went home during the Chinese New Year. Unexpectedly, the topic has always been around "What specialties have the children learned", "How are the elderly", and "Which hospital has the best technology for medical examinations". Unconsciously, old age has become a topic we have been thinking about.
A group of students from Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou talked about "Beijing Middle-aged under the Influenza" which was screened on New Year's Day: A Beijing family with an annual income of about one million, and his father-in-law was suffering from the flu, because he did not know a few people. The hospital was eventually killed by the "unknown virus".
In the serious medical information mismatch, the author’s careful thoughts are considered to “overestimate his ability to operate in society”; after his father-in-law entered the ICU, he spent an average of 30,000 a day. In less than a week, the couple discussed selling the house in Beijing. .
Those of us who are working outside have a wry smile: the so-called middle class, fragile jokes.
We share this article time and time again, because we realize that if
does not have enough sense of preparation, this is the seemingly decent, but terrifying old age that we must go through.
friends really started to keep in good health. Try to eat as much vegetables as possible, give up taking a taxi and walk home, and do not ask KTV to change the appointment to climb the mountain together.
Because "women in their 30s, especially those who have given birth, have not had pelvic floor treatment, who have not had any breast hyperplasia and uterine fibroids, who have never experienced dizziness similar to cerebral infarction"?
Middle-aged knocks in various ways, but few people accept that “slowly middle-aged” is the twin of “old age caught off guard”.
My friend Gong was a bank executive in Nanning. The year before, her father suddenly entered the ICU in a car accident. She stayed at night for more than ten days, feeling that she would fall down at any time.
At the time, what she was thinking about was "just an only child, and when she is old in the future, the child will have time to guard this way, and how long can she guard it? Even if he is filial enough, how can she be willing to live a life in order to guard himself? Are you crippled?" People born in 80 will be nearly 40 this year.
If you want to take care of Buddhism, you must think wolfishly today.
What conditions need to be met for the chic and unrestrained elderly
During the Spring Festival of 2018, I almost did not update, because I was too diligent throughout 2017, at least I hope I can rest during the New Year.
I even watched the Spring Festival Gala with my in-laws and husband, and the sketches of Cai Ming and Pan Changjiang left me a little impression.
probably means that the retired old couple Cai Mingpan Changjiang decided to take the driver’s license test together because they wanted to "travel by car and spend the old age in a chic and smart way." "China" has been put on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, at least it proves that it is no longer a very isolated special demand, but a general demand.
In 2017, there was a scene in the film "Love and Dating" directed by Zhang Aijia that made many people cry like dogs in the cinema.
The father played by Tian Zhuangzhuang drove a new car to pick up the officially retired mother Zhang Aijia. My mother was very puzzled about the way the car came. My father said, "I think back then, we listened to Xu Wei's song. You said, when you are old, you can have your own car to travel around China. That would be great...
Now, Xu Wei The song is still there, and the car is there. Why, are you out of interest?" The
mother cried and laughed, screaming for a long time, "Don’t allow Mrs. Wang (neighbor, who has a slight relationship with his father) to take this car !" There was a roar of laughter in the
movie theater, and then everyone shed tears in the shaking of the dusk.
But after being moved, I think about it carefully, I think everyone still listens to Xu Wei's songs too much, "Always young, always tears in my eyes", self-driving, is it really the best match for happy old age?
A few days ago due to work relations, the movie "Love Before Memories Die" watched in advance, perfectly answered this question.
It shows a possibility of getting old, which is also related to self-driving, but not all romantic. The
movie shows a pair of old American couples Ella and John, starring Helen Mirren and Donald Sutherland.
To be more verbose, Helen Mirren is a British national treasure actor. He has played the Queen of England many times and is also the queen of the 79th Academy Awards. I like her very much. She is 73 years old this year. That temperament is really interpreted by life. What is "growth gracefully".
Donald Sutherland is a Canadian veteran who won the Golden Globe Award for Best Supporting Actor and is also a lifetime Oscar this yearAchievement award winner.
of their age and experience, they performed the final journey of life of "Tsundere Rebellious Old Girl" and "Literary Silent Old Man", which is particularly reliable.
John’s Alzheimer’s disease made his memory worse and worse, but as a literary teacher and writer, he forgot the names of his wife and children, but blurted out all of Hemingway’s works.
This alone is particularly attractive to me, you know. A person who understands love, humanity and romance.
's wife Ella will be sent to the intensive care hospital, and John will be sent to the nursing home. This time, the correct choice that seems to be a decent and healthy society actually means the eternal separation of the two. The wife of
made a decision and drove the old RV The Leisure Seeker (the English name of the movie) from Massachusetts, all the way north to Hemingway's former residence. This process of
is very unromantic.
First of all, they are madly DISSed by their children, and their children think they are all snakes. (Thinking about it in another way, it's really uneasy to have such parents).
Their doctors are completely crazy. If such a person goes on the road, it is not taking their lives.
overcomes so much resistance, how good is it to travel by car?
is absolutely love in the whole way, and met the robbers.
just solved the robber problem, and encountered a car puncture, so he pulled directly to the abandoned parking lot. What's terrible is that the old man has amnesia! Always ask, where are we?
even lost his wife, and asked, "What more bicycles?" (How handsome was the old man, the old woman had to endure this old age...)
These are not things. The point of
is that both parties have had an unprecedented in-depth understanding of the whole process, and even discovered an extramarital affair that has been hidden for a lifetime. This incident of
made the whole trip take a turn for the worse.
I like this movie because it does not whitewash the sunset red love at all—because this is the last journey, and during this journey, it is full of traces of the whole life.
Even the deepest love on the verge of a farewell, is full of contradictions and doubts.
But in these conflicts, there is the most unforgettable nostalgia.
Teacher Guoping Zhou said that when we call each other as lovers, we call with all our passion; when we call each other as family members, we call with all our life experiences.
When you were young, you said that I don’t want a partner, and I respect you independent women; when you are old, I don’t want anyone. I think you just don’t have an objective view of life.
recommends everyone to go to the theater to watch this "Love Before Memories Die", this movie took the 74th Venice film
and the whole movie was laughed with tears, warm and touching. The final ending of
is unexpected but reasonable. I even think it is one of the most painful and beautiful old age endings in life.
need to set
in advance in old age. So, when we talk about a good old age, we are realistically speaking, what are we talking about?
I think there are at least the following points.
① Wealthy
want to travel by car. First of all, there is an off-road vehicle that emits 2.5 and is 80% new? There are many conflicts between young people and old people. When we are young, we can't DISS the original family every day to be independent. When we grow old, we will deprive our children of their lives.
Rich old people are at least free old people who are not bullied.
money is hard currency with dignity in old age.
② Healthy
is too realistic. The suffering of the flesh, whoever has eaten it, knows, money is useless, no one can replace this suffering, and it can destroy the mind of a person. Not to mention the strong will, the reality is only the fragile body. If
is not healthy enough, remember to set up some papers in advance to avoid excessive medical treatment or prevent extreme situations, and never lose control of your body.
③ Keep up with the times
You can observe that parents who are living well now must know a little bit about online payment and remote booking APP navigation. It does not mean that he loves technology, it represents a kind of curiosity about life. Always keeping curiosity is an important way to resist the years.
④ A partner
is best to have a wife, not necessarily the only one in a marriage, nor the wife who has received a marriage certificate, but it is best to have a wife and both parties have common interests and pursuits.
If you don’t have a heterosexual partner, thenNeed a bunch of sincere partners.
When people get old, they will degenerate into a baby's mind. Think about a baby who is left unanswered in an empty room. Loneliness is enough to destroy an old man. The beautiful old age of
can actually be achieved by the fulfillment of many destinies, but this fulfillment must include our internal drive and initiative.
uses this standard backwards and asks yourself, do you pay enough attention to health now?
