Sun Li and Deng Chao have always been "model couples" in the entertainment industry. From knowing each other, falling in love, to entering the palace of marriage, until giving birth to Xiaohua, this family of four has attracted much attention.
In addition to seeing Deng Chao and Sun Li’s outstanding performance on the screen, in daily life, this couple is also an "excellent parent". Through waiting and Xiaohua’s daily performance, we can see the education of this family The "core" is worthy of learning and reference from many parents.
Recently, the new work "Guardians of the Galaxy" by Deng Chao and Yu Baimei's partner has also appeared on the big screen. While many people enjoy the movie, the performance of Deng Chao's son, etc. has made many netizens shine. Even boarded the hot search.
According to the news released by Sun Li, when Deng Chao was filming the movie, she took her children to the studio to visit the class. At that time, the most asked question by the children was: Why did they call my father to be father?
After a year, Sun Li thought that the children had grown up, but unexpectedly, after watching the premiere, she waited and asked her mother: Dad has a son, why should someone else play his son? What?
Many netizens may see this here, and they are all feeling that they are really "big people, little ghosts," and they are jealous when they see someone stealing their identity. This is about to stage a "fight for the father"......
but Have you noticed that this is actually the epitome of the family education of Sun Li and Deng Chao, which largely reflects the "core" of their children's education. What exactly is it?
The "core" of Deng Chao and Sun Li's education: children with "thinking" are better.
In traditional education, to a large extent, parents have a certain "desire to control". On the one hand, this "desire to control" "It is a kind of protection. I hope that children will move on the right path. On the other hand, this desire for control comes from the parents' own advantages. Whether it is money, experience or physical condition, they are more mature than children.
And this kind of "control desire" will give parents an illusion. If children do not listen to themselves, then they must be wrong. For a while, this situation will cause parents to impose their own thoughts on their children. Regardless of whether the child wants it or not, parents will always blindly believe that they are right and their children are wrong, and they are not allowed to have independent "mind establishment".
In this case, children often become uninspired and dependent on their parents. For some problems, they have no good views and cannot be solved independently.
On the other hand, Deng Chao and Sun Li’s views on childcare may be cultivated and established by their children’s thoughts. Their role in the parenting process is not to control, but to complete!
, etc. After watching the movie, the questions raised, and not only the questions raised at once, but also reflect the children's own views and cognitions on certain things, which are also part of the development of "self-directed thinking".
In addition, in a message sent by Sun Li before, Sun Li took the child to watch a stage play, about whether the mother is the most beautiful or the actress is the most beautiful, and so on and Xiaohua is sleeping There was a fierce debate before, and so on, she thought that her mother was the most beautiful, Xiaohua thought that the actress was a little bit more beautiful than her mother, in order to prove her opinion, and so on, even wrote a confession letter to her mother Sun Li...
so passed These examples, we can all find that in Deng Chao and Sun Li’s educational outlook, they will not impose any ideas and thoughts on their children. What they can do is to inspire and perfect children infinitely, so that they can become independent and independent. thought!
Therefore, as parents, we can also learn more about the parenting model and methods of this couple, to the greatest extent, to give children a broader stage, so that they can develop their own views and cognition of things. In this way, they will become better and better in the future.
Finally, I would like to ask everyone, what do you think about waiting to be jealous?
