The urban emotional drama "Meet Happiness" starring Jiang Xin, Li Guangjie, Guo Jingfei, and Liu Zi is currently on the air. Although the title is "Meet Happiness", there are three protagonists in the play: Zhen Kaikai, Xiao Qing, Ouyang Yanyan and others Their marriages are not happy.
The reasons for their misfortune in their marriage are all related to derailment, but derailment is only a fuse. The real reason is not here. The most important reason is the lack of trust, tolerance, understanding and communication between the husband and wife...
Zhen Kai and Song Mingyuan’s marriage model: strong women and weak men
Zhen Kaikai and Song Mingyuan divorced because the husband cheated. Although the cheating is unforgivable, the little nanny in the family said that she was not as careful as Lele’s father in caring for the children. Song Mingyuan was not a good husband, but he was definitely a good father.
The two of them are typically strong women and weak men. You can see the inequality between the two and the strength of the woman from some small things.
Song Mingyuan said that she had an affair because she was less and less present with Zhen Kaikai. She always ignored his feelings as a man, didn't care about herself or cared about herself at all. Indeed, Zhen Kaikai is a workaholic. When he was tired, he was unwilling to even the normal life of a husband and wife, so he slowly pushed Song Mingyuan into the arms of other women.
Once, a family of three ate in a restaurant. Song Mingyuan has been feeding her daughter to eat, and Zhen Kaiyuan was busy with work even while eating. Originally, she met Song Mingyuan’s classmates. Song Mingyuan wanted to introduce her to her classmates, but she had no time to say hello. , Turned around to answer the work call, making the scene very embarrassing.
Of course, with Zhen Kai's and Song Mingyuan’s economic conditions, it is not easy to live and work in Beijing. Therefore, Zhen Kai’s working so hard is also for the family, for the family of three to have a better life, and for her daughter Leleneng There is a better future. As a husband, you should be considerate of her, and you can directly say if you are unhappy, so that the two will not break up. There is a basis for emotion between them, and they have come to this point because of the lack of communication.
Xiao Qing and Yuan Lei's marriage model: widowed
The marriage of Xiao Qing and Yuan Lei is a typical widowed marriage in China. Xiao Qing is the flight attendant and often flies abroad in the air. Her husband Yuan Lei is a martial arts instructor. She has been filming on the crew for many years. Due to the nature of her work, her daughter Xiao Chunni has been growing up with her grandmother in her hometown. A family of three lives in three places. Gathering less and more, each has its own life, and the three are wonderful.
Although Xiao Qing is middle-aged, she is very beautiful and has a temperament. Among her colleagues, a handsome little fresh meat enthusiastically pursues her. Xiao Qing, whose husband has not been around for a long time, was too lonely. She was afraid that she would not be able to resist the temptation outside, so she decided to go to the crew with her daughter Xiao Chunni. Who knew that when she went to the crew, she saw the very affectionate scenes of her husband and the young actresses of the crew.
The long-term separation of the couple not only makes their feelings indifferent, but it is easy for outsiders to take advantage of it. Xiao Qing looked glamorous, but actually had a hard time. No one took care of her when she was sick, and she only helped herself when her family had an accident. Her husband was just a decoration. Such a nominal marriage is difficult to maintain for a long time.
The marriage model of Ouyang Yanyan and Zhao Yaru: strong men and weak women
Ouyang Yanyan and Zhao Yaru have always had an outsider's marriage that looks very happy and happy. The male's career is successful, the female's gentle and virtuous, but with Ouyang Yanyan's resignation and the intervention of female colleague Susie, their marriage The relationship is on the verge of disintegration and is on the verge of divorce. Under the fiery pursuit of the young, beautiful and confident Susie, Ouyang Yanyan also has a subtle emotional change. Although there is no physical derailment, the mental derailment is also a derailment.
her husband’s excellence has caused Zhao Yaru to have a strong inferiority complex. She even found a private detective to follow her husband. Zhao Yaru loves Ouyang Yanyan too much. She feels that she has become fat, out of shape, not beautiful, and can't keep up with her husband in career, so she is extremely unconfident. When she discovered that the love rival was so good, she collapsed completely. When she heard the phrase "I like you too" said by Ouyang Yanyan alone in the car, it was the last straw that crushed the camel. So , She decided to divorce her son after the college entrance examination.
The most important thing to maintain a couple’s relationship is trust.If you lose trust, it is easy to create a crisis. Moreover, the relationship between husband and wife must be equal. Once the gap between the two is widened, this equality will be destroyed. Therefore, only like-minded people and common topics are a healthy relationship. Otherwise, even if they are barely together, they will be in harmony and can only be improvised.
The reason why the three marriages of"Meet Happiness" are not happy is very simple. It is not just cheating, but the most important thing is the lack of mutual tolerance and understanding. When one party becomes excellent, the other party must keep up with the other party. To make yourself better, only when two people make progress together can the relationship be more equal and the marriage happier and more stable.
Zhen Kaikai met Si Wenqu who was more suitable for her after the divorce. I hope she can summarize the lessons of the previous failure and reorganize a happier family with Si Wenqu. This is the real happiness!
