"Our department only recruits men."
"Why does he only harass you? It's not that your skirt is too short!"
"You just look at your kids every day, what's the hard work?"
...
This society seems right Women are extraordinarily demanding. They are destined to bear all kinds of labels since they were born, and try their best to play each role to meet the expectations of others.
When you are young, you need to be a "good girl" for your parents; after you get married, you will be a "good wife" for your husband, and a "shun" for your in-laws. After you have children, you should focus on your children and become a competent "kind mother".
, even if he lives so hard, he still has to face all kinds of unfounded "maliciousness", especially in Korea. The film
brought today is adapted from the novel of the same name, which directly hits the issue of gender injustice in Korean families and society-
"Jin Zhiying Born in 1982"
Douban 8.7 points.
Kim Ji Young (Jung Yoo Mi) is an ordinary housewife. The husband of
(played by Kong Yoo) is a company employee, and his daughter has just turned two years old and is in the stage of clinging.
At the end of the year, a family of three returned to Zhiying’s mother-in-law’s house for the holidays. From the moment she walked in, she became a "nanny".
helped with cooking, cleaned the dishes in the sink, and looked at her mother-in-law winking every move.
While she was busy, other people in the family seemed to take it for granted. The mother-in-law was playing with her daughter while her father-in-law was watching TV.
finally stayed up until the night, but when I lay down, I heard my mother-in-law busy in the kitchen, so I got up and lied that I had enough sleep. The mother-in-law
took out the gift bag, and Zhiying took it happily before realizing it was an apron.
stayed until the next day, the sister-in-law's family came back, the mother-in-law greeted her daughter and said that she shouldn't work when she returned to her natal house, and instructed Zhiying to do various things.
Suddenly, Zhiying took off her apron, as if she had changed herself, and generally called her mother-in-law "in-law".
When everyone was stunned, her husband hurriedly took her away. On the way home, Zhiying woke up but couldn't remember what happened before.
It turned out that Zhiying suffered from postpartum depression, manifested as schizophrenia, and often became another person, sometimes a mother, and sometimes a deceased grandmother.
Generally speaking, the appearance of multiple personalities is often caused by something irritating or unwilling to mention the pain from the bottom of the heart. The cause of Zhiying's illness is the various unfair treatment that has been suffered since childhood due to the idea of "male superiority to female inferiority".
Zhiying was born in a typical "patriarchal family" family. The elders in the family always prefer the younger son,
is reluctant to let his 30-something brother carry things;
company sends benefits and only wants to bring one for his son;
father It is said that Zhiying likes to eat red bean paste bread, but in fact this is his son's favorite. Zhiying never eats red bean paste.
loves men in every possible way, but when facing girls, there is only harshness and disgust. When
was a child, Zhiying was followed by schoolboys in an attempt to indecently, but her father thought her skirt was too short; sister
Zhiying chose to be a teacher in order to save family expenses, and was accused by her aunt for not marrying. After
grew up, Zhiying, who left her original family and entered the workplace, was also hindered everywhere by her female identity.
is obviously more capable of being promoted to the planning department, but lost to men in the same department because the company believes that women need maternity leave to delay work. After
was urged by the families of both parties to give birth to a child, everyone naturally believed that Zhiying should take care of the child full-time, completely ignoring her enthusiasm for work.
is obviously the one who sacrifices work for the family, and only wants to go out and buy a cup of coffee for 1,500 won (equivalent to RMB 9), but is called a "mummy".
Mom Chong: Generally refers to women who bring a baby at home and rely solely on their husbands. The derogatory term
Zhiying finds herself more and more like her former mother.
's mother was not born as a mother. When she was young, she had excellent grades and was the most promising person in the family. However,
had to give up the dream of being a teacher and go out to work in order to study for the brothers.
waited until her elder brothers were married, and she became the "fertility machine" of her in-laws. After giving birth to two daughters and a son, she was still despised for having a son.
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Zhiying decided to return to work, and happened to run into a former boss to start a company and invited her to join. After
got a job opportunity, Zhiying, who was rejuvenated, was busy looking for a childcare wife. Her husband also decided to take "parental leave" to take the children at home.
However, after the news was learned by her mother-in-law, she called and scolded Zhiying for being selfish.
For a while, Zhiying once again lost hope in life, and her condition worsened again...
As for in the end, did Zhiying return to normal? Can I get support from my family and go back to work? Has the father’s "patriarchy" thought improved? I leave these questions for everyone to look for in the movie~
In fact, Kim Ji-young in the movie represents a group and is a microcosm of Korean women. They often find it difficult to balance the relationship between work and life. No matter which side they prefer, they will suffer mundane eyes. The
film has a resolute and capable female boss. She returned to work quickly after giving birth without delaying her progress. Even so, she was still ridiculed by her superiors and forced her to resign. A camera was installed in the female bathroom of
. The male colleagues not only didn't remind them, but also rushed to say that they looked at the voyeur photos with disapproval.
The novel "Kim Jiyoung Born in 1982" was boycotted by many men. It was confirmed that Jung Youmi, who appeared in the movie, was criticized on the Internet. The girl group member Irene who read this book also revealed that some fans uploaded and burned her photos. Video to the Internet.
is just a book that triggers such a polarized discussion. One can imagine how cruel real life is. Because
is a female, being sexually harassed is because of your improper dress. Being dismissed by the company is that you may have children and delay your progress.
Is it the original sin to be born a "female"? No, what is wrong is those deformed three views.
