Korean female idol, something happened again. Min Mo, a former member of the
women's team AOA, posted frantically on ins, telling him about being bullied and humiliated by the captain of the team for 10 years. Briefly introduce AOA, the three-generation Korean girl group, famous for its sexy style.
In the picture below, the left is the captain and the right is the bully Moth.
Last Friday afternoon, Min Mo posted a picture on Instagram in which a netizen called her "fuck off".
At the same time in the article, she revealed the real reason why she did not choose to renew her contract and leave AOA when she expired. In the team, there is a sister who hates her for 10 years. She suffers from depression, panic disorder, and restlessness because of daily abuse and long-term mental torture.
When his father passed away, because he was too sad and crying in the waiting room, he could be abused by his sister.
She revealed that this bullying sister, whose father also passed away not long ago, is not difficult to guess that the bully Minmo talked about was Captain Shen Zhimin.
Soon after Min Mo sent the message, Shen Zhimin also sent an ins and wrote the word "novel". Although she did not name her, she also knew that she was responding to Min Mo, which meant that the other party was making up.
The unrepentance of the bully, let the ten-year depression of Minmoth vent, and began to break the news on ins.
Minmo sternly stated that the story she had posted earlier was just a trivial incident in her 10 years of bullying. Just before leaving the group for the last group activity, Min Mo was criticized for going to the practice room late because of anesthetics. She had already experienced a stress response because of too long depression. She couldn't stop being afraid of nervousness when she heard the captain's voice.
She injured herself by cutting her wrist several times.
finally expressed his appeal, that is, I want the captain to apologize, a sincere sorry.
The apology did not wait. Minmo also started a longer complaint, telling in more detail how he was bullied during the 10 years.
also revealed the reasons why he was bullied.
During the practice period, Shen Zhimin will use his elder advantage to squeeze the moth, and even hit others.
is old, so you can do whatever you want. If you are not satisfied, you can't put forward ideas and opinions.
During the group period, Shin Jimin always humiliated the scorpion moth and told others bad things about the scorpion moth, saying that the scorpion was a bad woman pretending to be stupid.
Only Minmo in the same team can be bullied so much because she is "so bullied." As for the reason I hate Minmo, it is because Minmo learns not to flatter, which makes Shen Zhimin very dissatisfied.
Because of the long-term oppression + paralytic self-comfort, the moth suffers from extremely serious mental illness, has nightmares, and repeatedly tries to commit suicide and end its life.
was still hating the captain in the second before committing suicide.
Because of his moodiness and collapse of heart, Minmoth can only rely on drugs to sleep. Mother also suffered from depression because of her more serious mental illnessDepression. The text of this article
is the mental process of Minmo's last decade of backlog. That night, Min Mo and Captain Shin Ji Min, the name of AOA dominated South Korea's hot search list.
You can feel the despair and struggle of Minmo from the text. These 10 years may be really hell-like torture for her.
This is not the first time that this kind of bullying between women's groups has happened at the star-making factory in Korea. The first bullying incident that caused the entire regiment to flop at the speed of light was Tara, who was once expected to reach the summit.
In 2012, member Liu Huaying said that he injured his leg and could not go on stage and was absent from the Japanese performance. On the night of the end of the performance, other members of the team posted on Twitter, alluding to Liu Huaying's lack of team spirit.
and Liu Huaying also suffered a leg injury, showing her helplessness, and her sister also posted a message saying that other teammates were intentionally bullying her sister. The tearing of
on the bright side pushed Tara to the cusp of the storm in an instant. After that, some evidences that could prove that Liu Hwayeong was "bullyed" in the team began to be found online. For example, Zhiyan skipped her and didn't give her a high five.
Xiaomin raised his hand and hit her in the face.
Enjing forcefully feeds her buns and so on.
These strong evidences, coupled with Liu Huaying's various soft services and grievances
suddenly reduced Tara's reputation, and many viewers asked Tara to disband on the spot, and no longer deserve to be a girl group. After 5 years, the other members of Tara gradually became unnamed in South Korea, and the "victim" Liu Hwa-young turned directly into an actor.
Because she has been a victim all these years, she also went on a variety show with her sister and talked about the bitterness of being a group.
originally thought that she could have another wave of heat, but she sold too deliberately, completely angering the staff who knew the truth, and began to reverse the news. The leg injury Liu Huaying said back then was not so serious. The doctor also said that she could walk around, but she had to make a wheelchair and refused to participate in the rehearsal of the Japanese event.
Because of her problem alone, the performance has to be re-queued and moved. For her own selfish desire and lack of team spirit, Liu Huaying, who is younger than her younger sister Liu Yalin, is the incarnation of a wicked woman, and verbally threatens her.
"If you don't want to be beaten, just do it" "Beat you, wait, scratch you in the face so that you can't be on the show" "Bitch, don't let me catch you"
Victim Liu Yalin, also sent a message to confirm the information Authenticity. The staff of
Tara stood up and showed that Liu Huaying did not cooperate during the team period and had a very bad attitude.
The truth comes to light. Compared with the bullying that caught the wind and catching shadows five years ago, the evidence this time is more hammering. The mask was torn off, and Liu Huaying finally ended the matter only with the excuse of "Is it right or wrong?"
Things can be reversed, but after all things have passed 5 years, this belated truth cannot make the team back to the top. With the departure of several veteran-level members, tara has become a memory.
Although the second and third generations of women’s groups are no longer successful, bullying incidents have more or less persisted. There are still inevitable frictions and conflicts between the new generation of women's teams and the members of the team. Scratching the team members in front of the camera caused skin redness and swelling,
deliberately crowded out the team members to turn a blind eye,
or even rolled eyes sometimes.
Although there are few female groups in China, there is no shortage of bullying. In the 48 series with the largest number of people, some members were attacked and injured.
Some members could not control their emotions, and even had no guilt about their bullying, and their premature debut. There is a certain relationship.
The reason why the Korean group Girls' Generation can reach the top is not only the business ability between the players, but also the cohesion between the teams.
Individuals and the team have an impact on the relationship within the team, and more importantly, the inaction of many companies.
After Min Mo's information was exposed, the original company did not consider her thoughts, but led Zhi Min to Min Mo's door and forced her to accept an apology.
Zhimin’s apology seems to be insincere. Although
Minmo accepted the apology on the surface, it was later revealed that the captain had taken the boys home overnight while in the dormitory, and she could feel that she did not accept the other party's apology.
Her pain and wounds have gradually deepened after a long time of inaction by her teammates, team, and company, and it is difficult to heal. The
Tara team spoke out about the bullying incident. The company did not ask other members and staff to come out to explain in order to prevent the interests from being damaged. Instead, Liu Huaying quit the team as soon as possible, and other members apologized to resolve the matter.
allows the remaining team members to engage in activities amidst public criticism and squeeze their last value. They did not intend to resolve the conflicts within the team.
Most companies only treat their members as a ruthless money-making machine, and don't care about their contradictions and real ideas. If you don’t care, don’t care, don’t mediate properly when problems occur, from the team members being bullied, to the most serious, it is all kinds of mental illnesses that make the bullied person miserable.
The explosion and collapse of a person is by no means a temporary impulse. The bullying of the team members, the company's inaction, and the external pressure between the society will be the last straw to crush a person.
, in order not to show up the second moth, just as she herself said: People who are tired because of others, don't bear it. Do what you want to do and express what you want to express.
People who are being bullied, don't wrong yourself anymore. Because of all your patience and retreat, in the end, only you are injured.
