Although it is a bit "old", I believe that many people still remember the female guest who became famous in the "If You Are the One" program because she said "I would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" - Mano ?
Recently, Mano claimed that she was domestically assaulted 7 times in just six months after a flash marriage. She has now filed for divorce and said she had obtained a "habeas corpus order." She also advised people who have experienced the same thing: "You must tell those around you People, you have to ask for help from the outside world, and you must call the police. The more people know about this, the better, and the safer you will be!"
Mano said on his personal social media:
"I, Mano, said in January 2023 Married Mr. Liu on September 31. She was domestically assaulted seven times within six months of the marriage. In September, on the advice of the police at the police station, she returned to Beijing, where her registered permanent residence was, and filed for divorce. While waiting for the divorce hearing, she was continuously followed, threatened, and harassed by Mr. Liu. , and at the same time spread rumors, insults and slander against me on the Internet. Recently, I obtained a habeas corpus order from the court, and my personal safety is guaranteed..."
Mano also said: "I have not engaged in any behavior such as defrauding marriage or housing... Mr. Liu Most of the 270,000 yuan that I was accused of taking away with me was the remaining money from the house I sold before marriage to help him pay off his debts. During the marriage that lasted less than a year, I shouldered most of the household expenses, including repaying Mr. Liu’s house before marriage. Debts totaling more than 1.6 million yuan were transferred to Mr. Liu."
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I saw this "gold-worshiping girl" who on the show said she despised the "bicycle group" and only wanted to get into "cars and BMWs" and marry a "rich family". Today, after her marriage, she is like this Quickly "asking for a hammer, you get a hammer" - "crying", many people on the Internet are endlessly laughing at this "BMW girl" who "asks for kindness and gets kindness".
For example, someone sarcastically said: "If you don't get beaten, how can you cry in a BMW?"
Someone also said: "Energy is conserved, and whatever you do or say, you will always be able to deal with it!".
Some netizens also said: "If you eat salted fish, you will be thirsty!"
Some netizens said bluntly: "I wish you get what you want!"
And it's like a "word comes true"; "Poor people "There must be something hateful" and other sneer and taunting words, are also rolling up and down in the comment area like "pleasant grudges".
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So, for this woman who became famous because of this "golden sentence", today she is in such a sad situation, we really all have to add insult to injury in this way, in the so-called "ask for a hammer, get a hammer" Finally, add the black clouds all over the mountains and plains to continue hammering?
First of all, people can go all out to bully Mano, who is actually a "tool man" online, which will only make the directors behind them the real masters of "laughing in a BMW"!
We might as well recall the situation when Mano participated in the program "If You Are the One":
First of all, "If You Are the One" is a so-called "love and marriage" reality show! ——This word "show" can actually capture everything. Anyone with some brains will understand it!
In other words, it is almost certain that Mano was able to continue to stand in more than ten episodes of the program at that time. Obviously, it was not how outstanding she was, but that she had a certain script that allowed her to continue acting like this.
As for Mano's golden words that spread all over the country at that time, maybe if you look at her handwriting in the divorce case now, you can understand how high Mano's true level is, right?
In other words, even that golden sentence was most likely scripted in advance, and Mano was just acting as an actor under the power of the screenwriter and director!
When there were Mano-style "actors" who performed according to the script, the program "If You Are the One" was created, and it even made Feng Xiaogang's series of movies of the same name popular. Unfortunately, Director Feng did not Let Mano become an actor in her movie, otherwise, it might be possible to change her destiny to a greater extent. Maybe she wouldn't be a domestic violence victim like she is today, right?
Therefore, when people criticized Mano in the past for being a "gold worshiper" and now they are ridiculing her for "asking for a hammer, you will get a hammer, and you will be benevolent", if everyone is just ruthlessly and endlessly mocking her, but for those behind her The organizers and directors gave him a free pass with the "If You Are the One" attitude. Obviously, this was not only an injustice to Mano, but also a form of appeasement and connivance to the entertainment media that had no bottom line!
Could it be that those who really should "ask for a hammer and get a hammer" should not be those "shameless directors" who have fallen below the bottom line of professional ethics and social ethics and are ruining "tool people" for the sake of traffic and fame and fortune? ?
Secondly, Mano herself, who was willing to be the "tool person" of the reality show, actually paid the price for her "collusion and partnership" behavior of bowing her head and engaging in cheap hype. She has been unmarried for many years, and now she is suffering from the consequences of a flash marriage. She may have paid the price for the repeated domestic violence. But if we step on her as an individual, how much meaning does it have?
Of course, in this reality show, Mano seems to be the one who has been famous for the longest time. To be honest, this cannot be solely blamed on the show. Mano himself is willing to cooperate, which is not wrong at all.
Just imagine, she has been on the show for ten episodes, and she was "taken away" in the first episode. Which "tool person" can get such a large amount of traffic? If it were in the current era when Internet traffic is king, it is estimated that Manuo would be even more popular, and he could live broadcast and sell goods, earn a lot of money, and he could buy a lot of BMWs and laugh, so why would he need to get married? What about crying when a "domestic violence man" is beaten?
Therefore, the program team would write a script for her, but she was able to stay for ten episodes. This is obviously related to Mano's cooperation - and it is so cooperative that he explicitly stated that "money is king", and on such a large platform If the level of publicity is high, the individual will be counterattacked by the mainstream morality of the society, and it will become the "reward of this world" for "seeking benevolence and gaining benevolence" under the simple moral concept in the public mind, which seems to be "natural and in accordance with the way of heaven." Something happened.
Of course we can understand this simple idea of the public to a certain extent - after all, in this country with 1.4 billion people, in this place where the traditional concept of marriage and love has always been "the dream of marrying into a rich family", so to speak , the sense of déjà vu against the impact and blow of countless men from ordinary families was too strong, making them angry and helpless.
But in fact, in the marriage and love thoughts and traditional culture of our ethnic group, the concept that occupies more mainstream territory will still be "a good match"!
This kind of thinking has a more human and real display, and is more in line with the thinking mode of "marriage is based on a certain economic foundation" and the "universal truth of modern times".
Therefore, if a woman like Mano, who has certain conditions and abilities, has a real choice between "BMW and bicycle" in her mind, it is not so wrong and unbearable. Just imagine: if it happens to you or your daughter, Do you support Mano more? Or do you support those groups who ridicule Mano’s “niu Nuo, donkey Nuo” and other “rabble” thinking?
Of course, for this marriage show, such well-organized hype materials are also things that benefit both parties. Maybe, don’t just blame someone. Anyway, to a certain extent, maybe they are not What a "good thing"!
In fact, the most important point is: times have changed a long time ago. For women who have been under "men's rule" for thousands of years, now, if you want to laugh instead of cry in a BMW, it is still the best. It is better for you to have high IQ, high EQ, high ability, and high level - or to earn money to buy a BMW by yourself, or to have independent spirit and value worthy of men, so that men can use an attitude of equality and respect, Laughing and crying in the BMW with you.
To put it bluntly, isn’t this what everyone is saying: “If a man is trustworthy, a sow can climb a tree”? ——Since men are not reliable, the ability and ability to "climb trees" should obviously be the primary condition for contemporary women to be independent!
Female friends who are truly self-respecting, self-loving and self-reliant may wish to read "To the Oak Tree" by Shu Ting again: "If I love you - I will never be like a climbing flower that uses your high branches to show off myself..."! [Original comment: Yu said it’s okay]
