Foreword:
Andy Lau , as one of the 4 kings, has held many concerts in his acting career. Lai Wenhui has never missed any concert as his backup dancer, and is known as "the king of the stage". Sister-in-law".
She accompanied Andy Lau for 25 years and watched Andy Lau find happiness, but now she is still single at the age of 41.
So, what is it that supports her to accompany Andy Lau for 25 years? How is her life now?
1. The road to chasing stars
Lai Wenhui was sent to learn dance by her parents when she was very young. From the moment she can remember, she knows that she loves dance very much. Although the training in class is very hard every day, she has never given up.
At that time, she was not very old. She just started learning dance as a hobby and did not think about the future development. Until 1995, she saw Andy Lau sing " Forgetting Love Shui " on TV, and she was directly attracted by Andy Lau's temperament. deeply attracted.
Lai Wenhui stared intently at the TV, fantasizing about the scene where she would perform on the same stage with him. From then on, she had a goal in mind.
In order to achieve her goals as soon as possible, Lai Wenhui not only practiced dance seriously in get out of class every day, but also asked herself to practice more after class. She was alone in an empty classroom. Even though she was very tired, she felt very happy.
The first thing she did when she got home was to turn on the TV and watch Andy Lau's show. Besides watching Andy Lau, she also envied those dancers very much. She didn't know when she would be able to share the stage with her idol.
Even though her hopes were very slim, she still did not lose heart. Finally, when she was 16 years old, she waited for an opportunity, and this opportunity successfully changed her life.
In 2002, Andy Lau was holding a concert tour. When he was about to go on stage, one of the dancers suddenly threw something and left, and he was about to perform on stage. The sudden lack of a dancer caught people off guard.
At this moment, a friend of Andy Lau brought Lai Wenhui to him. This was also Lai Wenhui's first close contact with Andy Lau, and she could clearly feel her heart beating faster and faster.
"Her name is Lai Wenhui. She has good dancing skills and she is very smart. She can teach dance moves almost once."
Andy Lau looked at the girl in front of him, turned around and handed a bottle of water to her and said:
"I watch You seem to be very nervous, take it easy, it's alright."
Lai Wenhui's mind went blank for a moment. After receiving the water, she froze in place and motionless. Go to the designated position and prepare to play.
She followed the other dancers on stage one after another. In order not to disappoint her idol, she played 12 points and showed her style on the stage.
During this process, Andy Lau also noticed this girl, saw her advantages, and immediately invited her after the end, hoping to retain such talents. After
Lai Wenhui received the invitation, although she really wanted to agree, she thought that she might not be able to shoulder such an important task with her current strength. After thinking for a long time, she finally chose to refuse.
After this time, Andy Lau remembered this girl, while Lai Wenhui became harder than before, and was successfully admitted to the famous Hong Kong Dance Academy.
During this period, someone wanted to interview her, but she refused all these interviews, thinking that only by training hard can she be on the same stage with Andy Lau one day.
One year later, she learned that Andy Lau was going to hold a concert. In order to be able to watch it live, she tried every means and finally got a concert ticket.
Lai Wenhui was sitting in the audience, screaming around her, looking at her idol on the stage, she didn't know if she would have a chance to share the stage with Andy Lau.
Andy Lau, who was performing on stage, noticed Lai Wenhui's figure very early, and immediately asked the staff to stop her after the performance.
Lai Wenhui followed the staff to the backstage and saw Andy Lau again. Although she was still a little nervous, she tried her best to calm herself down.
Andy Lau sent her an invitation again. This time, she did not refuse, but agreed directly, because she thought that if she missed this opportunity, there might be no next time.
That's it, Lai Wenhui successfully joined Andy Lau's team, which also made her dream that she persisted in for many years finally come true. Andy Lau also values her very much, and their cooperation on stage became more and more proficient.
So, is Lai Wenhui's choice wise?
Two and 25 years of
After Lai Wenhui joined Andy Lau's team, the main task every day was rehearsal. She took every rehearsal very seriously, fearing that she would fail her idol's expectations.
Because the rehearsal schedule is very tight every day, she has no time to take care of her own life. Her boyfriend always wants her to spend more time with him, but every time she promises verbally, but does not take action .
After a long time, her boyfriend broke up with her. The breakup was a big blow to her, but she didn't let up her rehearsals because of it. After
broke up with her boyfriend, she threw herself into her career, and she never found a partner. Seeing that she was not too young, her parents always urged her to find a partner, intentionally or unintentionally.
She went on a blind date a few times, but she never accepted it. Later, she gave up completely, focused on her career, and became more and more comfortable with performing on stage.
In 2007, Lai Wenhui and Andy Lau co-performed "The Shepherd's Flute" on the stage. Their affectionate performance on stage moved the audience to tears. After the performance of
, Andy Lau officially introduced Lai Wenhui to the audience. Since then, she has gradually begun to attract people's attention, and her popularity has become higher and higher.
In addition to their affectionate performances on the stage, Andy Lau also took good care of her during private rehearsal. At that time, many people thought that she must be called the Queen's Wife, but there was no news of the two.
Because before Lai Wenhui joined the team, Andy Lau was already with , Zhu Liqian, , and the age difference between the two was too much. Under the accumulation of various factors, the two could only cooperate on stage .
And for Andy Lau's career, Zhu Liqian was willing to support her silently behind her back for 22 years. In all these years, she never complained, and finally made a promise in 2008, and the two entered the palace of marriage. After
got married, Zhu Liqian still did not choose to make it public, and continued to be the virtuous inner helper behind Andy Lau. A year later, Andy Lau published an apology letter on the Internet, which let people know that they were married.
Lai Wenhui watched her idol find her own happiness with her own eyes, but she never thought of becoming Andy Lau's partner, she just wanted to be able to dance for him all the time.
It is precisely because of her thoughts that she can always accompany Andy Lau as a backup dancer. There was once a Hong Kong rich man who asked her to perform for him at a high price. She didn't even look at the money. Rejected, and also said:
"Andy Lau is my Bole, and I am willing to repay it with my life."
It is because of this that the scandal between her and Andy Lau has become more and more intense, and many people think that Andy Lau will eventually choose Lai. Wenhui, but Lai Wenhui always has an appreciative attitude towards Andy Lau.
Although the relationship between the two is always unclear in the eyes of outsiders, but they know in their own hearts that they are more about mutual admiration, and soon their scandals will no longer be followed because there is no follow-up.
Lai Wenhui has accompanied Andy Lau for 25 years. The two have long been the best partners on the stage. Now, what kind of life does she live at the age of 41?
3. Later,
Lai Wenhui is not only Andy Lau's best partner, she and Andy Lau's wife are also good sisters. In her eyes, such a perfect idol must marry an excellent wife.
At that time, Andy Lau didn't have a big wedding, just invited some relatives and friends, and she and Zhu Liqian also became good sisters because of this dinner.
After Andy Lau revealed the news of his marriage, many people thought that Zhu Liqian would be jealous, but she was not. She watched the wonderful performances of the two at the concert, and she was not uncomfortable.
In her spare time, she also personally teaches Lai Wenhui to make desserts. It can be seen from the friendly daily life of the two that Lai Wenhui and Andy Lau have a frank relationship.
once interviewed Lai Wenhui:
"Did you fall in love with Andy Lau?"
She just smiled and replied:
"Who doesn't love him?" That boundary, this is perhaps the most comfortable relationship between fans and idols.
Lai Wenhui, who is now 41 years old, is still single. During this period, Zhu Liqian also introduced her to someone, but none of them were successful. In the eyes of outsiders, they all think that she did not get married because of Andy Lau.
In fact, she is more for herself, to be able to stand on the same stage as Andy Lau, this is her dream since childhood, and she has worked hard to realize this dream.
She doesn't want to give up her dream easily because of some other reasons, so that she will not only regret herself, but also her idol.
Andy Lau's team has a lot of backup dancers. Now Andy Lau gradually fades out of people's attention, not to mention those backup dancers. Some people choose to open dance classes, and some people finally live a leisurely life.
's most outstanding Lai Wenhui refused all interviews, and was unwilling to reveal too much to the media about being a backup dancer, but she gradually faded out of people's field of vision by herself.
If Lai Wenhui is someone Andy Lau is very grateful for, then Yang Lijuan is the one who makes Andy Lau feel scared.
Because Yang Lijuan dreamed of Andy Lau, she thought that he was her destined other half. Since then, she has started her crazy road of chasing stars.
Although she and Lai Wenhui both wanted to stay by Andy Lau's side, she chose a very extreme approach, and her parents were very supportive of her approach. In order for her to succeed in chasing stars, they did not hesitate to sell the house.
Yang Lijuan became even more extreme with the support of her parents. In order to meet Andy Lau, she even asked her father to sell her kidneys. The incident of
has been making a lot of noise on the Internet. For this reason, Andy Lau's studio also issued a special statement, mainly to persuade her to pursue the stars rationally.
But this method doesn't work at all. She thinks that she doesn't care if she can't see Andy Lau. What she doesn't know is that her family has already carried a lot of debts to support her in chasing stars.
In 2007, Yang Lijuan finally got her wish to meet Andy Lau, but such a short meeting could not satisfy her at all, so she made a very excessive request, she wanted to spend 90 minutes alone with Andy Lau.
studio, out of safety concerns, naturally would not agree, she heard such an answer and left the scene very sad, all her emotions were seen by her father, so her father decided to let himself play the last remaining heat .
The next day, her father committed suicide by jumping into the sea from the Hong Kong pier, and the content of the suicide note left it all blamed on Andy Lau.
After her father's death, Yang Lijuan still did not regret it, but added a new reason for her to see Andy Lau - to fulfill her father's last wish.
also pushed Andy Lau into the limelight of public opinion. At that time, many people didn't know where to get Andy Lau's phone number, and they not only called him frantically, but even tried to meet him in person.
At that time, Andy often went to the hospital for regular psychological counseling, and anonymously helped Yang Lijuan's family repay their debts. In order to see Andy, she even continued to use extreme methods. Her love for Andy gradually turned into hatred.
Yang Lijuan's wish did not come true. She returned to her hometown in despair. After returning home, she was very angry when she saw the things she had bought in the house. She sorted them all and set them on fire.
is also the experience of burning things this time, which made her realize the situation at home and the importance of family members. This once made Andy Lau ten times.Fans who are scared, are now called a supermarket employee.
Lai Wenhui and Yang Lijuan also started chasing stars at the age of 16, but Lai Wenhui succeeded in performing on the same stage with idols through her own efforts, but Yang Lijuan became the person Andy Lau didn't want to mention.
4. Conclusion
Lai Wenhui used her actions, step by step, to successfully approach her idol. During this period, she never had any superfluous feelings. Maybe in her heart, this is the best relationship between fans and idols distance. It is precisely because of her rationality that
not only improved her ability, but also successfully won Andy Lau's appreciation, and she took the initiative to invite her to join the team. On the stage of
, she is the envy of fans. Offstage, she is thinking of Andy Lau all the time. She has truly achieved star chasing without picking stars. In the process of chasing stars, she constantly improves herself. This is the value of star chasing.
And Andy Lau named his daughter Liu Xianghui , perhaps hoping that her daughter would take her as a role model to learn from, but some netizens speculated that Andy Lau pinned his feelings for Lai Wenhui on his daughter.
No matter what the Internet says, Lai Wenhui is always a good example of chasing stars. From her experience, she can see a girl who is constantly working hard to realize her dreams.
Although she is still single, a good person like her will one day find her own happiness and will definitely lead a better life.
