Zhuang Tunan is definitely the pride of heaven that everyone admires and loves in the alley. He has been favored by Zhuang Chaoying and Huang Ling since he was a child. He has good grades, and he has not fought or fought since he was a child. He is also pretty good-looking. , well-behaved and sensible, especially Song Ying. For Zhuang Tunan, she wished that he could become her son. She wished that she could give Lin Dongzhe a brother like this so that this skinny monkey and sky monkey could be obedient. Although Lin Dongzhe is still naughty in these years, At least he wasn't allowed to be as naughty as Xiang Pengfei.
Lin Dongzhe once said, "My parents like Tunan brother first, Zhuang Xiaoting second, and me third..." It can be seen that Song Ying and Lin Wufeng really like Zhuang Tunan. And Zhuang Tunan was admitted to Tongji University. Even Zhuang Chaoying was very proud of studying at the top of such an ivory tower. Even because of Zhuang Tunan's good achievements, he began to understand Huang Ling's original "selfishness". Even grateful to Huang Ling.
In that era, college students were very valuable. Zhuang Tunan was able to achieve good results thanks to Huang Ling and Zhuang Chaoying who began to vigorously train them after the college entrance examination was resumed. Compared to people like Li Yiming and Song Xiangyang, Zhuang Tunan was lucky. Many, and after he arrived at university, he was also very lucky. If it were not for the influence of his parents, Zhuang Tunan would not be where he is today.
But Zhuang Tunan is actually the most selfish one in the whole drama. Why do you say that? Let's take a look at Zhuang Tunan's actions and we will know that the reason why he is selfish is actually related to what he has heard and heard since childhood:
Is Zhuang Tunan selfish?
I believe everyone knows who Zhuang Tunan’s grandparents are. They are extremely partial and selfish. They have three children, but the treatment of these three children is completely different. The eldest son Zhuang Chaoying was raised by them to become the "eldest son". Let him earn money to support the family. They often educate Zhuang Chaoying, "You are the eldest son and the eldest brother. If you eat less, your younger brothers and sisters will eat more. This is your responsibility and obligation." Everything is right, so he has always been ruthless and cruel to his family after his marriage, without fighting or grabbing. Even though he only had a quilt and a washbasin when he got married, his younger brother Zhuang Ganmei had a grand wedding and even almost killed them. His wife's trousseau sewing machine was taken away, but he didn't care. Later, he handed over all his wages to his parents. If he didn't get half back after giving birth to a child, and then got back two-thirds, Zhuang Tunan and Zhuang Xiaoting would have starved to death.
They were even more cruel to Zhuang Hualin. That was their daughter. They actually let her grow up on the dining table and didn’t even have to sleep on the floor. Finally, they asked her to give up the opportunity to enter the machinery factory. His brother Zhuang Qianmei, but when Zhuang Hualin returned to Suzhou, they ignored Xiang Pengfei and blamed everything on Zhuang Chaoying's family.
Zhuang Chaoying also inherited the selfishness and partiality of her parents, but Zhuang Chaoying is better. He is stupid and filial, but he is not a fool. The reason why he is stupid and filial is actually selfish, because he was bewitched by the false name of "eldest son". This filial eldest son has a false reputation. He doesn't care about the life and death of his family. I can only say that Zhuang Chaoying is really speechless. It wasn't until the family was almost out of control that he asked his parents to take back the 25 he gave them every month. Only then did he realize how selfish and terrible his parents were, and they completely used him as a tool to take advantage of him.
Zhuang Tunan has to face such a family relationship. It is in this environment that he has heard and heard about it. In fact, he has already learned to be selfish, or he has already carved this "tradition" into his own life. Inside the bones. Of course, his father and even his grandfather also taught him this. A drop of water can penetrate a stone, and it will take more than a day to freeze three feet of ice. Zhuang Tunan's selfishness can be seen from several things.
acquiesce to parents' preference for sons over daughters
In the banker, the phenomenon of favoring sons over daughters is very serious. This can be seen from the difference between Zhuang Hualin, Zhuang Chaoying and Zhuang Qimei, and Zhuang Tunan really likes to go to his grandparents’ house In it, even since he was a child, he has not rejected it, and even likes it, because when he goes to his grandparents' house, he doesn't have to work or study, and he even has food to eat. Of course, the main thing is that he can put food on the table and Huang Ling prepares the New Year's Eve dinner. He wasn't even qualified to serve on the table, and that didn't change until Zhuang Tunan was admitted to a prestigious university.
In the summer vacation of Lin Dongzhe’s sophomore year of high school, Zhuang Chaoying took her son, daughter and nephew to her parents’ house. At that time, Zhuang Xiaoting and Xiang Pengfei were unwilling to go. Zhuang Xiaoting deliberately found reasons not to go, but Zhuang Tunan said that he should go. Yes, he knew clearly that his grandparents were using him to show off, so he was naturally willing to go, because it not only satisfied his vanity, but also allowed him, the eldest grandson, to show off.
But Zhuang Xiaoting knew who her grandparents were since she was a child, so she made excuses not to go. As a result, Zhuang Xiaoting was slapped by Zhuang Chaoying. The slap was fast and hard. If Lin Dongzhe hadn't blocked it for her, Zhuang Xiaoting would have Have to be knocked unconscious No, his brother, who was in his twenties, just stared blankly at this. Was he hesitating whether to disobey his father? He was closer to Zhuang Xiaoting, but it was Lin Dongzhe who directly and decisively blocked Zhuang Xiaoting. Why didn't he slap Pengfei, but Zhuang Xiaoting? It means favoring boys over girls.
Of course, there is nothing to say about the virtues of Zhuang Chaoying's parents. The most important thing is that at home, Zhuang Tunan and Zhuang Xiaoting are brothers and sisters, but this one has learned in some aspects what his father taught him, "You eat less, your younger brother and sister "Just take one more bite" is the "family motto", but the person above was really not polite when he ate it. When he was a child, his ration was twice that of Zhuang Xiaoting, but this person still didn't have enough to eat, so he even had to eat what Zhuang Xiaoting gave him. He was still rude, completely different from Zhuang Chaoying.
If there is anything good in the family, they must stick to this precious son first. There is no doubt about this. Huang Ling and Zhuang Chaoying did treat Zhuang Tunan in this way, but this one did acquiesce in their family's preference for sons over daughters. He was the beneficiary, so he naturally remained silent.
pressing parents
Zhuang Tunan was admitted to university, and the Zhuang family was naturally overjoyed. Later, Zhuang Xiaoting was actually admitted to university, but her treatment was completely different from that of Zhuang Tunan. Zhuang Tunan could get a university degree every year. Red envelopes, every month the family would spend a lot of money so that he could study safely in school, so he hardly suffered any hardship during school, and even had some spare money to fall in love. In addition, he also After Xiang Pengfei failed the college entrance examination, he also gave him money.
But Zhuang Xiaoting was different. Before she went to college, there was actually a huge crisis in her family. The textile factory was not performing well, many old employees were laid off, and Huang Ling's salary could not be paid. Zhuang Chaoying broke up with her parents because of this. , he no longer gave them the 25 yuan he gave them every month. It is precisely because of this that Zhuang Xiaoting went to college and worked part-time every weekend, buying and selling plastics with Lin Dongzhe. They made a lot of money, part of which was sent back home, and part of which was used for their own expenses.
Under such circumstances, Zhuang Tunan still had a "quiet time" in college. Later, he did not care whether his family had money to support his studies. He continued to study in graduate school, and life at home naturally became more and more difficult. If it weren't for Xiang Pengfei's support and Zhuang Xiaoting's money, he might not have been able to finish the graduate school. All he could say was that he was exploiting his younger siblings and parents.
Let his sister Zhuang Xiaoting fulfill his filial piety, and he helps Li Jia
Compared with Zhuang Tunan, he did not consider whether his parents could withstand the financial pressure and directly chose to take the postgraduate entrance examination, leaving all the financial pressure to his parents. This is actually more excessive. The matter is still behind, he went to study by himself, and the matter of filial piety was almost left to Zhuang Xiaoting. Zhuang Xiaoting made money while studying, and even went home to take care of her parents during holidays and help with housework. In fact, she has always done these things since she was a child. As for the big one, Zhuang Tunan has never participated in it at all.
And Zhuang Xiaoting’s She showed her filial piety even after she graduated. The latter was assigned to work in Suzhou, while Zhuang Tunan stayed in Shanghai to work. Even though the distance between the two sides was not far, he rarely came back, and Zhuang Xiaoting took care of her at home. Of course, after Lin Dongzhe and Zhuang Xiaoting got married together, they worked hard to go to Shanghai, but the frequency of their return home was still much higher than that of Zhuang Tunan.
The textile factory failed, and Huang Ling applied for a leave without pay. job, he later chose to be a bus conductor, working on Xiang Pengfei’s car. Xiang Pengfei’s driving was quite profitable, and he relied on “price breakthrough” to stock up on a lot of grain, rice, oil, home appliances, etc. Xiang Pengfei made money by buying and selling products and was very generous. He not only gave it to his aunt, but also gave Zhuang Tunan a few hundred yuan to fall in love in school. Three hundred yuan was not a small amount at that time.
However, Zhuang Tunan later succeeded in starting a business because two monkeys, Xiang Pengfei and Lin Dongzhe, planned to raise 50,000 yuan. Selling tape recorders, after all, prices were breaking through at that time, and many things were profitable, and tape recorders were considered a rare item at the time, at least not popular, so they planned to make a fortune from it, and Zhuang Tunan only passively joined under their persuasion. , did not contribute much effort, let alone any money, but in the end he was given 20,000, but not a penny of the money was given to his parents. Even though he later borrowed money from Pengfei to start a business, he still had a lot left. Not to my parents at all.
Zhuang Tunan stayed after graduation. Working in Shanghai, he met and fell in love with Li Jia. They came together, but Zhuang Tunan left all the good things to Li Jia. Li Jia had previously plotted against Zhuang Tunan when he was an undergraduate, and later plotted against him again. , using his money to buy another house, and to ease her own loan repayment pressure, Zhuang Tunan gave her twenty to thirty thousand, which was not a small sum at the time.
He completely fell In order to support his younger brother Mo, he helped Li Jia's younger brother and parents, but he turned a blind eye to the suffering of his parents. It seemed that they had always lived a good life, just like Zhuang Chaoying, but Zhuang Chaoying was at least right about his biological parents. But he forgot about his biological parents. When he was with Li Jia, there would be her family in the future. He would rarely have his own parents in the future. Zhuang Tunan is definitely the pride of heaven that everyone admires and loves in the alley. He has been held in the palm of his hand by Zhuang Chaoying and Huang Ling since he was a child. He has good grades, and She has never fought or fought since she was a child, and she looks pretty good, well-behaved and sensible, especially Song Ying. For Zhuang Tunan, she wishes that he could become her son. She wishes that she could give Lin Dongzhe such a brother, so that this skinny monkey, Chuan Tian Monkeys are obedient. Although Lin Dongzhe is still naughty these years, at least he is not as naughty as Xiang Pengfei. Lin Dongzhe once said, "My parents like Tunan brother first, Zhuang Xiaoting second, and me third..." It can be seen that Song Ying and Lin Wufeng really like Zhuang Tunan. And Zhuang Tunan was admitted to Tongji University. Even Zhuang Chaoying was very proud of studying at the top of such an ivory tower. Even because of Zhuang Tunan's good achievements, he began to understand Huang Ling's original "selfishness". Even grateful to Huang Ling. at In that era, college students were very valuable. Zhuang Tunan was able to achieve good results thanks to Huang Ling and Zhuang Chaoying who began to vigorously train them after the college entrance examination was resumed. Compared to people like Li Yiming and Song Xiangyang, Zhuang Tunan was much luckier. And after he arrived at university, he was also very lucky. If it were not for the influence of his parents, Zhuang Tunan would not be where he is today. But Zhuang Tunan is actually the most selfish one in the whole drama. Why do you say that? Let's take a look at Zhuang Tunan's actions and we will know that the reason why he is selfish is actually related to what he has heard and heard since childhood: Is Zhuang Tunan selfish? I believe everyone knows who Zhuang Tunan’s grandparents are. Chu, they are extremely partial and selfish. They have three children, but the treatment of these three children is completely different. The eldest son Zhuang Chaoying was raised by them to be the "eldest son" from an early age, allowing him to earn money to support the family. They often taught Zhuang Chaoying, "You are The eldest son is the eldest brother. If you eat less, your younger brothers and sisters will eat more. This is your Responsibilities and obligations of ” . So Zhuang Chaoying, who had been brainwashed since childhood, thought that all this was right, so he has been ruthless and cruel to his family after marriage, and did not fight or rob him. Even when he got married, he only had a quilt and a washbasin, and his younger brother Zhuang Qianmei got married. He was so arrogant that he almost took away his wife's trousseau sewing machine, but he didn't care. Later, he handed over all his wages to his parents. If he didn't get half back after giving birth to a child, and then got back two-thirds, Zhuang Tunan and Zhuang Xiaoting would have starved to death. They were even more cruel to Zhuang Hualin. She was their daughter. They actually made her grow up on the dining table and didn't even have to sleep on the floor. Finally, they asked her to give up the opportunity to enter the machinery factory. His brother Zhuang Qianmei, but when Zhuang Hualin returned to Suzhou, they ignored Xiang Pengfei and blamed everything on Zhuang Chaoying's family. Zhuang Chaoying also inherited the selfishness and partiality of her parents, but Zhuang Chaoying is better. He is foolish and filial, but not He is a fool. The reason why he is stupid and filial is actually selfish, because he was bewitched by the false name of "eldest son". For the false name of this filial eldest son, he did not care about the life and death of his family. I can only say that Zhuang Chaoying is really speechless. ,straight When he got home and it was almost too late to open the pot, he asked his parents to take back the 25 yuan they gave them every month. As a result, he turned against his parents. Only then did he realize how selfish and terrible his parents were, and they took him as a complete use. tool. Zhuang Tunan has to face such a family relationship. It is in this environment that he has heard and heard about it. In fact, he has already learned to be selfish, or he has already carved this "tradition" into his own life. Inside the bones. Of course, his father and even his grandfather also taught him this. A drop of water can penetrate a stone, and it will take more than a day to freeze three feet of ice. Zhuang Tunan's selfishness can be seen from several things. acquiesce to parents’ preference for boys over girls In the banker's house, the phenomenon of favoring boys over girls is very serious. This can be seen from the difference between Zhuang Hualin, Zhuang Chaoying, and Zhuang Ganmei. However, Zhuang Tunan likes to go to his grandparents' house and even beats him when he is young. I don't reject it, I even like it, because when he goes to his grandparents' house, he doesn't have to work or study, and he even has something to eat. Of course, the main thing is that he can serve the meal. Huang Ling can prepare the New Year's Eve dinner and even be qualified to serve it. Nothing happened until Zhuang Tunan was admitted to a prestigious university. Lin Dongzhe is a sophomore in high school During the summer vacation of that year, Zhuang Chaoying took her son, daughter, and nephew to her parents' house. At that time, neither Zhuang Xiaoting nor Xiang Pengfei wanted to go. Zhuang Xiaoting deliberately found a reason not to go, but Zhuang Tunan said that he should go. He clearly said that he should go. Knowing that his grandparents are using him to show off, he is naturally willing to go, because it can not only satisfy his vanity, but also allow him, the eldest grandson, to show his face. But Zhuang Xiaoting has known who her grandparents are since she was a child, so she made excuses not to go. As a result, Zhuang Xiaoting was slapped by Zhuang Chaoying. The slap was fast and hard. If Lin Dongzhe hadn't blocked it for her, Zhuang Xiaoting would have been knocked unconscious. No, his brother, who was in his twenties, just stared blankly at this. Was he hesitating whether to disobey his father? He was closer to Zhuang Xiaoting, but it was Lin Dongzhe who directly and decisively blocked Zhuang Xiaoting. Why didn't he slap Pengfei, but Zhuang Xiaoting? It means favoring boys over girls. Of course, there is nothing to say about the virtues of Zhuang Chaoying’s parents. The most important thing is that at home, Zhuang Tu Nan and Zhuang Xiaoting are brothers and sisters, but this one has learned the "family motto" taught to him by his father in some aspects: "If you eat less, your younger brothers and sisters will eat more." There is no politeness. When he was a child, his ration was twice that of Zhuang Xiaoting. But this guy still didn't have enough to eat and even had to eat what Zhuang Xiaoting gave him. He was still rude, completely different from Zhuang Chaoying. If there is anything good in the family, they must stick to this precious son first. There is no doubt about this. Huang Ling and Zhuang Chaoying did treat Zhuang Tunan in this way, but this one did acquiesce in their family's preference for sons over daughters. He was the beneficiary, so he naturally remained silent. Squeeze parents Zhuang Tunan was admitted to university, and the Zhuang family was naturally happy. Later, Zhuang Xiaoting was actually admitted to university, but the treatment was not as good as that of Zhuang Tunan. It's completely different. Zhuang Tunan gets a big red envelope every year , every month the family would spend a lot of money so that he could study in school without any worries, so he hardly suffered any hardship during school, and even had some spare money to fall in love. In addition, there were After Xiang Pengfei failed the college entrance examination, he also gave him money. But Zhuang Xiaoting was different. Before she went to college, there was actually a huge crisis at home. The textile factory was not efficient, many old employees were laid off, and Huang Ling's salary could not be paid. Zhuang Chaoying had a quarrel with her parents over this. , he no longer gave them the 25 yuan he gave them every month. It is precisely because of this that Zhuang Xiaoting went to college and worked part-time every weekend, buying and selling plastics with Lin Dongzhe. They made a lot of money, part of which was sent back home, and part of which was used for their own expenses. Under such circumstances, Zhuang Tunan still had a "quiet time" in college. Later, he did not care whether his family had money to support his studies. He continued to study in graduate school, and life at home naturally became more and more difficult. If it weren't for Xiang Pengfei's support and Zhuang Xiaoting's money, he might not have been able to finish the graduate school. All he could say was that he was exploiting his younger siblings and parents. asked his sister Zhuang Xiaoting to fulfill his filial piety, and he helped Li Jia Compared with Zhuang Tunan, he did not consider whether his parents could withstand the financial pressure and directly chose to take the postgraduate entrance examination. It is actually more excessive to leave all the financial pressure to parents The matter is still behind, he went to study by himself, and the matter of filial piety was almost left to Zhuang Xiaoting. Zhuang Xiaoting made money while studying, and even went home to take care of her parents during holidays and help with housework. In fact, she has always done these things since she was a child. As for the big one, Zhuang Tunan has never participated in it at all. And Zhuang Xiaoting's filial piety was even more important after she graduated. After she graduated, she was assigned to work back in Suzhou, while Zhuang Tunan stayed in Shanghai to work. Even though the distance between the two sides was not far, he rarely came back, and there was no one at home. It was Zhuang Xiaoting who was taking care of her. Of course, after Lin Dongzhe and Zhuang Xiaoting got married together, they worked hard to go to Shanghai, but their frequency of returning home was still much higher than that of Zhuang Tunan. Textile factory failed, Huang Ling took a leave of absence without pay, and later chose to be a car conductor, working on Xiang Pengfei's car. Xiang Pengfei's driving was quite profitable, and he relied on "price breakthrough" , stocked a lot of grain, rice, oil, home appliances and other products to buy and sell. Xiang Pengfei made money and was very generous. He not only gave it to his aunt, but also gave Zhuang Tunan several hundred yuan to let him fall in love in school. Three hundred yuan was not a small amount at that time. However, the reason why Zhuang Tunan succeeded in starting a business was because Xiang Pengfei and Lin Dongzhe, two monkeys, planned to raise 50,000 yuan to resell the recorders. After all, the prices were breaking through at that time, and many things were profitable, and the recorders were considered a rare commodity at the time. , at least not popular, so they prepared to make a fortune from it. Zhuang Tunan also passively joined under their persuasion. He did not contribute much effort or money, but in the end he was allocated 20,000 yuan, but the money was not He didn't give a penny to his parents. Even though he later borrowed money from Pengfei to start a business, he still had a lot left over and didn't give it to his parents at all. Zhuang Tunan stayed in Shanghai to work after graduation, met and fell in love with Li Jia, and they came together, but Zhuang Tunan left all the good things to Li Jia. Li Jia had schemed against Zhuang when he was an undergraduate. Tunan later plotted against him again and used his money to buy another house and relieve her own loan repayment pressure. Zhuang Tunan gave her twenty to thirty thousand, which was not a small sum at the time. . He completely became a brother-supporting demon, helping Li Jia's younger brother and parents, but turning a blind eye to the suffering of his parents. It seemed that they had always lived a good life, just like Zhuang Chaoying, but Zhuang Chaoying was right about herself. His biological parents, but he has forgotten his biological parents. With Li Jia, there will be her family in the future. He will rarely have his own parents in the future.