Hello, I am Queen Meier who has "recently gained insights into life".
The women in "The Legend of Zhen Huan" each have their own life trajectories, and it seems that they cannot be simply described as good or bad.
It is precisely because of their colorful splendor that we never tire of watching this drama and never come back.
Although their lives are different, there are some commonalities worth discussing.
For example, in terms of whether you like yourself, you can find: The more you like yourself, the more happiness you will get.
01
Concubine Hua was of noble birth. Her brother Nian Gengyao assisted the emperor in ascending the throne. This honor was rare in the entire government and the public.
Concubine Hua's appearance is stunning, which also gives her a great advantage.
Under normal circumstances, she should live a relatively free and wanton life.
However, Concubine Hua relied too much on the emperor's favor and pinned her own value on the approval of others.
She could not accept the emperor's neglect.
Although the more I watch "The Legend of Zhen Huan", the more I hate the polygamy system.
But Concubine Hua, who was born in that era, had to accept the emperor's neglect in order to live a better life.
If she had not relied too much on the emperor's love and approval, maybe she would not be so miserable and desperate in the end.
02
An Lingrong, came from a humble background and had low self-esteem everywhere.
She tried her best to get ahead, and fought hard every time she tried.
For example, they study singing, make spices, practice ice games, and even harm their own bodies to achieve their goals.
She not only hurts herself, she also hurts others, even other people's lives.
There are many people who left because of her, such as Zhen Huan's first child, Sister Mei, and the children of wealthy nobles.
There are some more, welcome to add...
It can be said that An Lingrong has never truly accepted his own origin and personality. He always tries to cater to others, but loses himself.
It seemed that she had never been truly happy in her life, and in the end she died with nothing and unwillingness.
03
After experiencing hardships and setbacks, Zhen Huan gradually discovered that she is the most important.
From the moment she understood that "the emperor is not as real as a pot of charcoal fire", she embarked on the path of exploring herself.
began to feel that the emperor's words and deeds were more important than anything else. In the end, he planned and acted for his own goals.
is no longer led by others, but follows his own wishes and lets others be his helper.
You will find that although Zhen Huan has experienced a lot of hardships, she never gives up on herself, looks down upon herself, and never hates herself.
It was she who loved herself and worked hard in life, and finally gained a foothold in the palace and gained relatively more happiness.
04
How important is it for a person to like himself?
If you encounter failure, you will not blame yourself, and you will move forward at full speed in the direction of victory.
When faced with grievances, he will comfort himself, take a nap, and continue on the next day. When
encounters criticism, he will hug himself and tell himself that it is other people's perception and it does not mean that he is not good.
People who love themselves will spend less time entangled and internally, and they will be able to afford it and let it go.
Because they know that in this world, if you want to get more happiness, it is more reliable to rely on yourself ~
I am Queen Meier, in the vast sea of people, I am grateful to meet you.
See you in the next article~
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Author: Queen Meier
Don’t delay reading and watching dramas, live freely, and be your own king~
