Recently, Aso has been waiting for a film whose "amazing physique" has caused a series of bloody storms from screenwriting to release. Not only was it resisted by South Korean actors, but one of the main actors, Zheng Yumi, was also attacked. Tucao, insults, and some people say that this movie is the end of her acting career.
I want to make such a movie must be a bit of a background, right? No, the protagonist is just an ordinary woman named Jin Zhiying.
"Jin Zhiying Born in 1982"
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Jin Zhiying, an ordinary name, nothing more ordinary. There is nothing special about the heroine of this common name in appearance, family and life.
She was born in a traditional multi-population family. Although she is not as traditional as the previous generation of women, she is not a feminist pioneer. From birth to work, her life path is extremely ordinary. The university chose a major suitable for women. After graduation, she followed the advice of her family and found a stable job. Then she naturally fell in love with the seniors in the university, got married and had children, and became a housewife.
In fact, Jin Zhiying's life is the epitome of most ordinary women: He never did anything earth-shattering when he was a student. They have a good iron rice bowl, their families live and work in peace and contentment, with sufficient material conditions, and their lives are pretty good.
But this is an ordinary movie about ordinary women. Why did it cause an uproar?
Because Jin Zhiying looks ordinary, in fact, there are hardships behind him.
The woman who stings the nerves of the country
Life is full of sacrifices. One day at the age of 35, when Jin Zhiying suddenly went mad, she began to be "possessed" by her mother and sometimes grandmother. These people seemed to control her consciousness and said something she couldn't explain.
For example, at a family gathering, Jin Zhiying accidentally called her mother-in-law "in-law", followed by a series of unimportant verbal attacks: "Please forgive me for taking the liberty, but I still don't want to say a word. You. Is it important for your family’s family to get together? Since your daughter can go back to her natal house, we should also let her come back!"
In more and more similar cases, Jin Zhiying always speaks in someone else’s voice, and the husband realizes that his wife is suffering from depression disease. During the treatment process, through Jin Zhiying’s conversation with the doctor, the cruel facts were revealed bit by bit. It turns out that Jin Zhiying's normal and ordinary life can be maintained because she is at the expense of "self".
She became the second child of the family when she was born. Her family orientation is embarrassing because her parents dote on their younger brother and take care of their sister, but she is often ignored.
grew up, her educational philosophy is not to snatch my brother's toys, not to eat his snacks, because "you are sensible, let your brother". Does
sound familiar? But whether it is "You are older, you have to let the small ones" or "boys first", adults are reluctant to say it, and ignore it. They treat different people as children.
As a student, Jin Zhiying was subjected to the invisible rule of "male first" in school. When being bullied by boys, most of the students were boys, and the principal called it "because they liked it." In junior high school, two girls caught a showman, but they were recorded as "shameless" by the school. .
school likes boys and parents like them too. When he went home and told his father, he was not comforted but scolded:
"Girls must be careful about everything. Dress conservatively, behave appropriately, avoid dangerous times and crowds. Otherwise, it is his own fault."
No matter what happens , We all have to find the reason from ourselves. The teenager Jin Zhiying grew up in such an environment that emphasizes "reflection". She was very careful, thinking that she finally got rid of the school's prejudice, but encountered greater injustice in society:
responsibility in this field, from the beginning of the interview, men are easier than women. In addition to their own work, women who have just entered the workplace are also responsible for making coffee and organizing documents, etc., because in the male consciousness, "women are born to do this."
After finishing this job, Jin Zhiying had to deal with the job market rules, secret photos in the toilet, sexual harassment in the workplace, disgustingFor meals, the male boss poured wine and ate their "tofu". Her heart was depressed but she didn't dare to resist, so everyone around her said: "Get married, and you will be better after getting married."
But she is really married, and no one cares about her marriage. Just urge to have children. Naturally, Jin Zhiying was pregnant and her daughter was born. Because of taking care of the child and her family, she was forced to sacrifice her career and quit her job and go home.
After all, men earn money to support their families, while women take their children home.
So far, what should I do? It seems that life is always in a passive choice, forced to marry, forced to give birth and forced to resign. Everyone assumes that she is obligated to sacrifice for the family, but ignores the independent identity of daughter, wife and mother.
is even more sad that Lian Jin Zhiying forgot this.
From childhood to education, Jin Zhiying subconsciously reflects and obeys. She is used to becoming a victim of sister, classmate, employee, wife and other identities. If her husband suddenly helped her with housework, she would feel sorry.
Finally, I experienced a gradual humility, step by step to let others trample on their bottom line. For more than ten years, unfair treatment has been taking her to sleep, and finally lost her "self" completely at the age of 35.
Who is Kim Ji Young?
"Kim Jiyoung Born in 1982" is adapted from the original work of the same name by South Korean writer Zhao Nanzhu. The novel is not long and only has more than 100 pages of tissue paper. As far as readability is concerned, this book is not literary. It only records the first half of Jin Zhiying's troubled life.
However, since the publication of such a very ordinary novel in 2017, most of the voices that have been controversial and abused are from men. In their view,
does not have to perform military service or assume certain social responsibilities. Women are the vested interests of society, but this book still accuses society of being unfair to women, and the sacrifice of women and the devaluation of tolerating men are not worth mentioning. This is a deliberate provocation of the "gender war."
Because of these controversies, the original work became banned in Korea.
Irene and Bae Suzy not only have a large number of fan comments on social platforms, because they recommend this novel in public to express their disappointment. More extreme people will burn photos and destroy everything around them to draw a line from them. After
was announced in the movie of the same name, not only the heroine Zheng Yumei was involved in it. Some plump, idle men also plan to raise money to shoot a movie called "Jin Zhixun Born in 1982", "so that women can see their difficulties"
From the publication of the novel to the film screening, the internal and external contrasts of the story have formed. A non-existent verbal irony: In a patriarchal society, men are the real vested interests and gain huge benefits from exploiting female values. At the same time, I am ashamed to admit the fact of inequality.
To be honest, Jin Zhiying's life is not very good, nor is it very bad. From birth to work, she may be happier than most women. Regardless of status and status, we can more clearly see the sacrifices and compromises experienced by women in their growth.
This sacrifice and compromise has become the absence of the entire society.
Kim Ji-young and his children bought a cup of 1,500 won coffee in public with Won Sun Sun Taeyang, which was regarded by the workers as a "bug mother". "I also want to drink the coffee my husband earned and hang out all day long."
There are countless examples of women of the same fate in East Sanya, no matter how many dreams they sacrifice or give up for their families. These efforts are neither recognized nor respected. They became pregnant in October, and they did not hesitate to die in order to have a baby. For this reason, I gave up my life and myself, but became a bug.
"Jin Zhiying Born in 1982" has nothing to change a woman's fate. It only reminds everyone that in the first half of an ordinary woman's life: those who live by our side, she and every sacrifice they make for the family Should be seen; society’s denial of their self-worth must also be changed.
