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after New Year's Eve 8:00 mention, New Year's Day last changed on-line for free to the audience, Xu Zheng this can be described as a little "Shadow in the embarrassing way" mean the film "embarrassing mother" twists and turns, In the new day, Xu Zheng finally got his wish. We will not mention this wave of operations that premiered online, but the film "囧Mom" showed us a very real situation of mother and child getting along on the first day of the new year in 2020.
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Family affection is one of the most difficult emotions in life, and when we grow from ignorant years to middle-aged uncles, not only people are changing, but the relationship between us and our mothers and the way of getting along are also gradually changing. The protagonist Xu Yiwan of the
film "囧Mom" is in the midst of all kinds of complicated social conflicts. There are divorce stalemates, family disorders, and the relationship between Xu Yiwan and his mother. Relationship issues. Xu Yiwan's mother, Lu Xiaohua, has a major hobby in her life is singing. When she was young, she missed an important performance because of being late.
so many questions swarmed, but Xu Yiwan unexpectedly got on the train to Russia at this time. The main line of the film "囧母" was also concentrated on this journey of the train journey.
"Why do you persevere in transforming me? After so many years, don't you realize that I am not the person you think?" The line in
"囧Mom" may have struck us inexplicably Heart, the middle-aged person who has been able to fly alone or we are preparing to spread our wings, have we all thought about similar questions at some point, why does my mother always want me to be what she thinks of me, I am not , I can't do it, I don't want to do this, but my mother is still persevering, maybe she will be so stubborn all her life.
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If love is too full, escape soon.
Even if we have a family relationship where blood is thicker than water, control and restraint are still the biggest obstacles between you and me. We call this the "generation gap".
, the movie "囧Mo", originally scheduled for the Spring Festival file, has always enveloped the audience with a fierce and quarrelsome mood in the first half of the line. Mother and child are facing each other. Maybe we in life are not so fierce, but our hearts There are similarities with Xu Yiwan.
get along for too long, we have forgotten that both sides need to respect and understand each other; time is too fast, we can hardly see our mother’s pale hair hidden under the wig; there are too many quarrels, too much We don't care how much irretrievable harm will be caused by what we say. The
film "囧Mom" said: "Our starting point is love for each other, but this love is to hope that each other will live the way you want. Just like me to you, everyone is an independent individual Every individual should be complete. Love is not about controlling and taking, love is about accepting and respecting."
People are not dolls, they have their own thoughts, thoughts guide actions, and people are not a set procedure. He cannot always follow the steps in an orderly manner.
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Friends who have watched the movie "Chongqing Forest" should remember a line: "In fact, knowing a person does not mean anything. People can change. Today he likes pineapple, tomorrow he can like others."
and when the film "囧When the large-scale quarrel scenes in "Mom" appeared on the screen, it was to a large extent not the artistic creation or exaggeration of the movie. The reality of life may be even more intense. Some people say that understanding is the core of love, and family affection needs more than love.
"囧Mom" is certainly a comedy, but the core of the comedic coat is to push the truth of the world hard, to explore the current mode of family relationship and conflict barriers that exist, not to be funny, that section of Xu Yiwan The scene of being fed by my mother is actually very common in our lives.
Under independent individuals, different souls grow in catharsis, draw nourishment from family love, and then grow up to become a complete person with rich emotions.
Xu Yiwan said: "Being reasonable in a relationship is the biggest unreasonable." This sentence applies not only to love, but also to family relationships.
In the second half of "囧Mom", Xu Yiwan and his mother were attacked by bears. The mother-child family relationship became more enthusiastic during the crisis, and gave us more warmth in the cold winter.Warm, when the mother and son arrived at the Red Star Theater in a hot air balloon, the episode in the theater once again sublimated the whole film. The song "Red Berry Blossoms" brought "囧 Mom" to the final gorgeous curtain.
is the so-called: "Life is advancing in solving one problem after another." When the film "囧Mom" nakedly exposes family conflicts to our eyes, the real side of social life allows us to look directly at it, after six days and six. The night’s trip to Russia focuses on family affection, and the end of the family fun also requires our common thinking.
