seems to be an unknown philosopher who once said such a sentence: between the child and the mother, the mother is always an overloaded ship, despite the wind and waves, she is willing to go through all the hardships, which means mother's greatness and selfless dedication. . Literati and celebrities at home and abroad, both ancient and modern, praised and praised it from all angles. In today’s film and television dramas, works with the theme of praising mothers are also endless. This reminds me of Chen Yuqin, a mother in the TV series "Last Night Stars" that I watched many years ago.
I remember when I was fourteen or five years old when I watched this TV show. I was in the period of youth rebellion and didn't know the world. Like most children of this age, they are extremely tired of their mother's care and care, and they are tired of the house and the house. Naturally, they are more disgusted with the role of Chen Yuqin (that is, Axiang's mother) in the play, and dislike her all day long chattering and temperament. Being irritable; disgusting with her rough quarrels, she always yells at her children, unlike Zhou Jianbang's mother, who always speaks slowly to her children. Many years later, after I became a mother and experienced the hardships of raising children, I recalled the TV series I watched as a child and found it on the Internet and relived it. I couldn't help but sigh: Chen Yuqin is this one. People in the play who really deserve to be liked and admired by the editor.
In this show, Chen Yuqin, played by the famous actor Ma Zhiqin, is a single mother who takes her daughter Axiang to make a living by running a tea shop. Like many single mothers, the tremendous pressure of life makes her hot-tempered like many hardworking mothers, and her speech is full of hostility. But no one knows that there is a little-known secret hidden deep in her heart. This secret often jumps out to touch the softest part of her heart. This secret is her son who has been separated for nearly thirty years.
Thirty years ago, Chen Yuqin was still a kind-hearted, soft-tempered, and beautiful-looking poor girl. Qiu Mingyuan, the young master of the rich family, took the fancy of it. Because of the disparity between the two families, their marriage was naturally opposed by everyone. Impulsively, the two chose to elope. When the beautiful color of love is gradually concealed by the smell of life’s firewood, rice, oil and salt, life shows Chen Yuqin the cruelest aspect of human nature: Qiu Mingyuan takes her four-year-old son Qiu Weilong away, leaving her alone facing the bleakness of life. In the past 30 years, in order to raise her daughter, Axiang, how much she has suffered, how tired she has suffered, and how many people's eyes and criticisms have been suffered. I am afraid that she can't even remember how many nights she can sleep. In addition to hating the ruthless Qiu Mingyuan, I miss the son Qiu Weilong who was taken away by Qiu Mingyuan.
Chen Yuqin could have spent the rest of her life in hatred and miss, but the appearance of a person broke her original peaceful life, and that person was the terminally ill, Qiu Mingyuan who wanted to return to chaos.
First, Qiu Mingyuan asked the lawyer to come to the door, trying to make up for the debt owed to her; then her daughter Axiang got in trouble with the Qiu family, but all this was not what she wanted. The most she wants to see is the son she thinks about day and night.
There is an Indian proverb that is quite good, that is: everything else in the world is fake, only maternal love is true, eternal, and immortal. This is especially true in this drama, because it can span All time and distance. Chen Yuqin has been thinking of her son Qiu Weilong since the day he knew the Qiu family returned to the town, hoping to see him. She hated the Qiu family for opposing her daughter’s contact with the Qiu family, and hated the houseUpon entering the room, he demoted his daughter's friend Qiu Suyun as worthless and prevented her daughter's boyfriend Wu Yingqiang from helping Qiu's family, but immediately changed his attitude when he heard that it was related to Qiu Weilong. The rapid change in her attitude left her daughter and her boyfriend at a loss. Monk Zhang Er was confused. She couldn't hear any bad comments about Qiu Weilong. When she heard Wu Yingqiang scold Qiu Weilong as "not a thing," she immediately called to question Qiu Mingyuan, asking him why he taught his son so badly and let others call him not a thing. In order to get Qiu Weilong back home, she went to the karaoke where Qiu Weilong used to spend her money alone to find him, where she recalled how her son was when he was a child and imagined him now. However, it is regrettable that she rushed to the air this time and did not meet Qiu Weilong.
Chen Yuqin never dreamed that she would meet her son who had been separated for nearly 30 years under such a situation. That was when her daughter Axiang had a conflict with her boyfriend. She mistakenly thought it was Qiu Suyun who was making trouble. She went to the door in a desperate manner, yelling, and doing her best to insult Qiu Mingyuan and his daughter. Just when she was scolding vigorously, Qiu Weilong opened the door abruptly, and Chen Yuqin recognized at a glance that this young man was his son Qiu Weilong, who was thinking about it. Faced with her son who fell from the sky, she no longer had the confidence she had before. She didn't want her son to see the terrible self in front of her. She didn't know how to explain what was happening in front of her son. She could only look pitifully with the look of desire. With his son. Faced with her son who was pressing harder, she was speechless and retreated steadily, letting his son point her nose and call her a shrew and let her go. Finally she was completely defeated. She could only point to Qiu Mingyuan and drop a sentence: "This is your well-raised son." She ran away and ran away until she ran to a place where no one was able to lean against the wall. Cry.
The famous British writer Balzac once said: Mother’s heart is an abyss, and in its deepest place you will always be forgiven. Chen Yuqin, who was insulted and abused by her own son, could not withstand the sudden shock mentally, and suddenly fell ill. She couldn't believe that the one who scolded her shrew and made her go was the son who made her look forward to for more than 20 years. She was sad, and her heart was dripping with blood, which is something that cannot be expressed in words. I believe that people who have never experienced it will not be able to experience the piercing pain. She recalled the appearance of her son when he was taken away again and again, thinking of her son touching her face with his chubby hands at the time, boasting that she was the most beautiful mother in the world. She knew very well in her heart that she could not resent her son, nor could she resent her son in her heart. She could only find excuses in her heart to forgive her son over and over again, and finally she found a perfect reason for herself: that It was that he was too young when he left him, and he didn't remember his mother's appearance at all. If he could remember his own appearance, he would never have that attitude.
If Qiu Weilong's attitude towards Chen Yuqin was excusable before he didn't understand her identity, then when the truth of the matter was announced, his mother could not accept that he was so emotionally excited that Chen Qinyu was so emotional. . Not only did she ridicule Chen Yuqin, who came to take care of her dying father, but also drove her away. She even suspected that she was taking advantage of her father's critical illness to defraud her father's property behind her back. He even refused to believe that his uncle came forward to testify. Facing such a arrogant and arrogant son, Chen Yuqin could only silently swallow tears and grievances.
Qiu Mingyuan, who had hated her for a lifetime and spent a whole life of reading it, finally left. Chen Yuqin also gave up the property Qiu Mingyuan left for her and her daughter. The lawyer was transferred to Qiu Weilong's name and left without penny. Only then did Qiu Weilong think of Chen Yuqin's past, and believe that Chen Yuqin who really loves herself is her biological mother, and then she shed her sincere tears on Chen Yuqin and sincerely called her "Mom".
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Chen Yuqin finally won back her son with her sincerity. Recalling that the road she took to recognize her son was difficult, it was full of grievances and bitterness. In fact, think about it carefully, in the process of each of us getting along with our mother, all our mothers embrace us with her broad mind, endure us, and grow with us all the way. Just like the lyrics sung in the play: Tolerance in all things, endurance in all things, love is enduring patience. And what can we do for our mothers? It is to do our filial piety in time while our mothers are still by our side, so that our mothers can enjoy the happiness of family, don’t wait until "the son wants to support but not to wait." That sky left a legacy of hatred.