Author | Anxiang
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01
"Xiaohuanxi" has been broadcast until now, Liu Jing's disease has finally been diagnosed: breast cancer stage II. When
learned of this result, Liu Jing, who has always been calm and restrained, lost control in front of her husband for the first time: " never thought that I would get cancer. Cancer is an incurable disease. If it is not cured, what will Yang Yang do?"
Ji Shengli resisted the tears in his eyes, held his wife's hand tightly, smiled and comforted her: "Yang Yang is a big child, he should know that father's hard work is not easy for his mother. He also has the responsibility and bears everything."
In the first half of her life, Liu Jing wandered around for her husband's career and missed the growth of her son Ji Yangyang. This has always been a pity in her heart.
was transferred back to work in her son's senior year of high school. She thought she could make up for this regret. Who knows that the relationship with her son has just eased, and the illness has entangled her.
The second stage of breast cancer, the hope of a cure by surgery, no one can guarantee. Faced with this result, Liu Jing must have planned for the worst in her heart.
That’s why she chanted emotionally out of control: "I never thought I would get cancer." Compared with the other two mothers in the play,
is gentle and virtuous, elegant and generous, and gentle and considerate to everyone. In addition, she was supposed to be the least deserving of the disease, but fate made such a big joke with her. In
, she lost consciousness for a moment, but after the loss, what she worries most is not her condition, but her son. Then there should be relatives such as husbands and parents. When
reach middle age, few people live for themselves. More often, we live for the responsibility on our shoulders.
What should I do if the child has no mother? Although in a legal sense, he has grown up.
What if the husband loses his beloved wife? Will be heartbroken.
What happens when parents learn of their daughter's condition? That's the sorrow of a white-haired man sending a black-haired man. Each piece of
is all Liu Jing's heart disease. Even if she was unwilling, she could only wait for the trial of fate.
02
Compared with Liu Jing's serious illness, the middle-aged unemployment of Fangyuan does not seem to be the worst. But it was precisely this unemployment that made Fangyuan fully aware of the cruelty of reality. After being unemployed, Fangyuan repeatedly hit a wall in job hunting. He was upset. After hearing the news of Jin Yong’s death, he could no longer conceal the sadness in his heart. Finally, in front of his wife Tong Wenjie, he said something that made people cry:
"When I was young, I thought I would be Linghuchong. , Yang Guo, and Zhang Wuji, even if they were almost the same, it should be Guo Jing. Why am I not in the group now?”
Fangyuan is a middle-level leader of a company. He is optimistic by nature and has been living a Buddhist life and his career. There is not much ambition. He originally thought that he could grow old with a stable job, but he was the first to be fired when the company was merged and made great contributions. When
was young, everyone had a martial arts dream in their hearts.
In this dream, we are all knights with the protagonist's halo, fresh clothes, angry horses, happy enmity and omnipotence.
people in middle age, we understand that life is not a martial arts drama, there are not so many noble people support, and there are not so many turnarounds.
More often, there are accidents everywhere. Illness, unemployment, marriage failure, children’s education, as long as we are hit by any of them, we can be defeated.
At this time, the former colleagues met and still made half-truths with you, but there are very few who are really willing to help you. More often, they are afraid that, like Song Qian, they laughed behind Fang Yuan as a "soft rice man" who did nothing.
People in middle age are surrounded by people who have to rely on themselves, but none of them can rely on. When you look around in tears, you can truly understand the meaning of this sentence in Zhang Ailing's novel.
Men who have tears do not flick them lightly, just because they have not reached the point of sadness.
Fangyuan’s cry is much like ordinary people, wronged, helpless, and mixed with a little regret! He should also think, if he works harder, is it another result?
03
"Little Joy"The determination is very ideal, Ji Shengli never abandons the sick wife, Tong Wenjie, who supports the family alone, and the unemployed husband at home, never complained.
Liu Jing’s son, Ji Yangyang, even shaved his head after hearing the news that his mother was sick, to show his determination to accompany his mother to fight the illness.
But life is never a series. Faced with a sudden blow, the one who takes care of the household alone will often complain about the incompetence of the other half. When
learns that her partner is seriously ill, not only will she not face it with her, but will do everything possible to protect herself. What's more, it disappeared without a trace after selling the house on the grounds of fundraising.
This is the truth of life.
But those who choose to abandon the other half when they are in trouble, will they live well for the rest of their lives? I don't think so.
Tomorrow and accident, no one knows which comes first.
When you choose to stand on the opposite of morality and abandon the wedding vows, "Whether poor or rich, sick or healthy, smooth or frustrated, are willing to love her, comfort her, and protect her, one day, you will also Abandoned by morals.
is like a relative of mine, her wife said when she was suffering from cancer:
I also know that there is no point in treating this disease, but if he is not treated, I will get this disease myself. Will others also give up on me? At our age, it is too late to rely on the elderly and too early to rely on the children. The only thing we can rely on is each other.
is saved, and I am lucky. I can't save it, my life.
can speak for us. I am very moved.
can avoid anyone, but if you treat your family like this today, it is hard to guarantee that others will not treat you in the same way tomorrow. Instead of carrying a conscience debt for a lifetime, it is better to be nice to the person next to you. Maybe get through it, the next moment In addition to Fang Yuan and Liu Jing, Song Qian, the gold medal physics teacher played by Xiao Tao Hong in the play, holds four school district rooms. It seems that there is no need to worry about life, but she is the one who cries the most in the play.
After divorcing her husband Qiao Weidong, Song Qian raised her daughter Yingzi alone. In order to better take care of her daughter, she quit her stable job as a teacher and works as a remedial teacher in a training institution while taking care of her daughter’s life and studies.
A mother who wakes up in the dark and devotes herself to her children, but because of her daughter’s education problems, she was in a state of high mental stress for a long time. In the
play, she cried because her daughter gave Qiao Weidong’s girlfriend the bird’s nest that she worked so hard to eat; because of her daughter Reluctant to choose a school close to home to cry; because mother and daughter can’t reach a consensus to cry...
Almost all of her tears are for the sake of her children. From the mouth of her best friend Tong Wenjie, we can know that she still had the divorce right away. I have never cried because of her husband’s betrayal. The three families in the
play each have their own difficulties. The children in the play also have their own difficulties.
Qiao Yingzi is a schoolmaster, but she is unable to Get rid of the mother who has a strong desire for control; Lei'er is smart, easy to learn, and a proper student at Tsinghua University, but because his mother died early and his father married another, he had to live with his aunt; Ji Yangyang had been a left-behind child for many years, and finally hoped that Parents return, but in a blink of an eye they will be separated forever...
Living with us is really like a tragedy. After crossing this gap, we are waiting for the next hurdle. Fortunately, there are relatives who love us. Lin Dawei, a good husband in
"Juvenile Group", said: "Even if we have been together for so many years, there is no love, but when the children grow up, the waste is also consumed as family affection. Between relatives, I will carry you when you are tired, and you will carry me when I am tired. "
Ji Yangyang knows that his mother has cancer. He is not good at expressing himself, and he shaved a big bald head, telling his mother with practical actions that he will accompany her to lose her hair.
The world is not worth it, it is worth it with you. It’s easier for someone to accompany you. I hope you and I can be treated with gentleness by time, and I hope we all have the power to support ourselves.
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