Author: Wen Qiusheng
original article, plagiarism must be investigated
01, introduction
life is like a dream, after waking up everything will turn into nothingness.
Children are the blood of everyone in this world. Everyone wants their children to be successful and to shine in the family.
However, many children cannot make their parents do what they want. They have many bad habits that will chill their parents, and the rich resources they have worked so hard to accumulate will be wasted in vain.
Suhomliski said: "Five years of hard work can certainly train engineers, but it takes a lifetime to learn to be a human being." In a family, children who have these habits will be inferior to each generation.
02. Children gnaw on the old, consuming family resources
Jin Yanxi in "The Family of Gold Fans" doesn't know what the responsibility is at all.
The Jin family is in decline, and everyone's life is far worse than before.
His brothers all chose to work and support themselves. Only he still idles around every day, just wanting to immerse himself in the world of luxury and feasting.
When you run out of money, you ask your parents for it. If the family doesn't want money, you give up your dignity and seek protection from others.
Originally, he had great resources in his hands, but he didn't invest in himself, and he didn't restrain himself, which made his path narrower and narrower.
A child is not independent, has no ability to make money, and only knows how to consume family resources, so he will never be able to make the family develop better.
Maka Lenko said: "Everything is for the child, sacrifice everything for him, even sacrifice his own happiness. Let him bear all this, this is the most terrible gift that parents can give their children."
In many families In the middle school, the children spend money indiscriminately, do not know how to do practical things, and how to live a down-to-earth life.
Blindly gnaw on the old children, can't keep the family business, and can't live a good life. I only know that I am dependent on my parents, I am immature, I will only cause trouble, I cannot share the responsibility, and there will be no development.
03. The family style is not right, children follow the old ways of their parents
In a family, children's words and deeds, in fact, can't help but imitate their parents.
Parents, what kind of qualities they have will bring up what kind of sons. At home, what kind of family tradition is there, and what kind of character and habits the children will have.
Tyman Johnson said: "Successful tutoring creates successful children, and unsuccessful tutoring creates failed children."
If parents have many good habits, skills, and positive views, then Under the influence of ears and eyes, children will also have many good habits.
On the contrary, if the parents do not want to make progress, they idle around all day long, are lazy, and have bad habits. It is difficult for a child to grow up in such an environment to have good qualities and become an excellent person.
andgo hand in hand, if parents don't know how to be a good person and don't establish a good family tradition, then their children won't live a good life.
If the family tradition is corrupt, the children have no restraint on themselves, they are not self-disciplined, and they indulge themselves too much, so it is difficult for the family to maintain a prosperous state.
04, like to take shortcuts, often take detours
Everyone imagines that they will get good returns without putting in much effort.
I hope to have Doraemon's treasure chest. If I want to achieve any purpose, there is a small prop that I can take out to solve problems at any time, so that I can become omnipotent.
But life is life and there are no shortcuts.
If the children are full of thinking about how to take shortcuts, then the road in this life and the future is destined to be more tortuous, and there will be more detours.
There are no shortcuts in life. Most shortcuts are actually detours. The real shortcut to
is to rely on perseverance and work hard on the ground.
If a child does not have perseverance and perseverance, does not want to put in the effort to do something seriously, and always likes to take shortcuts, then it may be difficult for him to be successful.Blindly taking shortcuts in
andwill only make you pay a heavier price.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
As parents, we should educate our children to be down-to-earth. Don't give them too good resources, let them get used to enjoying life, but not enterprising.
At the same time, set a good example for your children.
Parents are educated, motivated, upright, and have no bad habits, so the child will also walk on the right path and become a person of good conduct.
Pay more attention to the growth of children, set an example, and teach them that no pains, no gains. If you want to get better, you must improve your own strength.
Persist in struggle and have strong abilities to live a better life.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng lives on words. The autumn wind boils the rain, a glass of sake, two or three stories, and I will be with you on the lonely road.
