just released a very popular movie "You are a teenager", which has aroused heated discussion. After reading
, my heart couldn't be calm for a long time. The protagonists of the
story are Chen Nian, a Miyoshi student played by Dongyu Zhou, and Xiaobei, a gangster played by Yi Qianqianxi.
Two people are attracted to each other and rely on each other. Their feelings seem to be love, but they are higher than love. After reading
, many girls said:
"I also want to find a boyfriend like Xiaobei."
I believe that in addition to the appearance of the four-character brother, it is more of Xiaobei who is played by him. The charm was moved. In the
movie, Xiaobei leaves all the tenderness to Chen Nian; like a "shadow", he silently guards Chen Nian, who has been bullied by campus.
No matter what others say, he still chooses to stand on Chen Nian's side.
If we can, we must also find someone who will always stand by your side.
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He will always be behind you to protect you
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There is a line in the movie that impressed me very much.
When Chen Nian, who was bullied by her classmates, said: "I want to protect the world" dream, Xiaobei on the side did not laugh at her, but encouraged her to say:
"You protect the world, I protect you"
What is a girl Need a sense of security?
Some people say that they are looking for a rich man with deposits in a bank, and others say that they are looking for a muscular hunk.
But I think the most real sense of security is: the hand of the sweetheart.
no matter how dark the world in front of you is, but as long as you can hold my hand tightly, I am not afraid;
no matter what will happen tomorrow, but knowing you are by my side is full of expectations. In addition to "like" and "work hard" in the relationship,
is more exciting:
guards.
This kind of love is like a protective layer, he will isolate all nuisances for you.
This kind of love is when we face all kinds of ties and irresistible reality, he is still willing to stand up for you and say to you: "Don't be afraid, there is me."
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He is only gentle to you
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Xiao Bei and Chen Nian in the movie are both gentle people. In order to protect Xiao Bei, the weak Chen Nian gave his own kiss.
and Xiaoben was originally a violent boy who spoke with his fists and only dared to live in the dark. However, because of a "kiss" from Chen Nian, Xiaoben gave all his tenderness and patience. How does
describe a gentle person?
I think a gentle person, he is like a light, which makes people feel warm and full of hope. With them,
can always clear the haze in your heart and encourage you to be positive.
will comfort you softly and take care of you in every possible way. It’s not good enough, and can give you a warm bear hug.
If you can, you must fall in love with a gentle person!
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He paid for you silently
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In fact, in the whole movie, Xiaobei and Chen Nian never said a word about "love" from beginning to end, but it is even more touching.
Because true love is not just talking, the most powerful proof is your actual actions. There is a long shot in the
movie. Chen Nian was forced to cut his bald head, while Xiaobei stood behind him and said nothing.
just picked up the tools silently and cut off his long hair.
The person who loves you so much does not count how much he has given, but willingly wants to give you the best.
He will secretly save money to buy you favorite bags and lipsticks, and give you the surprises you want; he will worry that it is bad for you to always eat takeaways, and take the initiative to cook for you.
In their hearts, your happiness is the most important thing, so they will try to give you the best.
The person who really loves you, when you are sick, he never tells you to "drink more hot water",
has already prepared a cup of warm water just enough to drink on your table;
he never talks about it Sweet love words make you happy,
, but he is willing to shield you from wind and rain when you are in trouble; when you are in danger, righteousnessGu Di protect you. The true feeling of
silently giving is far more solid than the vigorous "false feelings".
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He takes all the suffering for you
The boy who is always on your side, he will consider everything for you first, because he only wants to take care of you.
At the same time, he will treat you as a treasure, not wanting to make you feel wronged.
No matter how many obstacles and difficulties there are in front of you, he will always be in front of you, blocking all the damage for you.
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He supports you unconditionally
When we encounter a quarrel, there are roughly two situations.
One kind is complaining about you, while the other kind will hold you in your arms.
I believe Xiaobei is the second type.
When the whole world was fighting against Chen Nian, he chose to stand on the opposite side of the whole world.
In fact, we are all mediocre ordinary people, and there are always countless small problems on our bodies.
is a bit grumpy, not virtuous or gentle enough, and clumsy to do housework...
but people who are really nice to you, I don’t think that you are a road idiot and I can’t find the way for a long time, but will hold your hand every time;
will not think you are not gentle enough, but will treat you gentle.
will not tell you the truth, because his truth is you.
Every girl is eager to be cared for. What they need is a man who can stand in front of them and shelter them from the wind and rain when she is wronged, and has nothing to do with right or wrong.
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single-minded
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Xinyiwu said in the "Day of Promise",
"Singularity is not to love only one person for a lifetime, but to love that person only to be good to her."
remembers the movie The policeman in Beijing once asked Xiaobei: "You look so good-looking, there should be many girls who like it?"
Xiaobei did not answer, but I believe that at this time, he must be thinking of Chen Nian.
No matter how many temptations around him, he can remain unmoved, and you can feel at ease with him all the time.
Because you are his only choice, there is no other alternative.
This is the performance of truly loving someone.
"I love you, and I only love you."
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There is a word mentioned in the movie: symbiosis.
In fact, good love is a symbiotic relationship.
If you are willing to stand on my side forever, then I will always be by your side, and never leave;
between us, we can’t do without anyone.
hope that each of us can meet the "Xiao Bei" who is willing to always stand by your side.
He will remove all the haze for you, give you the warmest company, wholeheartedly guard you alone, for life, for life.
Whenever, no matter what difficulties he encounters, he will say to you:
"I will always be on your side."
Then I can also say to him:
"I am actually too."
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