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Do you still have an impression of Mano?
14 years ago, when she was in her early 20s, she participated in " If You Are the One " and became an instant hit. Mano's fame is attributed to a sentence she said: "I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle."
This sentence caused a great disturbance at the time. In fact, if In today's society, it may not cause so much ridicule. Only ten years ago, everyone regarded "driving a BMW" as a very rich person, and it was unprecedented for a woman to openly declare on the show that she loves money. Mano immediately caused a big controversy. During the scandal, everyone regarded her as the originator of "gold-worshiping girls". Whenever anyone talks about gold-worshiping girls, they will definitely think of Mano.
In today’s society, everyone is more realistic, but what is different from the past? Some women also love money, but they do not treat themselves as commodities, but get the money they deserve through their own efforts.
How can women change their destiny?
As we all know, one is to rely on one's own hard work; the other is to hope that one can find a good man to marry. Mano claimed that she loves money. She came to participate in "If You Are the One" because she wanted to use her youth and beauty to see if she could find a rich man. It doesn’t matter if she can’t find it. Maybe she can become famous through the show and get unexpected surprises?
Mano became popular. She received many notices after it became popular, but everyone came because of her reputation as a "money digger". The label "gold digger" has been with Mano for many years. To this day, whenever we mention gold digger, we will still think of her.
More than ten years have passed. Has Mano really changed his destiny by getting married? When she was young, she was too ignorant about love and marriage, and her thoughts were relatively simple. She thought that as long as she was young and beautiful, she could attract the favor of rich men. So what now? At the age of 36, has she already tasted the pain of real marriage? When you only run for money, you will inevitably face great risks.
You must know that nothing is obtained for nothing in this world, especially marriage.
When I wrote about Mano, I mainly read an article published by the official account of "People", "Mano, the Price".
Mano, what is the current situation?
She laughs at herself, Now she is crying while sitting on a bicycle. She was domestically assaulted seven times within six months of their marriage and is currently suing for divorce. A marriage not only did not allow her to live a happy life, but instead caused her life to plummet and fall into a quagmire. Not only did he not get any money, he also spent all his savings, sold his house, and lived in Beijing with his mother.
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Why is she so smart?
In August 2022, Mano, who had just broken up with her boyfriend, met Liu in a live broadcast room. Within three months, Liu rewarded Mano with a gift of 200,000 yuan. Such a forthright brother on the list will naturally be treated differently by Mano. They quickly got each other's contact information, met offline, and a month later, they fell in love.
Liu weighs more than 200 kilograms and is not Mano's type.
But he was generous to Mano and seemed to be very responsible. He also gave gifts to Mano's relatives and friends. Mano felt that this man was quite capable. Liu told Ma Nuo and her mother that he could earn more than 1 million yuan a year, and he also had a shared property house worth more than 1 million yuan in the outer suburbs of Shanghai, and his family still had houses to be demolished.
Mano felt that it was just him. He was not too young and he had to catch the good one.
They dated for several months, and in January 2023, Mano moved to Shanghai. On January 31, she and Liu got married, and there was no wedding. Even the wedding ring was a second-hand ring that Liu bought from a book when he was young. I thought they would have a happy married life after getting married, but they ended up in hell.
After getting married, Mano learned that Liu had been married twice and had a child in the second marriage. Liu divorced his ex-wife on January 29, and he and Mano obtained the divorce certificate one day later.There is also the problem of Liu’s debt. It turns out that Liu is not a rich man, but still owes a large debt, 650,000.
Mano sold his house in Chongqing to help Liu pay off his debt.
It doesn't matter if he conceals his marriage history, conceals his children, or conceals his debts. Liu has a bad temper and is violent towards her. After marrying Liu, Mano's personal freedom was restricted for a long time. After seeing through his marriage, Mano wanted to escape from the marriage, and then started a lawsuit with Liu for divorce, which became known to the entire Internet.
Let’s look at Mano’s marriage. What went wrong?
It was already wrong since the two of them met in the live broadcast room. Would a normal, rich and good man who has never met you give you so many gifts for no reason? 200,000 yuan. Just because he knows you love money, he uses this method to fish for you.
If Mano hadn't been greedy for his money, he wouldn't have fallen into the trap so quickly and had a flash marriage with him.
You can fall in love, but if you try to get money by taking shortcuts, you will lose everything in the end. There was a problem with your values from the beginning, and there was a problem with the way you contacted him.
If Liu hadn’t given Mano so many gifts, would Mano have any contact with him? Not possible with
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Nowadays, online dating is very common, especially some big guys who spend a lot of money to buy gifts in order to win the favor of female anchors. Seeing how generous the top brother on the list was, the female anchor wanted to meet him in private to see if he was really that rich. As soon as they met, the female anchor quickly took the bait because the big brother on the list was so heroic.
Don’t complain to anyone? It's because you all have your own agenda.
Here I want to remind some young girls: Never fall into the trap of men’s money, and don’t be fooled by money and gifts. You have to know that no one is stupid enough to love you and spend money on you, but any normal good man will not do that. Once you do that, you risk it too.
Any money that is obtained without hard work has a price.
There is nothing wrong with liking money. Whether you are a man or a woman, everyone hopes that their life can be better, but you have to know, "You can like money, please get it in a wise way." The most reliable thing for a woman is to change herself. Become a rich man, not a slave to a rich man.
The mountain will fall if you have a backer, but it is more practical to rely on yourself.
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The Internet ten years ago was not the Internet today. People would not openly say that they love money. Even though many people like money, they would not say it blatantly. There is nothing wrong with Mano, but he just linked his naked view of love with money.
Isn’t this the case for many women nowadays?
Not getting married without a house, or not getting married without giving much betrothal gifts, is even more naked than Mano's words and deeds.
I am a woman, but I do not advocate this view of marriage and love. I hope girls can see it more clearly:
You have to know that true happiness does not lie in the amount of money, but true happiness cannot be achieved without money. We cannot ignore money, but when you do, you must put your character first. Only by being kind can you get true happiness.
Don't just look at money, look at other aspects of this man, whether he has any good qualities.
Anyway, I won’t believe the kind of man who is willing to spend money on a woman even if we haven’t met him a few times. No one’s money comes from the strong wind, so you think he is stupid. He must have a motive for approaching you, because he knows you very well and knows that you love money. He only needs to be a little more generous in front of you to win your favor. When you take the bait, he will make you pay more money.
people, in the final analysis, you still have to rely on yourself.
matches everything. Of course, there are indeed some young and beautiful girls who marry rich men. They have achieved a leap in their own class. Their success shows that they are also excellent. It is not just their beauty and figure. They have outstanding abilities and IQ. and emotional intelligence are very high.
Zhang Zetian, isn’t he the best example? She deserves to marry Liu Qiangdong.
Be clear about yourself, be more pragmatic, you can love money, but you should make more by yourself.
I never get anything for nothing, so don’t overestimate your own charm.
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