In this world, there is a kind of people who do not play cards according to common sense.
When everyone thought the earth was square, he jumped out to prove the possibility of other shapes;
when everyone thought online shopping was a wild trick, but some people did not believe in evil, he created a whole people Online shopping festival;
when everyone thinks that a mobile phone is a mobile phone and cannot replace a computer, there will be people who make an IPHONE that the world is crazy about;
when everyone has lived their lives as the standard process of getting married, having children and raising a family, but there will always be someone Traveling more than half of the earth, rich and open-minded, free and easy. The scarce resource
is, the more precious it is. The economic principle of
is the same in life. Those who are beyond our expectations will not only change the way we view the world, but also convey some warmth and a little happiness in the indifferent social reality.
I care more about what you need.
A year ago, my girlfriend A was changed positions by her leader. She and a subordinate exchanged positions, and the subordinate became her own leader. The aggrieved little A wanted to leave immediately. There are elders at home and young ones at the bottom, waiting for her to make a living, so she endured this tone. After the end of the Lunar New Year and starting work, suddenly the company issued a personnel order, and his department was assigned to another department. This time, not only did he change his leadership, he even changed his job.
Xiao A refreshed the online resume silently, and wanted to see if there were any opportunities outside.
Soon, the HRD of a company sent a job invitation to A. When A saw it, he added the other party's WeChat. HRD sent three professional questions and asked A to answer. With more than ten years of experience accumulation and learning experience,
Xiao A quickly knocked out a document and posted it. HRD was quite satisfied after seeing it, so he continued to chat with Xiao A. He said that he feels that Xiao A has a deep understanding of this industry. Although their boss recently requested that this position must have a background in the industry, he intuitively believes that Xiao A is a very good talent and wants to recommend her to other companies. , And immediately threw a business card.
He said, this person is the HR of a financial company, and they are hiring HRD. I will say hello to him first, and you will add him after the call.
Little A is a little surprised. She has never seen such an enthusiastic HR. If the candidate does not meet the rigid requirements, she usually rejects it directly. There is a lot of work in hand and a lot of candidates. How can I spare you time? pull.
Xiao A quickly thanked the other person, HR quickly replied to the message, saying I am sorry, the other company has just found a candidate for this position, and immediately sent a screenshot of the chat to Xiao A, who saw the chat history at a glance A sentence in the middle, "If you think that HRD is inappropriate later, you can consider this Miss A, she is really good." Although
has heard a lot of polite compliments, but Xiao A saw this comment My heart is pretty beautiful. She is also very curious, "You don't seem to ask me why I want to leave?"
"This is meaningless. I care more about what the job you really need and whether I can provide it for you, and I will continue to help you pay attention. "
Xiao A looked at it, and immediately felt that his heart was warm. Such HR is really rare.
Most of the HRs she has seen are in formality. The first question must ask why you want to leave. If you answer that you want to seek better career development, you may be considered disloyal and unstable. If you answer the company's organizational structure adjustment, you may be labeled as immature. , If you answer that you want to stay closer to home, they may think you are not ambitious. Although
was just a small WeChat conversation, it made Xiao A feel clear. At that moment, she also had new thinking about her career. The value of
HR is not only to select and cultivate talents for the enterprise as much as possible, and to prevent every unqualified person from being disappointed in the world, but also an added value.
A little kindness, but it illuminates a lost heart, to delight others, and to enjoy yourself.
my girlfriend smiled and said,Society has its own cold side, but it does not prevent it from being tender.
The best blessing is that you live better than me
I once had a leader who was different from most people at work. One of his subordinates has worked with him for 8 years. For 8 years, this subordinate has worked hard and fulfilled his mission. The leaders trust him.
One day, this colleague offered to resign, and the leader was surprised because he seemed to be very active all the time and showed no sign of leaving. In fact, he encountered a new job opportunity and wanted to try to challenge it. After a day of thinking, the leader of
did not make too much retention. He agreed, and helped this colleague get the corresponding compensation. When my colleagues left, I was very grateful.
Some people are puzzled and think that as a leader, shouldn't they try to keep talents for the company? The leader of
said: "In 8 years, he has spent the most golden time in his life for the company. We have also seen his growth. At this stage, he has found the right opportunity. I am very happy for him. This is the person I cultivated. . I can’t give that opportunity for the time being, why not encourage him to try?
As an HR, I want to see that everyone I recruit into the company can create value for the company, and at the same time they can also harvest and grow. If I can fly higher, I will try my best to fly up and realize the ideal of life. Isn't that great?" From him, I experienced conscience for the first time.
Professional development, people have their own ambitions, it is the most common phenomenon. He could have ignored it completely, but he was willing to plan his future for a subordinate and help him take the turning point in his life.
This is conscience and pattern.
While helping his subordinates to take a good career development path, he also taught the principles of life in a subtle way.
The best blessing is that you live better than me, the best gratitude is that you fly higher, and the best satisfaction is that you remember me.
This is the best predecessor relationship, and also the best career predecessor.
They are likely to inspire you to change the world
Han Hong, an already accomplished singer and musician, this time in the Hubei epidemic donation action, everyone is impressed, her appearance is like a clear stream , At the beginning of the panic 2020, sweeping away the haze of anxiety and helplessness, bringing us warmth and hope.
Someone said, Han Hong, you only sing, don’t you just have to sing well? You have to do some charity, you are exhausted, and you have all your hard-earned money. The most unbearable thing is that you have to endure so many questions. Vision. Do you regret it?
Han Hong said, there is no way to stand on the sidelines, this is not impulse. As an artist, why do you make so much money? If you don’t help those in need, make so much money and you can’t spend it all. Do you want to die and take it away? To be an artist is to do charity.
She is the mother of more than 280 children, a friend of countless suffering people, and a "lunatic" who deliberately defeated all family properties for charity.
In fact, she could have stood by and enjoyed the family happiness, but she shared all her wealth with those in need.
While benefiting countless people, she is willing to become poorer and poorer.
From Han Hong's body, we saw the power of kindness. The power of kindness is like the warm sun in winter, when it warms others, it also warms itself. The power of
is enough to help us break through the darkness and usher in the dawn.
Buffett once said: "The winners in history are often those who are mavericks. When everyone is doing something, he is doing another thing."
How much I expected At every unexpected moment in life, there can be a group of such unreasonable card players. Their appearance will not only change the way you look at the world, but may also change the way you spend this life. .
Conclusion
Adam Grant said: "If the few people had not listened to their inner rebellious intuition, the United States might not exist at all, and personal computers might not be popular yet. We probably still believe that the sun revolves around the earth."
It is habitually believed that only some people will have a major impact, and most people will eventually be mediocre. However, those who break the rules and change the world are not very different from you and me.
Lincoln is not born more innovative, nor is it more courageous to deal with controversy. The thinker Du Bois commented: "He is one of you, but he became Abraham Lincoln."
Yes, it is not important to follow the trend, those who are short and long are not important, and it is important to follow your inner voice.
Life will always break you down, let you disappointed, frustrated, and hesitate; but it won't abandon you, and give you hope, surprise and light.
is very fortunate that in this era, people who do not play cards in accordance with common sense exist bravely. They are always shining and illuminating others.
also inspires us to change the world.
About the author: sister Anne1, writes about the most common emotions in the world, and uses words to bring you warmth and strength.