Recently, the hit drama "Our Ten Years" swiped the Internet.
This is a TV series that positions the story in "the development of the past ten years".
tells about the perseverance and pursuit of everyone in different industries, and reflects the progress and changes of the times.
Not long after the show aired, the ratings soared, and it was on the hot search for a while, and was also recommended by media platforms such as CCTV . In the first unit story of
, " Tang Palace Night Banquet ", many people just called them fans. The story of
tells the growth experience of several female dancers in the song and dance troupe, and interprets their persistence to the original intention of dancing.
has been honed for ten years off stage, and once on stage, he will show his style.
In them, I see the 3 most scarce abilities of a woman in life choices and growth.
Source: Panoramic Vision There are a lot of things you want to do, but very little of what you actually do, it all depends on your attitude.
If you believe you can do it well and do your best, it usually doesn't end too bad. Yi Wenyan in
"Tang Palace Night Banquet" loves dancing very much and works harder than others.
, but the result was not satisfactory, not because she was not competent enough, but because she lacked confidence in herself.
Among the many dancers, she has always been unknown, dancing in supporting roles and standing in the shadows of others.
After a long time, she has positioned herself as a substitute, thinking that she can't jump to corner A at all.
Once, the theater invited Shen Jiayi, a dancer.
This is a talented girl with a solid foundation in dancing, and she dances gracefully and gracefully.
Xiaoyan said very frustrated after reading it: "She and I are the difference between the chicken head and the crested head."
has a saying that is right: "'s sense of inferiority is a subjective determination."
watched her gradually sinking, and the vice president told her: "Self-esteem is for arguing with others, not for use. Escape, give up, the gap will be even bigger.” The director of
told her:
“Although you don’t have her explosiveness, you are more flexible.
“You can’t jump out of her rhythm, but you are smoother. So don't blindly imitate her, imitating her is equal to promoting your own shortcomings and avoiding your own strengths.
"Don't be obsessed with that skill, just use your own ability to express the character well."
With their encouragement, Xiaoyan began to think about how to interpret the character, how to jump out of her own style, instead of just staring at it The strengths of others and the weaknesses of oneself are entangled.
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Keigo Higashino once wrote a sentence in the book: "Close your eyes and think about your previous efforts, confidence will spew out."
To be appreciated by others.
Later, she began to interpret the character in her own way, and finally won the approval of everyone.
Not only did she catch up with the A corner, but she was also very innovative and danced with her own style.
A woman with self-confidence and self-appreciation will make her whole soul shine.
know yourself, so that you can temper yourself, let yourself grow, and finally perfect yourself and sublimate yourself.
Appreciating others is a kind of ability, appreciating oneself is a kind of wisdom.
No one can be trusted unless you use
CCTV host Ni Ping once said: "It depends on the mountains, people are old, you will find out if you rely on it, and in the end you rely on yourself."
It is not advisable for a woman to spend the rest of her life by marriage.
No one in this world will be your safe haven in this life, only you are the last refuge. Lin Beibei in
is a very talented dancer.
She achieved the starring role with little effort, and was also trained as the chief successor.
But she wanted to do it once and for all, rather than rehearsing that was hard and tiring.
Although dancing is a career that I love, the salary of this job is low, which is far from the life I want.
She thinks that she can't dance for a lifetime, she still wants to get married, and it is more reliable to find a long-term meal ticket.
With her beauty, Lin Beibei found a rich second-generation boyfriend who had a car to drive and money to spend.
The life of "depending on others and having enough food and clothing" is almost at hand.
Just when she was about to resign, something happened that made her re-examine whether she made the right choice.
When she was at her boyfriend's wine party, someone coaxed her to dance.
Lin Beibei was reluctant to dance, but her boyfriend insisted on letting her dance for everyone to "enhance the fun", and she left when she got angry.
Then she woke up. It turned out that her boyfriend was just coveting her beauty, not loving her. If the two got married, they would definitely have no freedom in the future.
used to say in ancient times: "The concubine is Siluo, I would like to rely on the arbor."
In real life, only the arbor is good enough to rely on.
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Lin Beibei began to reflect: she has a talent for dancing, why not rely on herself to fight for everything she wants.
people have a clear goal, and they have the motivation to work hard. After
broke up with her boyfriend, she regained her original goal and stood on the stage to be the protagonist of her life.
Yu Qiuyu wrote in the book:
"The road of life, you have to walk step by step by yourself. It is never someone else who can truly protect you, but your own life choices."
A woman can choose to be a full-time wife , can also choose to work.
No matter which way you go, you must have a skill that you can master in order to live calmly in a long life.
actor Wu YanShu said:
"The more independent a woman is, the more advanced her life will be. An independent girl will have a light, and others will like her more, because she does not rely on others, and she can help others."
is alive, the biggest The confidence is always the one who moves forward independently.
don't have to wait for the wind to come, as long as you are good enough, you can also go straight to the sky.
A woman with a tough heart and perseverance
The talent of ordinary people is to persevere and persevere.
If a woman wants to live her life well, she must cultivate a strong heart and actively face the impermanence of life.
Wang Baoyuan is an ordinary dancer with a fat body and low talent, but she has "failed and fought repeatedly" and never gives up easily.
She works hard to lose weight, others eat and drink water, others rest her training.
But she has been working so hard to prepare for the stage, and she has never had a chance.
But she still insists on dancing, because she likes it, so she will not give up. Everyone in the
theater said that she was the hardest working one in the whole hospital.
Finally, she ushered in an opportunity to become a member of "The Resurrection of Tang Figures". It's a pity that
was not selected because of lack of skills.
was saddened to learn that she was unable to attend, but soon cheered up.
Don't rehearse without a chance? Lax without a chance?
No, Wang Baoyuan is a very resilient woman and she still decides to move forward.
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Later, the choreographer planned to re-choreograph "Tang Palace Night Banquet" and let everyone gather in the training room.
Wang Baoyuan finally got a second chance to join the rearranged "Tang Palace Night Banquet".
She continued to devote herself to training, working harder and harder than before.
This time, she was finally able to perform on stage without being replaced by the director, so she appeared on TV and made her family proud.
Inamori Kazuo once said:
"The so-called 'no less than anyone's efforts' does not mean 'to this extent', but an endless and endless effort. To move forward, we must make continuous and infinite efforts."
Wang Baoyuan has been advancing again and again, and has stepped onto the stage that he has longed for for a long time.
The counterattack of ordinary people is to not miss any opportunity to face all kinds of ups and downs in life.
A woman with perseverance and resilience who will not be influenced by circumstances.
Do what you want to do, keep doing it, concentrate on it, and your life will be bright.
If no one ferry you, then be your own ferryman.
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The experience of the three girls in the play gave us a mirror.
To live well, a woman should have her own thoughts and actions instead of relying on others; she should not be afraid of setbacks, cultivate a strong heart, and work hard to move forward without hesitation; moreover, she should never forget to appreciate herself and express herself yourself, love yourself.
Hemingway once said something deeply rooted in people's hearts: "Being superior to others is not noble. The real nobility should be being superior to your past self." .
I hope you don't cling to anyone, live your life, and walk the world confidently and calmly.
Author: Youshujing, source: Youshu (ID: youshucc).
