These days because of the epidemic, everyone has nothing to do at home.
However, after a long time of retreat, it is inevitable that there will be boring moments, which will cause all popular dramas to be clicked to see if there are any flowers, and then... into a state of being out of control.
"The Next Stop Is Happiness" is one of them.
Thirty-two-year-old Song Qian and 20-year-old Song Weilong talk about love between sisters and brothers at their real ages in the play, and they are hotly searched in different postures almost every day.
licks the corners of his mouth and kisses in the spirit of "food cannot be wasted".
you "wall dong" me.
In the finale, there are also a series of marriage proposals such as the heroine's brave "anti-wall dong" and "drunkenness", I wish them happiness!
Straight Ball Little Wolf Dog in X Years The love of Tsundere and Yu Jie made many netizens ignite the yearning for siblings.
may be precisely because it captures the real concerns and confusion of choices of older girls on the road of love, which makes people can't help thinking about the "age difference in love" that reflects behind this.
believes that every sibling couple who intends to enter into a stable romantic relationship will think: under the condition of the age difference between the two people, will we be happy together?
sister and brother love, will they be happy?
The marriage of "women and boys" may become a trend:
sister and brother love not only exists in TV dramas, it is becoming a trend, immersed in the marriage of modern people.
mentioned in an article titled "Research on Chinese Youth Issues in the Context of Social Changes" published by Li Chunling, a researcher at the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, that the number of marriages among "women, boys and girls" has increased significantly.
According to the survey, in 1990, "male big and small girl" marriages accounted for 70%, "female big and young boy" accounted for 13%, and the same age accounted for 17%.
By 2010, the proportion of marriages of "male big and small girl" has increased from 70% to 43%, and the proportion of "female big and small boy" has increased from 13% to 40%, and the proportion of the same age is still 17%.
In other words, siblings now account for 40% of the total number of marriages.
It can be seen from this data that Chinese men and women marriages are more and more balanced in age. In other words, contemporary men and women no longer consider the age gap in their marriages, especially "women and men." The status of "small" is regarded as a particularly important matter.
This shows to a certain extent that women's status is improving, they have gained spiritual and material independence in social relations, and they have begun to no longer rely on men. Therefore, they can pay attention to their own emotional needs.
On the other hand, the improvement of education level has allowed more men to let go of their prejudice against women and their obsession with age, and only use a simple heart to feel and appreciate girls themselves.
is a girl with content, she is radiating charm in every gesture, they will give themselves and the people around them enough sense of security, and output the wisdom they have learned from their own growth for decades.
They not only have the attractiveness of women, but also the charm of transcending gender.
Boys in siblings love each other on the positive side:
We often talk about girls in siblings’ relationships, often neglecting boys’ ideas, so that we generally think that boys in siblings’ love are Passive, cared for and immature.
But in fact, their love is free. They also do not feel that the so-called "male self-esteem" is impaired. What they love is indeed the charm of this female personality, or the parts that they can't tell themselves are worthy of love.
Because you fall in love with her, you will find that she knows you better than herself.
reader @亮亮 was eaten to death by the charm of her wife.
"Once I wanted to quit my job and I was very upset, she gave me a PDF. When I opened it, it was analyzed from the company to my own strengths and weaknesses, helping me to judge whether the job was worth a memorial."
no matter when and where, you can find her very attractive.
reader @宋 said, "My daughter-in-law is 5 years older than me. Once after watching a movie, she kept discussing with me the guiding significance of the constitution to all laws and regulations, and the complex social order and the connection with the logic of nature. It’s been a long discussion.” What
said, she has the side of a big woman, and there will be a side of a very young girl.
@布先生 When getting along with his girlfriend, she often finds another side of her. "A person who usually draws a mind map to follow your logic in a fight, I actually found her asleep holding a big doll in my uniform.
It turned out that she is more dependent on me than I thought, and I want to think better. Protect her."
From a psychological point of view, the older woman’s emotional stability is higher because the girl may be more tolerant and mature.
In addition, sibling love is not always the pattern of strong women and weak men. From these real marriage examples, it can be seen that siblings are just like ordinary couples who are in love and marry because they attract each other and fit well. So I can keep going.
sister and brother love will not be less hindered by the outside world
sister and brother love is no different from other relationships, but there will be no less external obstacles.
is like in "The Next Stop Is Happiness", why did He Fanxing played by Song Qian break up with the Yuan Song played by Song Weilong , a large part of the reason is the pressure of the outside world on women who love sisters and brothers, and the people around them. Discuss, and oppose.
As the parents of girls, they worry that boys are too young to bear the responsibilities of a family, and they may be persuaded by the group of relatives and friends before marriage is discussed.
may even become a post-dinner talk for neighbors in the neighborhood, ranging from girls looking for someone younger than themselves to blaming girls' parents for not teaching their daughters well and being serious.
The generation gap caused by age difference, because girls are older, they will be older than boys, but the deeper reason is that the relationship between strong men and weak women has penetrated into the traditional concepts of elders.
Only girls with a stronger heart will ignore these controversies and firmly choose what they want. Because
is strong enough, they do not accept the anxiety imposed on them by the outside world. Since they can afford all the possible results of love, they just do it according to their own wishes and enjoy the moment.
At the same time, in order to reassure parents, boys should also learn to tell girls’ parents in various ways, "rest assured, I will take good care of her."
A girl and Ji Xiaoxi said that although it took a long time, both of them finally got the support of their family members through practical actions.
talked about something that was very impressive. She said that it might be "drunk" (?):
"take him back to see his parents. I cook and made my dad's favorite candy." Suffering fish, the result was a shake of the hand and a small bottle of vinegar was added. The vinegar smell really spread from the kitchen to the living room, let alone the taste, sour! Even my dad frowned after a bite, but he was very satisfied with it. Two mouthfuls and one mouthful.
finished eating and was drunk and took my dad's hand and said:'Uncle, don't worry, I must be good to Qiuqiu, definitely good, absolutely, not wrong.'"
Put aside the worldly concepts and constraints, no matter whether you are a man, a girl or a girl, you must be responsible to yourself and each other when you decide to get along with each other in a way that you agree with.
"Sister and brother love" should not be used as another label, it is no different from other marriage relationships. Because I really like someone, not because you are older than me, but I like you, you happen to be older than me.
Love itself is a very beautiful thing. It should not be completely constrained and prejudiced by age difference, but it cannot be divorced from reality. It is not so important whether a sister and a brother are in love. The important thing is"When you are an adult, it's time to learn to mature your feelings."
