's recent female-themed hit drama " Their Names ", I have been thinking about several relationships that I can encounter in my life. Thinking about these relationships is really hard to come by. Sometimes not everyone can meet such a life partner, but it is lucky enough to have one.
1. Appreciating the leader who trusts and protects himself, Shen Jianan, a rich second-generation
, wants to fight the "little three" recklessly and encounters Mr. Lei. When the misunderstanding is resolved, he becomes Mr. Lei's loyal assistant. When facing sexual harassment in the workplace, Shen Jianan was outspoken and dared to speak out in anger, but the atmosphere in the office had reached the point of embarrassment. Mr. Lei's appearance not only protected his employees, but also gave Mr. Dong face.
An Yan and Tan Tian are like the right-hand man of President Lei, giving them enough trust. Every cooperation victory that can be won is inseparable from the dedication of the two of them, not to mention An Yan's final betrayal. It is not easy to meet leaders in the workplace who can see your ability to work and appreciate you enough to trust you.
watched them work together to help Mr. Lei, feeling more like comrades-in-arms fighting together, without any pretense of leadership and caution in the workplace.
2. My best friend,
, who is always on her side, works hard to manage her family, but she is still full of problems. Coincidentally, she became good friends with Mr. Lei and Shen Jianan. They accompanied her every time she was depressed or unconfident or even had problems in the marriage relationship, encouraging her to leave the family, supporting her to start a business, and being able to help her. She "tears" the stumbling block of marriage. When you are alone in a foreign land, you can have such close friends and support you, and any difficulties can be solved in a suitable way. There is also a famous scene in the
drama where Lei Li's friend took her to the class reunion. The class reunion after graduation has changed to some extent. There is innuendo at the dinner table, and the yin and yang are strange. The wedding gift, Lei Li responded with domineering, and left the stage with friends, which made people feel relieved. It's really enviable to have a good friend who can show up for your forbearance.
3. The frank, self-loving, and bounded husband
Ren Duomei and her husband's marriage are full of lies. Looking at her husband from a female perspective, she is full of selfishness, no sense of boundaries, and so much hypocrisy. in. In terms of having children, he has always concealed his ability to bear children, and instead he has thrown away his responsibilities and responsibilities, and pushed it to his wife to face it; in terms of junior sisters, he has always had no sense of boundaries, misunderstood others, and did not explain and agree with others. Avoid suspicion; when Duomi wanted to start a business, she tried to control her mind with a good face in disguise. The picture of this relationship mode is suffocating.
In the relationship of love and marriage, if you only rely on false business, you will only be exhausted physically and mentally, and the tragedy will end. Being honest and sincere is the best way to get along in a relationship. Those who love you will never give up on you because of your shortcomings, and will fight alongside you. Even if we are abandoned, we must continue to live bravely. In this world, no one wants to be kind to whom all the time.
4. I can never defeat myself,
, as the leader's thunder grain, has a big pattern, can be reasonable, and can always grasp the core of things when faced with mistakes made by his subordinates, and doing things is more practical than small tricks. Competitors at her work have tried many times to defeat her, but have failed. Although she chose to leave in order to protect her subordinates in the end, her strong working ability is indestructible. Someone recommended a job for her, and the headquarters also cast an olive branch for her. These are the toughness that her ability brings her in the workplace.
In life we need all kinds of relationships to enrich ourselves, and these relationships make up the joys and sorrows of our lives. But the most important thing is to build yourself and work hard to grow. One's own working ability and way of life are the foundation and foundation for a happy life with oneself.
Take care of your feathers, not be defined, not labelled, and have your own unique name. Cherish all the good relationships life has to offer and discard the bad ones that consume us. Simple, brave, frank, warm life!
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