is also a descendant of the hero. Why did Yang Kang, who had a high IQ, failed, but Guo Jing, who was of mediocre intelligence, achieved great success?
Some people may say that Guo Jing is lucky, and all he meets are masters.
Is luck really a factor in Guo Jing's success? Although it is a fictional novel, we can learn a lot by comparing the two characters.
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Mother makes her child character
Guo Jing’s mother, Li Ping, is a standard housewife in current terms. She has no culture, no status, and undergoes great changes in the family. However, she does not succumb to destiny, nor is she in vain. She has cultivated many advantages of Guo Jing:
is positive, hard-working, independent, reluctant to admit defeat, admit death, be faithful, have a sense of responsibility, and have national justice.
Yang Kang’s mother Bao Xiwei, in current terms, is super white, rich and beautiful, educated, educated, and backgrounded. However, the so-called loving mothers are often lost. She has not been able to cultivate Yang Kang’s spirit of enduring hardship, let alone cultivate Yang Kang’s national justice. This led to a major tragedy in Yang Kang's life.
It can be said that the root of Yang Kang's failure is Bao Xiwei.
02
Father makes his child's future
Wan Yan Honglie meticulously nurtured Yang Kang and placed high hopes, but ended in failure. why? In current terms, Wanyan Honglie is equivalent to the director and vice president of a large monopoly state-owned enterprise, and is expected to take over as the president, while Yang Kang is his successor.
Wanyan Honglie has more talents, but lacks virtue and conspiracy all day long. Around him is a gang of wicked people, who are close to Zhu, and those who are close to Mo are black. Long-term ears and eyes have made Yang Kang equally talented and lacking in virtue.
Because of the spoiling of the princes and his wife, the servants of the royal residence, including the guests of Wanyan Honglie, showed great indulgence to Yang Kang, which made Yang Kang contaminated with the habit of the dude. In fact, Yang Kang's nature is kind. Therefore, fathers who are rich, powerful and focus on nurturing children may not be better than poor people.
Looking back at Guo Jing, he is a single-parent child. In his life, Temujin, Zhebye, Seven Devils of Jiangnan, and Ma Yu all acted as temporary fathers, and these people have a common feature-down to earth.
03
Life needs help from others
There are four kinds of people in life: expert advice, noble person help, friends appreciate, villain supervise. And what determines these four people is their own character.
Guo Jing was kind since he was a child, admired heroes, admitted death, and risked his death to protect Zhe Bie at a young age. As a result Zhe Bie became the first master in Guo Jing's life and his first master. It was Guo Jing's character that made Temujin the first nobleman in Guo Jing's life. Also because of this personality, Tuo Lei and Hua Zheng became Guo Jing's best classmates in elementary and junior high school.
is also due to Guo Jing's character. He is kind by nature, helping the poor and not succumbing to power. He met Huang Rong, the most important person in his life. Huang Rong became Guo Jing's best university classmate, girlfriend and resource integrator. Student Guo Jing was stupid and unconfident, but Huang Rong gave him the greatest appreciation and made Guo Jing gradually confident.
Things gather in kind, people are divided into groups. The most famous of Yang Kang's college classmates is Ouyang Ke, and Ouyang Ke is a typical talented person with a bad morals. Let’s look at another college classmate and girlfriend of Yang Kang, Mu Nianci. Mu Nianci is obviously not as clever as Huang Rong in guiding Yang Kang, and is not tolerant enough. He blindly emphasizes what Yang Kang is going to do and lacks a true understanding of Yang Kang. And boot.
04
A temporary lead does not mean a permanent lead
Being excellent in elementary school is not equal to being excellent in junior high school, being excellent in junior high school is not equal to being excellent in high school, and being excellent in high school is not equal to being excellent in college.
According to current standards, in elementary and junior high school, Yang Kang is an excellent student, while Guo Jing is a hard-student student. Life is a relay race, and integrating educational resources is a major issue for parents.
Yang Kang’s teacher is Qiu Chuji. According to current standards, Yang Kang is equivalent to a top student in the top middle school attached to the National People’s University. The level of the teacher is first-class in the country, and the IQ of the students is also first-class in the country. The biggest by-product of this education is Yang Kang's arrogance.
Guo Jing’s teacher is the Jiangnan Seven Monsters. According to the current standards, it is equivalent to a teacher in a grassroots school. The teacher’s teaching environment is obviously not as good as Qiu Chuji. Guo Jing’s IQ is obviously inferior to Yang Kang, but the Jiangnan Seven Monsters cultivated Guo Jing’s hardship The spirit laid a solid foundation for Guo Jing.
Guo Jing temporarily lags behind in elementary and middle school, but he has worked hard in elementary and middle school and achieved great success in college. According to current standards, his four top teachers: Hong Qigong, equivalent to the principal of Zhejiang University; Zhou Botong, equivalent to the principal of Tsinghua University; Huang Yaoshi, equivalent to the principal of Fudan University; and Duan Huangye, equivalent to the principal of Peking University.
Yang Kang’s university teacher is Mei Chaofeng, which is equivalent to a first-rate professor who was removed from a prestigious university. However, her teaching method has problems, and more importantly, her psychological problems, which will definitely affect Yang Kang.
Among the top five players in the country, the only one who can be Yang Kang's teacher is Ouyang Feng. However, Yang Kang killed the teacher's son, causing the murder.
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is the king of both internal and external studies.
Guo Jing also has a tutor-Ma Yu. In current terms, Ma Yu is equivalent to a famous professor at Tsinghua University. He does not teach Guo Jing martial arts, but only teaches Guo Jing to spend more time on internal skills to cultivate Guo Jing's strength from the inside out.
06
Reading ten thousand books is worse than reading a bad book.
Life is short, books are an ocean of knowledge. When you enter this ocean and wander every day, you will find that life is so wonderful, you can go up and down for five thousand years. Eighty thousand miles.
Reading is a blessing. Reading ancient books is to travel with ancient people, while reading classics is to travel with masters. Reading not only increases our knowledge, but also inspires our wisdom.
The ancients said: "Following the law is above, gaining from the middle, and gaining from the middle to gaining the bottom." The more classic the book, the greater the effect. Guo Jing's IQ is not high, but he admits the truth and memorizes the "Nine Yin Scriptures". In fact, when he memorized it, he didn't understand what it meant! But he finally achieved great success.
07
wants me to learn as much as I want to learn, and I want to learn as much as I love to learn
Guo Jing has four top teachers in the country to teach, but why can't I reach the state of Zhou Botong? Because Guo Jing is a typical obedient child and a nerd.
He completed the transformation from asking me to learn to what I want to learn, but he did not transform into my love to learn. And Zhou Botong?
is a typical learning maniac. What he said: You don’t have to eat rice, but you don’t have to practice Wu! Learning is more important than eating!
Generally speaking, as students and parents, we must study Guo Jing and mother Li Ping hard, not like Yang Kang.
Jin Yong, his old man, actually understood education long ago, that is, he didn't say that he used a novel to tell everyone, but it was only 30 years later that somebody understood it.
This is the long-lost "Education Truth".
heroes don’t ask where they come from, and the virtues are all.
