entertainment circle, multiple couples are very common, but it is not common for couples who can experience the joy of having both children. After all, this probability is not very high.
Even having three children can't make up a pair of children, this kind of thing really can't be forced! What seems easy can also be challenging.
Qi Wei posted "another" the official announcement of the birth of a second child, she couldn't hide her joy
Some time ago, Qi Wei announced in a high-profile manner that she would quit her career and go home to concentrate on childbirth. Many netizens sent their blessings one after another, and everyone was heartbroken. It is tacitly believed that good things are coming. Otherwise, how could a workaholic like Qi Wei be willing to let go of work?
And just on September 25, Qi Wei posted a new update on Weibo, with a copy of "Another One", and the official announced that she had given birth to a second child. Although the appearance of the child and her postpartum status have not been exposed, but through the act of sharing the good news with everyone, it can still be seen that she herself cannot hide her joy.
After all, for Qi Wei, it is not easy to give birth to this child at great risk , one of the risks is that he is already 38 years old, and he has long missed the best reproductive age. There is no difference, I think the problem is not big, but only if I understand myself, how much physical challenge must I endure.
The second risk is that you are an actor, you have to keep your body in shape at all times and control your body shape well. If you eat this bowl of rice, you have to be restricted because of this. But because of my pregnancy, my body will be seriously fat, and it is not easy to return to the original appearance.
But anyway, the second child has been born, these problems and difficult situations, Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun must be able to think about it in advance, so there is no need for us melon eaters to worry and consider. We just express our blessings. There is news from
: the son will take his mother's surname
Before the child was born, Qi Wei publicly stated that her second child would follow her mother's surname whether it was a male or a female, that is, the same surname as herself Qi Wei . And this is not her unilateral elaboration, it has been recognized by Lee Seung-hyun, and it is the result of two people's careful consideration.
After all, this kind of situation often happens in our daily life, but the premise of this situation is that there are more than 2 children in the family, and it is very rare for the first child to take the mother's surname directly. Gives us a feeling that boys are stuck in the door.
The child takes the mother's surname, which is enough to see the woman's position in the in-law's family.
All along, we have always adhered to the conventional behavior of taking the father's surname after the child is born. No matter how strange the mother's surname is, and how much it needs to be inherited and promoted, it will never become The reality that prevents children from taking their father's surname. Even women see this as a social norm. Nor will it question their social status.
Because whatever surname the child takes, it means who the head of the household is. If the child takes the mother's surname, in the eyes of outsiders, this man will feel that this man has no place in the family. This is something that most men cannot readily accept.
But when there are more than one child, the child's last name becomes a bit more random. This is not a contempt for inheritance, but a new means of improving women's social status. In this way, the woman will feel more attention and rights, although it seems wishful thinking, but it is enough for the woman.
Children follow their mother's surname, and there will be a lot of unnecessary trouble in the future
In our normalized cognition, children all follow their father's surname, as long as two people's surnames remain the same, it will allow us to easily gain insight into their relationship delicate relationship. This is very important for many traditional people.
However, if the child does not inherit the father's surname, there will be some unnecessary trouble andFriction, it takes more time and thought to understand the real background of the child. Is the unnecessary loss caused by it a waste?
If others question the relationship between two children with different surnames, and the children are affected by their immaturity, this consequence is also very important, and maybe it will also affect the parent-child relationship between them!
Summary for today:
If you had a second child, would you choose to let the children have two different surnames with their parents? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!
