Finally someone discovered Wu Jing’s temper problem!
Xie Nan complained that he didn't wait for her to eat. He looked ferocious, threw the towel angrily, and ignored the camera.
Xie Nan discusses his problems, he talks about others, does not listen, and is impatient.
Xie Nan reminded him to cook carefully, but he was helpless, he was irritable, and he was hysterical.
Xie Nan asked him to get up, but he ignored him. He was angry. He closed the door and scolded Xie Nan.
Xie Nan asked him to guess words, but he avoided, lost his temper, and refused to cooperate.
His mood is unstable when there are many people, and he cannot control his temper when there are few. Wu Jing's hot temper always gives people the illusion of domestic violence in the next second, and he is criticized by netizens for this.
However, this is just his performance in variety shows, he is still a bad-tempered person in real life.
For example, if Xie Nan plays with knives for her children, Wu Jing will scold her mercilessly on the Internet.
Xie Nan bought him a suit and asked him to wear it, but he refused and even tore the suit to pieces on purpose to ruin the other person's feelings.
These details reveal Wu Jing's hot temper. Even he himself once admitted that he has a bad temper, not only towards his wife, but also to outsiders. During the interview with
, he angrily scolded netizens for kneeling for too long. During the
press conference, he angrily tore up the poster on the spot because of the pictures. When
was catching a flight, he pointed at his nose and angrily scolded the photographer.
kicked female guest Fan Wenfang while playing a game.
When casting, child actors were told to leave without mercy.
From the inside out, Wu Jing's temper was fierce, and he did not hide it at all. This also gave the audience the opportunity to slander him, and Xie Nan naturally became the object of everyone's heartache.
Wu Jing's popularity and Xie Nan's humbleness have become a popular comment on the Internet today, and Wu Jing has even been accused of misogyny.
Faced with Wu Jing's bad temper, Xie Nan's cautious accommodation made netizens feel distressed and persuaded them to leave.
Indeed, Wu Jing is like a child who has not grown up, and Xie Nan is able to accommodate him enough.
Because Wu Jing doesn't like women crying, so she doesn't dare to cry freely.
Because Wu Jing always loses her temper, she always plays a funny person.
Because Wu Jing has never changed, she feels that being a wife is too tiring and she needs to be considerate of the other person's mood and feelings. She even feels that she is not doing a good enough job.
So, can Xie Nan really gain happiness by simply accommodating?
The answer is yes.
Wu Jing has a short temper and is a typical Aries, but this does not mean that he is not loving enough.
pursued Xie Nan fiercely when he was young. When he was in love, he mortgaged his real estate to pursue his dream and still thought about Xie Nan's rest of his life. After he became famous, he kept saying thank you to Xie Nan.
Wu Jing's typical self can lose his temper in front of his lover, but does not allow anyone to blush to Xie Nan.
Xie Nan has been able to move away for so many years, so naturally there is a reason to stay.
For his dream, Xie Nan bet on the happiness of the rest of his life.
For the sake of his reputation, Xie Nan voluntarily broke his principles and jumped into the trap of self-certification.
For the sake of his image, Xie Nan is willing to play the funny person.
Putting aside their character shortcomings, they love each other enough, but in front of the variety show camera, this love is placed behind the contradiction, and the contradiction is infinitely magnified.
I watched a variety show clip of Wu Jing losing his temper. In fact, the biggest conflict between them is not that they don't love each other, but that they don't share the same channel.
As a host, Xie Nan has the instinct of a host. He always wants to make the show effective and does not want the venue to cool down, so he keeps looking for things to talk about. However, Wu Jing feels that since he is on a reality show, he must be real enough and not act deliberately. As a result, I thought Xie Nan was too artificial.
One blames the other party for being impatient, and the other blames the other party for being too deliberate. This is the main contradiction.
Coupled with the post-editing of the variety show, a small conflict turns into a big problem that requires divorce, but is the presentation of the variety show really credible? Are rhythmic marketing accounts credible?
If it were to be believed, Zhou Yiwei would not have been scolded for so many years, Yuan Li would not have been edited to be "neurotic", and Wu Jing would not have changed from a good man to a bad husband.
Domestic variety shows, if you don’t love them, they will cut you until you die, but if you love them, they will cut you till you are dead. How can you trust them all?
As Xie Nan said, life is not black and white. They have quarrels, but they also love each other enough. Isn't this how ordinary couples get along?
has one thing to say, and it really made me laugh because of the trending search term "Beijing-style man".
Wu Jing has a short temper, but his character is definitely not bad. How come he became a heinous and negative representative because he got angry on the show?
mortgaged the property in order to pursue his dream, but never ignored Xie Nan's feelings, but kept enough for his wife and children's living expenses.
He has never been hot-tempered, nor is he a selfish person.
Some people complained that Wu Jing always treated Xie Nan coldly and violently, pretending to be silent and not responding and ignoring her feelings.
But is there a possibility that he really can't hear Xie Nan's every call?
Due to long-term shooting of explosion scenes, Wu Jing's hearing has long been damaged, and he suffered from inaudibility at a young age.
Because he has been exposed to rain and knows the pain of being unable to hear, he has been working on the "Hearing Project" to silently donate money to deaf children for so many years.
In 2019, Wu Jing donated a total of more than 3 million yuan to deaf children. So far, he has donated a total of more than 10 million yuan.
It is worth mentioning that he has never made public the "Hearing Project" charity, or someone only knew it was him because he discovered the name of his company.
Not only that, he also donated 50 million in supplies intermittently during the epidemic, rushed to earthquake-stricken areas for disaster relief many times, and donated money to veterans.
doesn't like to show off, but works quietly. The more you get to know him, the more you know what "my bottom line is higher than your ideal" means.
has a hot temper, but is not vague at all on major matters.
For example, if Fan Wenfang and his wife accidentally fell into the sea during the show, he would rush to save them regardless of his own safety.
found that the design of the chimney was unreasonable, and insisted on repairing it regardless of other people's opinions, for fear of accidents.
When he saw that the organizer only put his photo on the poster of "Wolf Warrior", he angrily tore up the poster on the spot regardless of the outside world. In his words, the movie does not belong to him alone, but to the entire crew of "Wolf Warrior". Belongs to every actor.
In 2019, at the "The Climber" road show, Wu Jing, as the protagonist, took the initiative to give up the home court to every climbing guest.
If I hadn’t witnessed it with my own eyes, I would have truly believed the nonsense that “Wu Jing is too arrogant and disrespects women.”
The Internet likes to create gods as well as destroy them, but for some reason, slandering Wu Jing has become a traffic password. In a short period of time, he did nothing but changed from a good man to a bad man, and his marriage to Xie Nan that everyone envied became a A suffocating and in-name accommodation.
From a simple tantrum to domestic violence, cold violence, misogyny, and disrespect for women, we can see the power of the Internet.
is on the contrary. After watching his interview, I really appreciate his point of view: women should have their own careers.
He never regards women as accessories to men, but encourages his other half to have their own career, because he always believes that women cannot have narrow vision.
Therefore, even if he made a lot of money from movies, he did not restrict Xie Nan from giving up her career. Instead, he supported her work and supported her to be herself.
This alone is enough to show that Wu Jing is not misogynistic. On the contrary, he respects women, understands women, rescues women, does not define women, and does not restrain women.
"Beijing-style man" should not become a derogatory term, and slandering Wu Jing should not become a traffic password.
There is no perfect marriage in the world. Often those who have too high expectations and are divorced from reality are fantasies of people who have never actually experienced marriage. It is more difficult for such people to learn to get along with others.
Wu Jing's quick temper and Xie Nan's accommodation may seem unbalanced, but they can still bring happiness, because what outsiders always see are single-dimensional shortcomings, but they experience multi-dimensional happiness.
