Huo Jianhua and Ma Sichun have cooperated again!
This time, the two returned to school and performed a story about "youth and regret".
Yesterday, at the premiere of the movie "About Winter", many stars were invited to the show. After
watched the movie, Yang Zi shared her feelings: "I was very touched, crying all the time, just like in the movie, it’s enough to see the right people three times, and it’s useless to see the wrong people 300 times. Love is regrettable, right." The national brother Liu Haoran of
also said: "Meeting the right person at the wrong time is really good fortune."
Yes, love is regrettable. How many people have watched the movie. After that, I remembered my first love. The shallow thoughts of
during the youthful years, without any impurities, are simple and beautiful, just like the lines in the movie: "If you miss me, you must let me know; if you love me, please tell me loudly "
Later, as time passed, we grew up, love was mixed with reality, and it was no longer so pure.
But even so, we will never regret the decisions we have made. When we grow up, the outlines in those memories may be blurred, but the sincere and frank heart will never be obliterated by the years.
That is the warmth and beauty in the years, the love does not know where it originated, and it continues to deepen.
02
is a little missed, that is,
knows that there is a topic: "Why do first love basically break up?"
's highest praise answer: "Because when you first love, you only know to love, but you don't know how to love."
I am young, so I don’t control my emotions, and I always show the worst aspect to the closest people; because I’m young, I don’t express my love, and I make the wrong feelings. I don’t know that love is "understanding, tolerance, trust, and Accompanying." When we were young, we always felt that the days were still long. If we didn't say anything this time, we still have a chance next time. What we didn't do this time, we can do again next time.
But sometimes, a miss is a lifetime.
Japanese TV station once planned an event for everyone to record a video of their past self. The 76-year-old single Akimoto Hideo recorded a passage to his 24-year-old self:
"Hi, Hideo! I am 76-year-old you. , How are you doing now!"
"You will meet a girl in the company, her name is Xiaohua, her face is super small, she looks super cute, you have never had a relationship with the opposite sex, so you suspect that you are worthy of others, so you have been hesitant to ask No marriage is required."
"If you have love in your heart, you must act immediately! Because Xiaohua will fall ill in two years, and then leave this world, you will regret it, extremely sad, and you will never forget it."
"So you Until the age of 76, I will be alone, never married, so, Xiufu, you tell me dear Xiaohua, in my whole life, the most beloved woman, there is only Xiaohua you! Hua! I Love you!"
said in "About Winter": "All the deaths in this world are better than births."
But in fact, whether it is birth or death, we will not be better, so if there is still Opportunities, please firmly grasp, do not leave the opportunity to the next time, do not leave your life with regrets that can never be recovered.
03
The order of appearance in life is really important.
Zhang Xiaoxian once said:
at the right time, meeting the right person is a kind of happiness;
at the right time, meeting the wrong person is a kind of sadness;
is wrong At the right time, meeting the right person is a sigh;
meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is a kind of helplessness. There is a line in the movie
: "In front of life, love always bows your head."
is very cruel, but also very real.
Many times, the most powerless thing we can do is to meet the right person at the wrong time.
The goddess of the Republic of China, Ruan Lingyu, committed suicide because she wrongly gave her feelings to two scumbags. Later, someone looked back on this past and discovered that Ruan Lingyu and the director Cai Chusheng had a delicate relationship. The two of
have worked together in a movie, and they appreciate each other. Unfortunately, this relationship did not appear at the right time.
Ruan Lingyu was hurt by two scumbags and slandered by the media. CaiChu Sheng has a wife and his career is thriving. It is absolutely wrong to stand up and protect Ruan Lingyu behind him at this time.
During the filming of "Ruan Lingyu", the director asked a question: "If Ruan Lingyu and Cai Chusheng really break through everything and come together, will the ending of Ruan Lingyu be different?"
Unfortunately, there is no if, all this is The fantasies of our descendants, when we are living in the same place, we have no way to discuss love.
The order of appearance in life is really important. When you meet the right person at the wrong time, the final outcome can only be a dead end.
04
cherishes the words, and after watching the movie, maybe many people think of their first love, think of the beauty of students, and think of the regrets in love.
However, there is another line in this movie: "Everything is the best arrangement for destiny."
In our relationship, we make choices time and time again, and every small choice will affect the development and development of this relationship. The ending, whether it is to the end or to the end without a disease, all of these are our own choices.
Many times, we cannot forget the past because we have regrets.
is more sad and regretful because it cannot be changed and controlled, but these negative emotions are our irresponsibility for the present and the future.
The past has gone with the wind, and the regrets of the past, let it pass, as it was sung in "About Winter": "Without you, I will cherish myself more; without me, you have to take care You yourself."
said, cherish each other, and for the rest of my life, I will definitely cherish the person before me.
