Have you ever felt like this in your life?
As soon as some people speak, they make people feel very comfortable and willing to listen.
As soon as some people speak, they really want to cover their ears.
The same words are completely different when spoken by different people!
Speaking is really an art, and learning to speak well is also a required course for everyone.
Those sparkling, generous and excellent people we see make people feel like spring breeze, gentle and sincere.
They are very good at expressing their needs in a reasonable way, instead of blindly giving in, or using straightforward words as an excuse to make others feel uncomfortable. Have you ever felt like this in your life? As soon as some people speak, they make people feel very comfortable and willing to listen. As soon as some people speak, they really want to cover their ears. The same words are completely different when spoken by different people! Speaking is really an art, and learning to speak well is also a required course for everyone. Those sparkling, generous and excellent people we see make people feel like spring breeze, gentle and sincere. They are very good at expressing their needs in a reasonable way, instead of blindly giving in, or using straightforward words as an excuse to make others feel uncomfortable. Who doesn’t like to get along with such people? Today I have prepared dozens of essential chatting techniques that are very comfortable for you, so that you can be at ease in interpersonal communication. You can use them flexibly according to the actual usage scenarios. Change "it doesn't matter" to "I'm OK" Change "thank you" to "thank you" Change "never seen" to "sounds great" Change "I can't" to "I can learn" Change "you are a bit stupid" to "you are too Really" Change "You are awesome" to "The master is actually by my side" Change "This is not good" to "Do you think this is good" Change "Miss you" to "I am thinking about you" Change "Hmm" to "No problem" Change "You are so stupid" to "You have great ideas" Change "You are so ugly" to "You need to take care of it" Change "No time" to " I have something urgent" Change "whatever" to "Listen to you" Change "ok" to "pretty good" Change "hahaha" to "You are so interesting" Change "help me" into "Can I trouble you?" Change "I'm so angry" to "I'm very angry now" Change "Okay" to "Do you think it's okay" Change "I'm wrong" to "I'm sorry" , I was wrong Change "You know a P" to "You have great ideas" Change "What are you doing" to "I miss you" Change "Okay" to "Okay/OK" Change "Oh" to "I understand/got it" Change "I don't drink" to "I'm good at pouring wine" Change "buy, buy, buy" to "You can consider buying it" Change "You understand Change "I know" to "Thank you for reminding me" Change "Are you hungry" to "I'll take you to eat" Change "Are you tired?" "Change to "Let's take a break first" Change "You are too bad" to "You have a lot of room for improvement" Change "I'm so annoyed" to "I need to calm down" Change "I don't know" to "I Understand now" Change "you can't" to "try harder" Change "it doesn't look good" to "what you like is the most important" Change "you are so earthy" to "you are very personal" change "hello" "Change to "Hello, excuse me" Change "I don't like you" to "You deserve better" Change "You are so beautiful" to "Wow, you are so beautiful" Change "You are so ugly" into "You're so cute" Change "you're not right" to "You're right, but" When chatting, change "I" to "we" When speaking, change "but" to "and" When asking others for help, add "ok" at the end of the sentence When someone scolds you for being sick, replace "you are the only one who is sick" with "it's not you who got it" When someone praises you for looking good, replace "you are sick too" "Good-looking" is replaced by "You are even better. Not only do you look good, but you also speak so well." When someone compliments you on your good figure, replace "No" with "You are different. Forget about your good figure, your appearance." "It's still that high" has a point of view that he doesn't completely agree with. He must first affirm it and then put forward his own new perspective in a supplementary way. When the boss says you have worked hard, replace "not hard" with "it's okay, the boss has worked harder than me" When someone tells you that you are a bit short, replace "I am short and it's none of your business" with "nothing can be done, it's all for you" "You're pretty" Someone tells you that the clothes you wore today are really beautiful, Replace "It's okay" with "Thank you, your hair style is good today and you have a good temperament" When your boss praises you for doing a good job , replace "Thank you for the leader's praise" with "It's all because of the leadership's good teaching." When someone asks you if you are here, you say, "You tell me first, and I will decide whether you are here or not." Don't just say "hello" when making a phone call. Then add "Hello" When someone says they want to go to a movie, replace "What movie to watch" with "When, I have time now" When someone praises you "You are so talented", you can say "Thank you" Your compliment, I appreciate your eyes more than this." When someone says "You are so good-looking", you can say "I just like how you speak the truth so seriously" When someone sends you a message on WeChat When smiling, you can say "You have a beautiful smile" When you receive a gift from someone else, don't just say "thank you", but say how you feel about receiving the gift. When someone says "Thank you for your help", you can say "I'm sorry, I will need to trouble you in the future." You also know that where there are people, there is social interaction, and you cannot do without talking when dealing with people. . There will always be various problems and situations in life, and we always have to learn to communicate and deal with them. can talk and will make your life more convenient. Convenient for communication, convenient for life, convenient for learning and communication, and convenient for work. Of course, what you say is for those who respect each other. For those who are unreasonable and have no quality, don't wrong yourself! Talking well will not only make your life better and smoother, but also bring you many opportunities and surprises. Be a person who shines in love, work and life.
When the boss says you have worked hard, replace "not hard" with "it's okay, the boss has worked harder than me"
When someone tells you that you are a bit short, replace "I am short and it's none of your business" with "nothing can be done, it's all for you" "You're pretty"
Someone tells you that the clothes you wore today are really beautiful,
Replace "It's okay" with "Thank you, your hair style is good today and you have a good temperament"
When your boss praises you for doing a good job , replace "Thank you for the leader's praise" with "It's all because of the leadership's good teaching."
When someone asks you if you are here, you say, "You tell me first, and I will decide whether you are here or not."
Don't just say "hello" when making a phone call. Then add "Hello"
When someone says they want to go to a movie, replace "What movie to watch" with "When, I have time now"
When someone praises you "You are so talented", you can say "Thank you" Your compliment, I appreciate your eyes more than this."
When someone says "You are so good-looking", you can say "I just like how you speak the truth so seriously"
When someone sends you a message on WeChat When smiling, you can say "You have a beautiful smile"
When you receive a gift from someone else, don't just say "thank you", but say how you feel about receiving the gift.
When someone says "Thank you for your help", you can say "I'm sorry, I will need to trouble you in the future."
You also know that where there are people, there is social interaction, and you cannot do without talking when dealing with people. . There will always be various problems and situations in life, and we always have to learn to communicate and deal with them.
can talk and will make your life more convenient. Convenient for communication, convenient for life, convenient for learning and communication, and convenient for work.
Of course, what you say is for those who respect each other. For those who are unreasonable and have no quality, don't wrong yourself!
Talking well will not only make your life better and smoother, but also bring you many opportunities and surprises. Be a person who shines in love, work and life.
