang came to the promised one by himself and said: "Although I went around a lot of wrong ways, I finally came to Yiwasu. I was very sad that day, because I always feel... .. There should be two people standing under this waterfall."
hope that someday in the future, why Liang and Liang will meet unexpectedly, how can we pluck up the courage to say: "It's better to do it again."
