"Young You" dominates the screen: your parents become the weakest underbelly, it is the biggest misfortune of your life

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In the past few days, many people have been talking about the movie "You are a teenager".

'Young You' dominates the screen: your parents become the weakest underbelly, it is the biggest misfortune of your life - Lujuba

Some people say: It’s too good to watch. People who have experienced campus violence for a long time and can’t get out of the shadows can cry in this movie. Some people say: I was so surprised by the four-character brother’s acting skills that he can rely on this movie. Someone said: There is tension in the narrative, and the plot is not procrastinated. I didn't expect that domestic films have risen to this level...Under the praise of

, I couldn't help but go to the cinema. After reading

, there are three plots that impressed me most:

1. Chen Nian, how she was bullied by her classmates did not say a word, only when others said her mother was a fraudster, a tear fell instantly;

2. Wei Lai, very He is arrogant and has never bowed his head to anyone. It was not until one time that she bullied her classmate Chen Nian, and was in danger of being dropped out, so she went to ask Chen Nian. Because, after another year, her father will be completely disappointed in her;

Wei Lai’s father hasn’t talked to her for a year because of the repetition~

3. Xiaobei, after being arrested by the police for Chen Nianding, Facing the police's interrogation, he made up his mind to kill without telling the truth. It wasn't until the police said, "Do you want your mother to see what you are today, did he experience emotional fluctuations, anger and grievances abounded" In my heart...

all say that children are the biggest weakness of parents. On the contrary, parents are not the weakness of children?

is afraid of my parents worrying, no matter how hard it is, I will swallow

in my stomach, since I was little father.

and his mother depend on each other for life, and the family is surrounded by families, the richest is in debt.

My mother has no skills. In order to support me and earn college tuition, she found a seemingly "shortcut" to make money-selling three no masks. The debts owed by

can not be repaid. In order to avoid the debts, we have to beware of people who have used the three-no facial masks to come to the door. You can't sell the facial masks at the door, you can only go to Shenzhen, which is thousands of kilometers away.

​​Every time I watch her go out with a package bigger than her in the dark, I look on the balcony and think: "When will such a day end?"

My mother said after the college entrance examination, It will be fine after I graduate from university. Well, I think so too, I must go to Beijing.

So when the college entrance examination was approaching, I transferred to a well-known college entrance examination repetition class. There is no need to make friends here, everyone has only one goal-to concentrate on reviewing, to prepare for the exam, and even the slogan for running is "Over 600, colonel".

Although I am a fresh graduate, I don't need to repeat the courses at all, but the atmosphere and teachers here are more confident that my goal of a prestigious school will be hit and worth it.

When I was struggling to get rid of the destiny of the bottom, a classmate named Wei Lai became my obstacle.

She bullied me desperately, squeezed me out in volleyball class, came to my house with a mouse to scare me, spilled red ink on my chair, stripped my clothes and took pictures of me... during

, I also called my mother, wanting to give her the grievance. Unexpectedly, the mother on the other end of the phone was also in trouble. The fake mask she sold had a problem, and some people had allergies... in a word of

, my urge to complain was choked back. What's the point of telling mom? She can't help me either.

gritted his teeth and forbeared, there are still 60 days to go to the college entrance examination, as long as the entrance to Beijing is all right, my mother is still pointing at me.

I am Chen Nian.

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I am afraid of my parents being disappointed, and try my best to maintain the image of

me, always keeping a smiling face.

is no exception even when doing bad things. Because my parents taught me to be decent.

​​I was born in a Kochi family with good family conditions. From study to life, my parents are working hard to cultivate me as a "behind the famous".

In short, we must do our best in everything we do, and we must always remember not to do anything that insults our family identity.

I am also very proud. I have won back many awards and trophies. I rarely quarrel with anyone or blush in front of them. For so many years, I have been their daughter who is well-behaved, sensible and well-measured.

Until the third year of high school, I failed the exam and had to repeat. They were disappointed in me like never before, especially dad, he hasHaven't spoken to me for a year.

Therefore, this college entrance examination can only succeed without fail. I have to study hard in the repeat class.

But this kind of high-pressure learning makes me really breathless. I also need to vent, but I can't show it in front of my parents because they think I can handle everything, including my emotions.

I started to tease my classmates, which made me feel relieved like never before. First, I bullied Hu Xiaodie, the most beautiful classmate in the class. She was weak and committed suicide by jumping off the building. The police had no evidence and did not find me.

Hu Xiaodie died, Chen Nian became my new "prey", she called the police. The police found my house. Fortunately, my mother didn't believe it. She always thought I was a good boy.

later took a nude photo of Chen Nian. Afterwards, I felt that the game was a bit big this time, and I was afraid it would really push her into a hurry. She went to the police again, and the police caught the evidence and asked me to drop out. So I went to ask Chen Nian.

​​Actually, I'm not afraid of the police looking for me, mainly because I'm really out of school. My dad won't take care of me for the rest of my life, and I am completely disappointed.

After all, he didn't get admitted to a prestigious school this time, and he hadn't paid attention to me for a year.

Anyway, in order to keep my good image in the hearts of my parents, I can bow to anyone.

I am Wei Lai.

I, whenever I encounter a camera, I must lower my head and walk forward.

does not have a fixed occupation, so I have done everything to beg for food. Repairing mobile phones, reselling second-hand mobile phones; working for the boss of a naked loan company, collecting other people's nude photos to collect debts; acting as a "bodyguard" for others as a thug...

The days of mixing in society began at the age of 13. My father abandoned me and my mother when I was very young. My mother took me and couldn't live, and later found an uncle.

One day my mother brought meat buns for me to eat. At that time, the poor meat buns in the family were rare. When I was eating Zhengxiang, my mother began to beat me, crying and beating.

I don’t know. So, my mother said, that uncle doesn’t want her because of the existence of my oil bottle.

Later, my mother did not want me.

I was thrown into the "gutter" of life, no one cares no one hurts. I began to banish myself, fighting and going to the police station became commonplace in life.

Until, one day I met a girl named Chen Nian, who reignited the light in my life.

After I was injured in a fight, someone asked me if it hurts for the first time; she faced the pressure of life just like me, but she didn’t give in and kept working hard to get better; her way of dealing with wicked people was not with her fists. Tooth for tooth, but to study hard to accumulate strength, to become truly powerful...

is in her body, and I also see new possibilities for myself, so I will work hard to protect this glimmer.

Even if Chen Nian accidentally kills Wei Lai who bullied her, I am willing to commit the crime for her and go to jail for her.

Later, I also thought about why I sacrificed my life to protect her. The answer to

is very vague. Until the police asked me a question in the case of Chen Nianding for me, my answer became clear.

He shouted: Do you want your mother to see you like this today?

I don't want to, of course I don't. So I want to keep Chen Nian, she is a driving force for me to become better, a glimmer of hope, a role model.

Only by keeping her, I will not become a waste in my mother's eyes.

I am Xiaobei.

PS: Before, the protagonist Yi Yan Qianxi talked about a problem in an interview.

In the early stage of filming, he couldn't understand the character of Xiaobei, why he looked like a small gangster, but he still had a sense of justice, he would protect people who are weaker than him, and he would bet everything he had to protect Chen Nian.

So he ran to ask the director to verify a long-buried question in his mind. After

got the director's affirmative answer, he felt that Xiaobei's character role was reasonable and he could gradually enter the character state. The reporter from

asked Qian Xi, will his feelings for his mother affect your feeling and interpretation of this role?

Qianxi Answer:

is undoubtedly the three teenagers in the movie who care about their parents in their hearts, and their parents are the softest beings in their hearts.

Even when they tried to ask their parents for warmth, the parents pressed"Mute button".

In spite of this, in the most desperate situation, they still care about their parents most.

Our children in life, don't they also love us so deeply? Before

, there was such a subway photo that went viral on the Internet.

In order to let his tired mother take more breaks, a little boy not only carried the bag for his mother, but also let his mother’s head rest his arm. He kept this position motionless for a long time...

once watched After such a program, mothers are complaining about the various "shortcomings" of their children: they love to wipe their mouths with their sleeves, do not like to eat vegetables, and cry five or six times a day...

At this time, the host asked the mothers: "If you get full marks It's 10 points. How would you rate your children?"

"5 points", "7 points" and "8 points", mothers all said their answers.

And the child on the other side of the camera, speaking of his mother, is full of joy and pride:

likes his mother to play with me, and when I go home from school, I like to let my mother hug, and my mother’s face is like a cotton candy, just love her mother Protect your mother... The host of

also asked the children the same question: "If the full score is 10 points, how would you rate your mother?" The

children said without hesitation: "10 points!", among them was a little girl. "10,000 points" is also given. When

heard the answer, my mother burst into tears.

We often underestimate the children's love for us. As everyone knows, that little person is trying his best to love us.

Even if they are children who fail in the eyes of their mothers, they are never willing to deduct a point for their full-rated mothers.

only because we are their mothers and we are everything to them.

They simply yearn for our embrace, for our touch, and for our company...

stop, squat down, hug them back with their hearts, and don't let them see our distant back.

Don't be the weakness of children, we should be their armor.

is like what Holden in "The Catcher in the Rye" said:

"My job is to keep watch there. If a child runs to the edge of the cliff, I will catch him."

Author|Chuan Ma Yuejiao source: mom sees the world

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