Xie Meilan finally said the word "divorce". In fact, since Xie Meilan's mother passed away, her marriage to Shen Lei was already destined to end. A girl with a high spirit grew up dependent on her mother. But at the last moment, not only was she unable to pay for better medi

Xie Meilan finally said the word "divorce".

In fact, ever since Xie Meilan's mother passed away, her marriage to Shen Lei was destined to end. A high-spirited girl grew up dependent on her mother. But at the last moment, not only was she unable to pay for better medicine for her mother, she even asked her husband to ask someone to help find a bed, but she was refused.

This hurdle is very difficult to overcome.

But in Shen Lei's opinion, he and Xie Meilan have a very good relationship, and he is also very good to Xie Meilan, and there is no problem between them. Shen Lei had no idea how long Xie Meilan had been brewing the word "divorce" in her heart.

TV series " Mortal Song ", only after watching Shen Lei "suspicious" Xie Meilan three times can we know how "incompetent" he is.

Shen Lei’s first suspicion.

Shen Lin once reminded Shen Lei that after Xie Meilan's mother passed away, she never recovered, and asked Shen Lei to pay more attention to Xie Meilan. Shen Lei verbally agreed every time.

In fact, Xie Meilan was fed up with Shen Lei driving her in that dilapidated electric car that made no noise except the horn. She was always worried about being stopped by the traffic police, so Shen Lei just refused to buy the car.

After Xie Meilan found out she was pregnant, she suggested renting a larger house. Shen Lei felt that it was unnecessary to spend thousands more on rent. They could live well in the current house of less than 30 square meters.

Xie Meilan wanted to buy a cemetery for her mother. Shen Lei asked him to buy the cheapest flower bed for burial. Xie Meilan was disappointed and left without saying anything. Afterwards, Shen Lei never mentioned the matter again.

Disappointments in marriage are accumulated one after another. When disappointment accumulates too much, it becomes despair.

In fact, Xie Meilan was not desperate for Shen Lei. As long as Shen Lei treats her more politely, her heart will still soften. However, just when Xie Meilan was about to relent, Shen Lei saw the chat history between Xie Meilan and Lu Jie.

Shen Lei suspected that Xie Meilan was having an affair with Lu Jie. Instead of questioning Xie Meilan directly, he followed Xie Meilan secretly and blocked Xie Meilan at the entrance of the hotel and made a scene.

After returning home, Xie Meilan threw all the meeting materials and the recorder in front of Shen Lei to prove to him that she was meeting clients at work. Shen Lei also used Lu Jie to lend money to treat Xie Meilan's mother. He said that if Xie Meilan had nothing to do with Lu Jie, why would Lu Jie give Xie Meilan 400,000.

These words really hit Xie Meilan’s pain point. Xie Meilan told him that because to Lu Jie, 400,000 was nothing at all, and he would not even agree to help find a hospital bed.

Shen Lei refused to ask for help to find a hospital bed for his mother-in-law because he felt that this would be a debt of favors that he could not repay at all. This is the hurdle that Xie Meilan cannot overcome. If we really try our best to do something, then no matter what the result is, we will be blameless.

If you don’t try your best just because you are afraid that you will not be able to repay the favor, this is unforgivable cowardice and incompetence. As for Shen Lei, not only did he not do it himself, he also doubted the person who could do it effortlessly.

Shen Lei’s second suspicion.

If Shen Lei suspected Xie Meilan for the first time, it was because of his preconceptions after seeing Xie Meilan's chat history. It was an instinctive reaction as a husband.

Then when Xie Meilan took out the meeting materials and the recorder, this suspicion was enough to be dispelled. In fact, Shen Lei also knew that Xie Meilan would not do anything inappropriate. Otherwise, he would not hold Xie Meilan and cry bitterly, begging her to give him another chance and return to the way things were before with her.

But when Xie Meilan said that their relationship had broken down long ago, Shen Lei pulled Lu Jie out again. He asked Xie Meilan:

The relationship had broken down. Was it Lu Jie who asked you to say that? Do you dare to say that it has nothing to do with him? If it weren't for him, would you be so anxious to divorce me? Would you just abort your child and mine?

No matter how Xie Meilan explained that the divorce was a problem between the two of them and had nothing to do with anyone else. It was because she didn’t want to live such a life anymore and she couldn’t see hope in him. Shen Lei kept saying that Xie Meilan was because of Lu Jie Just anxious to get divorced.

Until the end, Xie Meilan was so angry that she admitted insincerely that it was because of Lu Jie. Shen Lei felt proud as if he had finally been proven right, saying that Xie Meilan was finally willing to tell the truth.

and people like Shen Lei, no matter how powerful the evidence you present, or how heartfelt your explanation is, it is useless, because he just wants to make it true that "you are attracted to someone else", he You have to be forced to admit it personally. Only in this way can he become the innocent one who was let down.

If there is a problem in marriage, of course it cannot be your fault. It is you who owe the other party. The other party must be sorry for you, and then he can stand on the moral high ground, continue to be content with the status quo, and continue to say with peace of mind that she has changed. , it’s not that I’m useless.

However, what is a person who dare not face up to the problem and admit his mistakes if he is not incompetent?

Shen Lei’s third suspicion.

Even though Shen Lei forced Xie Meilan to admit that she had an affair with Lu Jie, he did not happily sign the divorce agreement. He told Xie Meilan in a sinister way that he wanted her to wait. The longer Lu Jie waited, he would Love her more.

In fact, he just didn’t want to get a divorce, and just wanted to drag Xie Meilan with him. Even if Xie Meilan told him from the bottom of her heart not to make things difficult for each other anymore, so that we could get together and stay together, he just didn’t want to let go.

Lu Jie found Shen Lei and wanted to give him a sum of money to sign, but Shen Lei still refused. Moreover, Shen Lei said something very interesting to Lu Jie:

Don’t think that you can look down on others just because you have a few bad money. You are nothing before the law.

What is the subtext of this sentence? As long as he doesn't sign the divorce agreement and doesn't agree to divorce Xie Meilan, then in a legal sense, Xie Meilan is his wife. No matter how poor he is, she will still be his wife. However, no matter how rich Lu Jie is, he can't get Xie Meilan.

This is exactly his true mentality of wanting to consume Xie Meilan. He doesn’t want a divorce, nor does he want to take responsibility for the breakdown of the marriage, nor does he want to work hard towards what Xie Meilan wants. His main point is that we are a legal couple with a certificate. No matter what I do, as long as I don’t agree to the divorce, you can run away. Don't fall off.

You said that with such a marriage and such an attitude, can Xie Meilan not despair?

After arriving at the unit, Shen Lei confidently called Xie Meilan and accused her of letting Lu Jie go find him. Xie Meilan repeatedly explained to him that it was not she who asked Lu Jie to go, but Shen Lei just refused to let him go. He said that Xie Meilan was too scheming, and the more she acted like this, the less he would let her succeed.

This further proves that for people like Shen Lei, it is useless for you to explain to him. Once he identifies what it is, he must put this hat on you. Then his next behavior will be "justified".

Shen Lei just wanted to prevent Xie Meilan from getting divorced and wanted to rely on the legal marriage relationship to occupy the moral high ground, so he had to base his behavior on suspicion of Xie Meilan and Lu Jie.

As for whether Xie Meilan really has anything to do with Lu Jie, it doesn't matter. What matters is that he has to stick to his suspicions to the end, so that he can feel at ease.

But a man, when his wife handed him the divorce agreement, he only wanted to rely on the law to hold the woman back. How incompetent must this man be? How desperate would his wife be?

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