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If it were you, what kind of ending would you give "We Are Not Kind Enough"?
Jian Qingfen got divorced and completely dumped He Ruizhi; although Rebecca was suffering from cancer, she was not alone when she was dying. There was a young girl named Yu Xiangli who stayed with her wholeheartedly and could not be beaten away; Jian Qingfen and Rebecca reconciled, There is no longer any intersection between men, only the resonance between women and women.
This kind of ending is certainly very satisfying, but I always feel that it is not so real, and more of just our own unrealistic reverie. How can everything in life be according to your plan? Is Jian Qingfen that powerful? Is it possible for Rebecca to be indestructible? She also has her vulnerabilities. Does Yu Xiangli really love Rebecca that much? Can he survive the test of his own humanity?
So, from this point of view, although the ending of "We Are Not Kind Enough" is unsatisfactory, if you think about it carefully, it is actually quite human and quite real.
Currently, the rating of "We Are Not Kind Enough" on Douban has dropped from 9.0 to 8.3. The first four episodes were so popular that the rating went straight to 9.0. People who follow the show are praising that even Taiwanese dramas have risen to this level. Level? However, the finale of the last two episodes left drama fans in a state of shock: Is this all
? What exactly is being played? Why is the screenwriter so cliched? How come the topic of conversation still revolves around men when two women are together? And what's going on with He Ruizhi? Can just saying "I love my wife very much" wash away his cold violence towards Jian Qingfen? How could it be love? How could
rebecca be so miserable? Do you deserve to live alone if you don't get married? What is the existence of rebecca? Are they just Jian Qingfen and He Ruizhi's tool from beginning to end? Is it to highlight how rare and valuable their love is? And Jian Qingfen, was she still so love-minded at the end that she couldn't see clearly the reality of her marriage? How come He Ruizhi has forgotten about you in the past 12 years? One sentence will move you to tears.
It is precisely because of dissatisfaction with the finale that the ratings of this drama dropped significantly.
I wrote down my understanding of the finale. You can just read it for yourself.
rebecca suffering from cancer is actually expected.
I don’t think rebecca is a representative of single older women, rebecca is just herself. Her life experience was quite pitiful. She had not been loved since she was born. She and Jian Qingfen were not born in the same year, month and day, but her mother randomly gave her a household registration. Her original family was very miserable. Her parents were not mentioned in the play, only she and her brother depended on each other.
rebecca has been living a life of displacement, being criticized and hated.
She wore smoky makeup when she was young, but in fact she was just hiding her true self.
She also tried to live a good life. When He Ruizhi proposed to her, she called He's mother and asked if she could marry He Ruizhi. Mother He's answer gave her the answer. It's true that she gave up everything on her own, but will she be able to live well if she just fights for it? It's difficult, everything just ends up making things difficult for yourself.
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She lacks love, of course she longs for love, which is out of reach in her heart. Do you still remember the overlapping dream between Rebecca and He Ruizhi? Rebecca took the key to He's mother's house to revisit her old place. After walking up the stairs, she heard Bu Bu's voice. Then He Ruizhi pushed the door open and Rebecca choked with sobs and said, "How about five dishes and one soup?" The "day after day" that Jian Qingfen is tired of is the life she wants but cannot get.
This is the happy life that every person who lacks love hopes to live.
It’s not about how good the marriage is, but that Rebecca longs for a family of her own, and He Ruizhi is not as important to her as family. Rebecca, who is single, has dated 12 boyfriends. After breaking up with He Ruizhi, she indulged herself for a long time. In addition, she worked day and night, and sometimes just had a meal. She was not that relaxed, so she had to Cancer seems to be expected.
If Rebecca can love herself well and let go of her obsessions, maybe she will live a happier life.
does not necessarily mean that the screenwriter has a grudge against older single women. She is reminding everyone that you still need to have a healthy routine and a good attitude, love yourself well, and maybe the disease will not come to you.
rebecca's cancer is cruel and tragic, but when you think about it, it fits her personality quite well.
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Where is Jian Qingfen? Do you just forgive He Ruizhi?
Let’s first look at how Jian Qingfen’s marriage came about? It was she who tried to please He's mother, played some tricks, and then managed to get married to He Ruizhi through compromise. Of course she knew how He Ruizhi loved Rebecca, and she also knew very well that Rebecca didn't love her that much, but she regarded He Ruizhi as an ideal marriage partner. What did it matter whether He Ruizhi loved her or not?
Jian Qingfen still overestimated her tolerance for a loveless marriage.
It turns out that I finally got it and snatched happiness from my love rival, but my life was not so satisfactory. Those of us who are not kind enough are of course talking about Jian Qingfen, who is not that kind in her treatment of Rebecca. She didn't get along so well with her mother-in-law. She was a little submissive before marriage. After marriage, she was extremely bored with her mother-in-law, but she had to obey her.
What does Jian Qingfen’s marriage tell us?
If you choose a marriage yourself, then all the suffering you suffer is caused by yourself. So, don’t beautify the love you think too much. If you think you will be happy, then you must not have a good life.
But Jian Qingfen loves He Ruizhi too much. This is her personality. As long as He Ruizhi gives her a little sunshine, she will feel that her life is so brilliant.
is actually quite sad. She has returned to her previous life, but she may not be able to live a good life.
I don't think the message "I love my wife very much" sent by He Ruizhi is love. It is just He Ruizhi's gratitude to Jian Qingfen in the current situation. When Rebecca sent the message "Do you like my breasts" to He Ruizhi, He Ruizhi came home late at night. In front of him was a room full of clothes, sheets and quilts. He Ruizhi sat in front of his mother and sent this message.
He is not a good husband, but he is a good person. He has no choice and does not allow himself to have any contact with Rebecca again.
is meaningless, and is even more obvious. In the final analysis, He Ruizhi loves his own . The past between
and Rebecca has long passed, and what is before him is the real life he has to face.
Of course he had no choice but to refuse, because he still needed Jian Qingfen to help him with many things. At the end of the finale of
, Jian Qingfen looked through Rebecca's phone and found the text message sent by He Ruizhi. Then she couldn't wait to drive straight to He Ruizhi. She called He Ruizhi, and He Ruizhi told her "drive carefully". She cried ferociously and felt that she I finally found and felt love, and the journey was really bumpy. How could
be love?
"Drive carefully" is just "drive carefully".
Their subsequent life will not be good. Jian Qingfen is still hers, trapped in the cage of marriage day after day. Whatever He Ruizhi does in the future, Jian Qingfen will feel guilty. Who told her to cheat on her? Your cheating husband still lets you go home, what else are you dissatisfied with?
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As for why Xiang Li didn’t choose Rebecca, it’s actually quite humane.
Jian Qingfen asked him: Can you imagine how fragile, helpless and scared she was at that time?
Yu Xiangli replied: What should I do if she dies? What would she do if I couldn't bear to give up halfway?
Of course he liked Rebecca very much, but he didn't go so far as to disregard himself for her.
He still has a long life, but what about Rebecca? He died soon after suffering from cancer, and the process may not be bearable for him. There are so many people in the world who love you enough to give everything for you. We more often weigh the pros and cons and think about whether we can bear such a life.
Xiao Xianrou never abandons his terminally ill sister. This is more just our imagination.
Whenever something like this happens in reality, Xiaoxianrou will just be scared away like Xiang Li.It's not that he doesn't have responsibility, it's that the love he wants can give him less than the level of "responsibility".
There is nothing wrong with Yu Xiangli, he cannot afford Rebecca's life.
How do you evaluate the finale of "We Are Not Kind Enough"?
Of course it is not the plot direction that we like, and it is precisely because of dissatisfaction with the ending that everyone gives low scores. We are unwilling to accept a very tragic ending. The more real it is, the more fearful and frightened we are. We still hope that their stories in the parallel universe are not so tragic. Especially Rebecca, the screenwriter's setting for her is too cruel!
If you were Jian Qingfen, what would you choose?
You will also run towards that cage again just like her.
Jian Qingfen is not a heroine at all.
As for Rebecca, she also lived a wonderful life. Although she died of cancer at a young age, which seemed tragic, she did not give in to herself. She doesn't force others to hate her. She has always worked hard to live a better life and is very tired every day. However, this kind of life is fulfilling to her. She spent her not-so-long life the way she wanted.
Life is unsatisfactory everywhere, and we can only face the real and cruel life more firmly.
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