It is often said that life is a process of suffering. Along the way, some people struggled and succeeded; some people struggled and disappeared. 01 Others only saw the result, and the only thing in the process was the fact that I was the only one who supported the news of the death of actor Gao Yixiang on the morning of November 27th.
Today, some netizens discovered that Gao Yixiang’s girlfriend updated the signature of her social account to: "whatever we are...You and I will always collide. (In any case, we will meet eventually.)" one after another saw some tragedies The details of the whole story, people can't help but pick up the pen. One o'clock. Gao Yixiang is recording the show "Chasing Me". During the running session of the show, he suddenly fainted. The last sentence left to the world is: "I can't do it." Before that, he had been working continuously for 17 hours. Some people say that when they saw him two days ago, they seemed to have a cold. Many people sigh: Life is impermanent, and the need to stop suddenly. Before his death, Gao Yixiang said in an interview: "I want to work hard while I was young. I hope that I will not have to work so hard in the future. I hope that after ten or twenty years, I can enjoy life and do my own things, because life is short. "However, as the writer Shelley wrote: Every year is always different, and eternity is unchanging and impermanence. Originally young and promising, his life will always be fixed in the winter of 35 years old. Coincidentally. Just a few days ago, Xu Yong, a senior editor of Xinhua News Agency, had a heart attack in the office, and he insisted on editing the manuscript before calling for help. The doctor regretfully said: Even if it is delivered 10 minutes early. A colleague wrote: "The coat is still on the back of the chair, and people suddenly leave." We often say: Life is hard, and you will win if you survive. But in this world, there will never be real empathy. You don't know how painful it is unless the needle pierces you. You can never realize what the other person has experienced, what is being endured, let alone whether he can really survive it. "Language of Floating Life" says: Sharing the joys and sorrows is a floating tea and also a life path. In this ups and downs of life, what others see is always the result, only one bit by bit of the process.
02 People in middle age had to admit that Cai Kangyong once asked Jackie Chan in an interview program: "Are you tired from making movies?" Unexpectedly, a sentence that didn't seem to bring any lethality would let Jackie Chan be there. Cried for 15 minutes. Later, in a program, I saw a member of the married class recounting: As the "Flying Tigers" in the martial arts, the results of the married class are hard work. In that era (the 1980s and 1990s), movies were very hard-hearted, and one foot was just one foot. If you make a big dangerous move, you might think in your heart whether you can go home tonight. After watching that show, I got some experience of Jackie Chan's tears. Liu Zhenyun once said in "One Sentence Is Ten Thousand Sentences": "Everything in the world can be picked, but days cannot be picked. All things in the world cannot withstand scrutiny. Every scrutiny hides grievances." Is it a glamorous star, or a passerby, everyone looks good, like a okay person. Even if my heart is full of holes, in the eyes of others, it is just a little bit more silent than usual. But in reality, everyone may be burdened with unimaginable pain and pressure. Qiu Chen once said in "The Story of Wonderful Flowers": Persistence may be a blessing and encouragement, but for terminally ill patients, holding on is really a curse. indeed so. At every stage of life, there may be obstacles that cannot be passed at that stage. Maybe it is the difficulties of life, or the difficulties of others. Just like the Sheng Nan played by Yao Chen in the movie "Send Me to the Blue Clouds". An ideal journalist tried to make progress, but was suddenly diagnosed with ovarian cancer. The surgical treatment cost 300,000 yuan. In desperation, a colleague introduced her to a job that could earn 300,000 yuan: writing a biography of a boss’s father. The boss was the person Sheng Nan looked down on most, so he didn't agree with him when discussing cooperation, and Sheng Nan tore the contract on the spot. After the incident, she chose to bow her head to apologize and write a book to Yunshan. Because the other party is holding his own life-saving money. Hayao Miyazaki once said: "When a person enters middle age, he has become a pig. After 30 years old, life is no longer a galloping horse, but a mountain climbing with a heavy load." Everyone can be in this. There were twists and turns on the way up the mountain. Learn to admit counsel to life, not because you lose, but to save yourself. Being willing to admit counsel to others is not your weakness, but letting go of yourself. The writer Zhou Guoping said: "God has given everyone a life, a heart, take care of their life, settle their heart, lifeThat is consummation. "When you are physically and mentally exhausted, you can move forward better when you stop. When you are unable to support you, you will have vitality. In the second half of life, you will never fight for wealth and fame and fortune, but maintain a healthy body and mind. After seeing the truth of the world, Still have the surplus and the courage to live in enthusiasm.
03 knows how to recognize counsels and live a good life at his own pace. The "Yan Hua Jing" writes: The heart is like a picture-worker, who can paint the world. People go further. In fact, the enemy is only yourself. Many times, you think you can’t pass the hurdle, but you just can’t pass the hurdle in your heart. I remember that Pu Shu once stood up and said: "Um...I'm getting older, it's time to go home and sleep. "Then left the scene. This move aroused the envy of many netizens: "Pu Shu can, but I can't. "It's true that when a person reaches a certain age, there are tigers in front and chasing soldiers behind, just like a pawn who has crossed a river, and can only move forward desperately. But in many cases, too much force is counterproductive. The string will break if it is too tight. People who hold on for too long will collapse. The most transparent people in the world: undoubtedly those who do not readily admit defeat, but dare to admit counsel. The best state of life is: find your own rhythm, recognize your own heart, and be calm Live this life calmly. I once watched a video that was hailed as "the best speech of the year": a four-minute video is enough for us to think deeply. Everyone has their own time zone, so you don’t have to hurry. No more Only by looking at the results and knowing how to estimate the risks will the future be long. Just like Gu Long said: vicissitudes are inevitable in the world, and sadness is inevitable in life. Cherish the process of life, don’t ask where you are going. People in middle age learn to recognize counsel, not cowardice, but It’s a sober self-knowledge, how to start better. Don’t be impatient, don’t care, don’t overdraw, because you have your own plan and your own rhythm.
Ending words Zhan Qingyun once said: Make Tang Monk become Tang Monk , It’s not the scriptures, it’s the way to learn from the scriptures. May you and I take care of yourself on this way of learning from the scriptures, and the sun will rise every day. May you and I work calmly and there will be a way forward in the day. But don’t donate, there will eventually be sea.
