Some netizens squeezed Yi Nengjing: He is only in his 50s, and of course he can't act as a mother, and he should act as a grandma anyway! Some netizens even criticized her for "pretending to be tender", "unwilling to face reality", and "refusing to act as a mother is an insult to her role."
Why do older female stars subconsciously refuse to play mothers: Because they are a woman, they are afraid of getting old! Refusing to play a mother is not a problem with the role, but the role reminds them all the time: You are getting older!
getting older is something every woman is afraid of!
is like Yi Nengjing. When she gave birth to her daughter, millet grains, she was already one of the most advanced women. The bitterness of the older women giving birth to children is beyond words.
Millet is only 4 years old this year, and Yi Nengjing is 54 years old. It will be 14 years before the millet will reach adulthood. At that time, Yi Nengjing was 68 years old. As a mother, who doesn't want to grow up with her daughter and watch her put on a white gauze?
Yi Nengjing’s husband, Qin Hao, is 9 years younger than her. After a failed marriage, Yi Nengjing finally found her happiness again. Which woman is not greedy and does not want to grow old with the one she loves?
The more happy people are, the more afraid of loss. And age is like a rushing alarm clock, reminding you at any time: you are old and there is not much time left.
This is the cruelest thing in the world. Let's think about it in another way. If you are 54 years old, your daughter is only 4 years old, and your husband is 9 years younger than yourself, are you not afraid?
Are you scared! But what you are afraid of is not that you are getting old, but that you don't have more time to be with the person you love. This kind of strong and inexplicable sense of loss is what women fear most!
The more afraid of loss, the more I think about catching it desperately.
So they will always subconsciously avoid the problem of their own age: desperately maintain, dress and dress as much as possible, always keep a girlish heart, and live a positive life...
bravely fight against time, although I am 50 years old, but I can still live like 20 years old. This is better than predicting your 50 years from your 20 years old.
Could this be a reason for being criticized?
Age is just a number! A 20-year-old woman said this, she was telling the truth, a 50-year-old woman could still say this, she was talking about her mentality.
Yes, I am afraid of getting old, but what I am afraid of is not the growth of age, but I still want to embrace the world again and find myself!
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