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If someone is given a choice between being a gu or a diamond, who doesn't want to be a diamond? But without pressure, there are no diamonds. If you want to be a shining diamond, you not only need to think about it, but also need to bear the pressure first, especially the pressure from your parents.
two. In one year, Tseng Yani, who was only 22 years old, won the Australian Golf Masters Championship, not only became the world's number one women's golf player, but also won five major championships, beating former world champion Tiger Woods Record at age twenty-four. Both "diamonds" are the product of stress.
Zeng Yani came from a good family. Both parents like to play golf. She was fascinated by her eyes and ears. She showed a spontaneous interest in golf when she was five years old. So her parents ordered a small club for her to teach her how to play. At the age of six, he played his first golf tournament, which was impressive. But the key is that Zeng's father, a successful businessman, decided to treat his daughter as a "business management".
Zeng's father hired a coach for her when she was eight years old. She went to the driving range to practice for two hours every day, and then went to the golf course to play nine and eighteen holes on weekends. From the age of 12, he went abroad every summer to participate in this competition and training. Later, he asked coaches to train him in three aspects: physical fitness, swing and psychology. Zeng's father is not soft-hearted about his daughter's investment, but he is not soft-hearted either. When Zeng Yani played badly or had a sloppy attitude, he would press her and even scold her to put pressure on her. In this regard, Zeng's father has his own logic: "If you want to put pressure on her, pressure is the way to raise her heart."
Maybe Zeng Yani, who was under a lot of pressure, was in a rebellious period, and began to talk back to her father. At the age of thirteen,
was even more addicted to the golf club and refused to play golf again. Fortunately, the coach came forward, enlightened her with kind words, and moved her with emotion, which made her change her mind. In fact, Dad Zeng is quite caring for his daughter in his daily life. For example, he cooks himself and makes the wonderful double-cooked pork with garlic sprouts that his daughter likes to eat. He also takes care to make low-oil love dishes to help his daughter lose weight. Just under this kind of hard and soft, Zeng Yani can finally face the pressure with a smile and regard it as a kind of enjoyment. In terms of golf experience, Tiger Woods was enlightened earlier than Tseng Yani. He was taken to the practice course by his father, who is also a golf enthusiast, before the age of two. He soon showed his talent in this area. At the age of eight That is, he won the world champion of the nine-to-ten-year-old youth group, and is known as a gifted child.
As a mixed-race black, Woods' father's economy is not rich, and his son is mainly trained by him. The so-called "the court is like a battlefield", in addition to the skills of the game, Woods' father who retired from the Vietnam War especially used his own experience to train his son how to remain calm in a tense atmosphere and not panic.
He also has very strict requirements for his son. During training, he often threw the pole and reprimanded him. Later, he joked with himself: "I was so angry with my son that I wanted to kill me." But when his son was about to explode, he would immediately change. be soft. Of course, it's all a matter of love, until one day, when his son smiled as much as he did and stopped resisting, Dad Woods breathed a sigh of relief and said, "Son, training is over. I promise, No one will be stronger than your will."
Therefore, "Mount Tai collapses in front of the front and the color remains unchanged, and the elk rises to the left without blinking" has become Tiger's housekeeping skills on the court, and even more so. The key to his victory. Zeng Yani and Tiger both showed their spontaneous interest in golf before their father guided them and taught them according to their aptitude. But why put so much pressure on your children? Zeng's father said, "You are better than others, and of course you have to work harder than others." But what if you endure hardships and your dreams come to nothing? Woods' dad said, "My goal is to train Tiger to be an outstanding person."
In fact, after such training, even if you don't play golf, you can have extraordinary performance in other fields.
If you want to be a diamond, not only can you not complain about the pressure your parents put on you, but also thank you.
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