In "He Doesn't Love You That", the four heroines have a relationship. Ren Ran and Lu Hao are about to get married. Yu Tian and Karen have also confirmed their relationship. Tintin's official partner has already appeared but has not yet fallen in love. And Sun Yihe is still splitting and reuniting with that Sam.
In fact, we can all see that the person who has been the most unhappy in a relationship so far is Sun Yehe, played by Song Qian.
1, he really doesn’t love her so much
At the beginning of the first episode of, Victoria Song had her birthday and decided to break up with Sam. The little sisters were all happy for her and thought they should have broken up long ago.
Son Yehe also wants to give up love and start again.
But unexpectedly, after a few days of persisting, he reunited with Sam.
Sam said that he never said that they broke up. This was what Sun Yehe said, and he did not admit it.
Then the two reconciled.
Although they continue to be together, but after discussing the relationship for more than a year, Sam has no plans to get married.
He clearly told Son Yehe: He didn't want to get married because he was not ready yet.
A man has been with you for many years, but he hasn't talked to you about getting married, because he is not ready yet. Does he really love you?
Ding Ding said, her father said that if a man loves you, even if he is kayaking across half of the Pacific, he will come to you.
He doesn't want to marry you, just because he doesn't love you that much.
For him, you are just icing on the cake, not you.
and you? Is it really necessary to continue wasting your youth with him?
People like, who knows one day when they suddenly meet someone who wants to get married, they will abandon you without saying a word!
Not getting married is just an excuse. It is impossible for someone who truly loves you to not want to marry you.
2, he may just love her
has the ending of an episode. Sun Yehe said this: The true meaning of adult feelings is to play with love in the palm, and to be played with love in the palm. In fact, no one wants to abandon who we are, but we always do not care about ourselves. Enter the black hole of love, because we don’t want to make the other person sad, because we don’t want to make the other person embarrassed, because we don’t want the other person to lose, we make ourselves very busy, busy pursuing the perfect love life, busy improving ourselves, and busy turning ourselves into Another person, we play tricks in our relationships, and we all have our own little secrets, but in fact, what we really want to do is to connect each other closely, so can we start by being honest with ourselves and compare Okay?
explains the current situation of Son Yehe. The person Sam loves is just the imaginary Son Yehe.
Sam's parents came to Shanghai. Sam asked Sun Yihe to pick up the plane together. She also asked her to put on the skirt and high heels he bought for her, and asked her to restrain her temperament to please her parents.
But even so, Sam's mother is still dissatisfied with Son Yehe. She said that you are alienated, she is dependent, and you will not be happy together. Have you considered your future?
Sam did not answer.
Maybe he knows in his heart that Sun Yehe is not suitable for him, and he also wants to work hard to make Sun Yehe what he wants.
But he has thought about: Is this fair to Son Yehe?
He was dating Son Yehe. He ate his favorite meals and watched his favorite movies. He never considered that Son Yehe liked it?
When a girl falls in love with such a person, she puts herself too humble.
We really don’t need to change ourselves easily for anyone.
The person who truly loves you, loves the way you are, not the way in his heart.
3, don't wrong yourself for love
Girls, no matter what age they are, there is no need to wrong themselves for love.
we wantThe most important love is equal and independent love, not humble love to others.
is like Karen's life creed: rich, house and career, men are the icing on the cake for me, rather than giving charcoal.
Sun Yihe's opening, closing and closing is to put himself in the "inseparable" position. This makes the other party look down even more.
He doesn't respect you, so naturally you will not get the love you want.
Love is not for seeking.
You work hard, work hard, keep improving yourself, and make yourself better, not to meet love, but to say no when you meet unsuitable love.
In the face of love, we have absolute choice.
There is really no need to "reluctantly" or "he loves me" and so on to easily deny yourself, put yourself shackles, and fall in love with someone you shouldn't love.
For love after 30 years old, it is more important to stop loss in time than to start casually.
I believe that Sun Yihe will meet someone who truly loves himself.
But currently, the person she loves is very bad.
