The Chinese civilization has been up and down for five thousand years, and it has been looked up to by the world for a long time.
In the traditional concept, there is a saying in the Chinese people that "there are three things without filial piety and there is no future", but the author has never been able to understand it. Some people say that this is the premise to satisfy the elders' wish to enjoy family happiness, some people say it is for raising children and preventing old age, and some people say it is for the inheritance of family heritage. No matter what the external potential requirements of
are, the choice is still up to you, but those who are willing to " over-interpret ".
In fact, many times, you can think from another angle, what is the meaning of people coming to this world?
Take the matter of inheriting the lineage as an example. In the future, you may have many children and grandchildren, leaving descendants for the whole family, but the premise is that while you spend a lot of time, you must successfully teach them many things, such as filial piety, etc.;
The process is accompanied by a lot of effort and restraint, and all links are in an ideal state, who can guarantee that there will be no diseases and accidents? If
doesn't want to be troubled by these aspects, the only choice is as mentioned above, but I am afraid that some people are "forced" to become one of them.
As the first brother of CCTV, Zhang Hongmin interprets his hosting career to the extreme, created a miracle of zero slips during 32 years, the only regret is that he is single so far and has no children.
, who is 61 years old, has been criticized or connoted by netizens many times. Is it really as he said: no time to fall in love?
Zhang Hongmin, the first brother of CCTV
, was born in Haidian, Beijing in 1961. His parents are high-level intellectuals, so naturally he will not be too bad.
's good habits will benefit him for life. In the pre-school enlightenment stage, his mother began to give him special training. When he reached the age of school, Zhang Hongmin has always been a lot ahead of other children, as long as he is always among the best in the exam.
classmates envy the teacher who likes praise from neighbors, and Zhang Hongmin has high expectations from more and more people. At first,
's mother hoped that he could pursue his own research major, so that he would avoid many detours. Zhang Hongmin himself agreed, but he didn't expect that he fell in love with broadcasting in high school.
was a popular radio at the time, and Zhang Hongmin was very curious about it. After learning that it was a real voice, he set up such an ambition.
has goals and will have motivation. In the following study, Zhang Hongmin became more and more hardworking, and even worked overtime after completing the task, just for the realization of his ideal.
He lived up to the expectations of others. After graduating from high school, he was admitted to the Beijing Broadcasting Institute with excellent grades.
Compared with these classmates who have been hosting activities since childhood, Zhang Hongmin does not know how many years later, but he believes that it is never too late, and then he has put in more efforts than ordinary people can do.
After graduating from the undergraduate program, the TV station team came to the college to recruit students, and Zhang Hongmin won with an outstanding level.
Many people often take him as a portrayal of the growth of "News Network", I don't think this is surprising at all. From the initial black and white to the later full color of , Zhang Hongmin has always been the "little " in front of everyone's TV. Boy ".
has been in the business for 32 years, and Zhang Hongmin has never made a slip of the tongue. Until now, he has been used as a role model by countless children of broadcasting hosts.
Someone said, didn't the host of just read according to the manuscript? is great if you read it right ?
seems simple, but it's actually very difficult. You may be "mouthed" in your usual conversations. What's more, Zhang Hongmin is facing tens of thousands of viewers. Can you imagine what the concept is? Before
had no children and no daughters and
had not retired from the background, the majority of netizens had ridiculed him. How could such an excellent gene have no descendants?
Zhang Hongmin never paid attention to these voices, and did what he should do in obscurity.
originally thought that the comments from the outside world would slowly disappear with the passage of time. Who would have thought that the appearance of a photo would make Zhang Hongmin the focus of heated discussions among netizens again.
Zhang Hongmin was 59 years old in that year, wearingSitting plainly on a park bench and eating ice cream is a bit desolate.
"I really don't know what life is for? Where is the meaning of life like this?"
"If you don't get married and have children, you can be regarded as not contributing to the country"
"If everything is like this, there will be no descendants in China after a hundred years. "... The various connotations in
's words seem to have great resistance to Zhang Hongmin's behavior of not having children, but there are some rational people in front of the screen, saying that whether or not to have children is entirely up to others' choices and has nothing to do with others. .
These voices intensified, and everyone wanted to know the answer in their hearts, until one day, what he once said appeared on the Internet: himself is not pitiful, nor is he unmarried, but because of work, he can't smoke. Make time to fall in love .
Some people may ask, it is understandable when he was a host, but after many years, he has retired, is there still no time?
I think the real answer is not the case, but some joys and sorrows touched him deeply , especially Zhang Hongmin's former colleague Luo Jing .
Luo Jing's life trajectory is as ordinary people think, getting married and having children, and his career is booming, but he died of illness at the age of 48. The beauty that the three of them promised together left only the wife and children to run silently. Who would want to leave such a regret?
laughed at the world
In the end, Zhang Hongmin just chose to be the real himself.
may seem a little helpless and pitiful to others, but only Zhang Hongmin knows whether he is happy or not. After all, he has devoted most of his life to the cause he loves, and he will cultivate more excellent broadcasters in the future. Not a treat?
At the end of the article, I would like to give you a sentence: August Yangtze River Wanliqing, Qianfan together with the wind . The world of
is too complicated. As a part of the big environment, the hardest thing to do is to be true to yourself. Let yourself return to the original innocence, not hypocritical or humble, do what you like to do, and you will find that this kind of life is really easy.
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