When I saw Mrs. Li for the first time, the author thought she was a very beautiful and elegant woman, but her beautiful eyes also revealed a hint of aloofness that she seemed unwilling to hide too much. This is a woman who has seen great storms in both love and business. Ordinary men and ordinary businessmen would never be able to catch the eye of his wife. Perhaps only a man like Mr. Bao, who is the best among men, is worthy of having an unforgettable past with her.
01 The ruthless character
can be combined with the novel to watch the drama, and it will be more unique and elegant! Mrs. Li in the book is an extraordinary woman. Perhaps the emotional damage made her understand that only women who are independent and have the economic initiative can successfully gain a foothold in this cruel society.
Ms. Li subconsciously believes that only money and wealth can bring a woman an absolute sense of security. Her business acumen is quite keen, and like a prophet, she can predict the future trend of the market. Many of Li Li's business decisions are extremely correct based on the final results. Real estate was a new thing in that era, and many people did not dare to take risks. However, this strong woman accurately believed: This is a blue chip stock!
In the original work, this woman even accurately predicted that the current market would be unable to meet all the needs of consumers. In the future, there is likely to be a new business model similar to e-commerce, which can open up the business network between the north and the south of the country!
Her courage is admirable: when managing her team, Li Li can be said to run the army with an iron fist. She is extremely talented in management and can organize and coordinate resources and manpower quite effectively. This makes Mr. Bao, who has seen the big world, Grandpa and uncle all praised it! In the business world, her popularity is by no means deserved. Status and wealth are all gathered together by this person!
02 She is not that utilitarian in her heart.
But for such a smart woman, why did finally escape into Buddhism? What experience led her to make a more alternative choice? The novel vaguely reflects through the vaguely sad words, a "crystal-like" fragile Mrs. Li under the strong appearance. It is difficult for her to feel real happiness, is powerful but a fragile protective color !
As a strong business woman, she is very shrewd, realistic and pragmatic, and is well versed in the various rules of the game in the market. At the same time, she obviously has a high pursuit of wealth and social status, which is also one of the important reasons for her success in business. Her progress has always been "deceptive" to a certain extent, and there is a hidden sense of alienation from fame, wealth and intrigue in her heart.
Mrs. Li is also a very emotional and emotional person. She has complex feelings towards A Bao, both for commercial use and for the projection of personal emotions. She could predict it, but she could never fully accept it: As a businessman with an almost perfect career, the two relationships never brought her a sense of security, but a tingling feeling and a sense of emptiness like the moon in the mirror! After a woman succeeds in her career, all she wants is a stable home! But the author, Mr. Jin, just doesn’t let the characters in his novel get what they want! Is it true that the more the characters struggle, the more realistic they become ?
03 Perhaps the "extreme" choice is another kind of beauty?
Mrs. Li finally chose to become a monk, which must be related to her life experience and inner experience.
This successful and distinguished lady has experienced countless competitions and challenges in the business world, and has also witnessed various ugliness and dark sides of human nature. This may have made her feel tired and bored, and she had doubts and reflections on worldly life. Compared with the drama version, she in the book is less aloof and a little more melancholy!
In addition, Mrs. Li also saw some quality or emotional sustenance in Abao that she could not possess. The latter's spiritual pursuit and personality traits touched the "initial setting" of truth, goodness and beauty deep in her heart, making her feel that her spiritual world had been sublimated and purified, and she felt the pain of not being able to have A Bao.
Tired of business wars and unable to get love , she finally had a profound enlightenment and wanted to use another great wisdom to relieve her life.As a reader, when I was young, I was torn by this beauty's choice, but now I am relieved. Money and love are not the only things that make people happy!
morning bells and evening drums, flying flowers and fragrant tea ! Who says that leaving home means giving up on yourself? Although the author is very surprised and even sad and distressed by this lady’s final choice, I have a hundred respects for it!
Her choice has some aspects that make us regretful, and some that are understandable from her perspective. Isn't this world of love, money, and power worthy of this lady's nostalgia? Li Li, who had a sense of "fragmentation", just smiled and refused to answer.