is a teacher who has become an emotional mentor known all over the country, which is the most "deviant" thing Huang Han has done.
At that time, her parents and colleagues were deeply puzzled by this. Can Huang Han really be accepted by everyone?
In 2010, after the " If You Are the One " program was broadcast, Lejia and Meng Fei instantly became popular, only Huang Han was tepid. because her words are not sharp, not direct, and even have a little too traditional thinking.
But many years later, everyone found that Huang Han is the most correct one in "If You Are the One". Her view on love is the knowledge she has accumulated after she really experienced marriage, not the paranoid idea of Le Jia.
However, after working on the stage of "If You Are the One" for 6 years, Huang Han disappeared without a trace, Where did she go?
01, "alternative girls" born in the north
In the impression of many people, most girls born in the north are more forthright. However, Huang Han is an exception. She was born in Xinjiang in 1966, but her character has the grace of a girl in a water town.
Huang Han lived in Xinjiang when he was a child, but his parents moved to Jiangsu because of work. The first time she came to the water town, Huang Han remembered very clearly that all the red spots on her body, she was allergic to the weather.
Later, she has been living in the water town, and gradually forgot Xinjiang. She knew that she had lost her hometown and would never return to her hometown.
Huang Han's grades are very good, she is the top three in the class. When the state was at its worst, it never fell out of the top three. At the age of 18, Huang Han entered Nankai University to take classes, her major is the extremely rare sociology department.
At that time, there were only four schools in the country doing research in the Department of Sociology. Huang Han, who didn't like the social department at first, became interested in the social department after knowing the truth.
Compared with other girls, Huang Han's emotions sprouted green shoots earlier. When she was in college, all she thought about was love, not study and career.
She has a plan for love. She has already listed what the person she likes looks like and how tall she is. In the words of a best friend in the same room: "Are you looking for a boyfriend or a husband"?
For Huang Han, when she was looking for a boyfriend, she was rushing to get married. Many college students only fall in love and never think about marriage.
Huang Han is different, she first considers to be together for a lifetime, and then goes into this relationship. On the contrary, her love is extremely difficult.
02, married first love classmate, no scandal for 31 years of love
Huang Han once said in the show that he had failed to chase twice. When was in college, Huang Han once met a boy who was very similar to the one on the list. She took the initiative to confess that she hoped that the two would date, but the other party felt that she was not gentle enough.
Huang Han felt incredible after hearing it. She is a well-known good girl in the class, how could she be called not gentle? Later, under the analysis of the female classmates, she concluded her own initiative, which made the other party afraid.
Huang Han did not force it, nor did she blame the other party for not agreeing to love. At the same time, Huang Han also began to reflect on himself, whether a direct confession would make people feel disgusted.
So, when she met the second boy who felt good, she didn't confess immediately, but did things she liked with him. However, this time Huang Han was rejected.
The other party thinks that she is not too beautiful and does not meet his standard of mate selection. Huang Han is not angry, she feels that since she is not worthy of the other party, she should not force it.
took the initiative to confess and always took the risk of being rejected. Huang Han did not give up on this, but was more and more eager to find a true love that belonged to him.
Until, on her way to the library, she met Yuan Jian who was playing the guitar and When the other party smiled gently, she felt her heart pounding like a deer.
However, in the communication with the other party, Huang HanStill can't help but take out my own list and want to compare one and two. But she found that the other party was not from the north, and his personality was not too cheerful.
is giving up? Or continue? In Huang Han's mind, there are always two little people walking in different directions. Fortunately, the love this time was not unrequited love, Yuan Jian also had a good impression of her, and never resented her violent pursuit.
may feel the other party's good intentions, Huang Han chooses to compromise, she wants to fall in love with Yuan Jian and get married. Huang Han's first confession was on Yuan Jian's journey.
The two were in a beautiful place, Huang Han asked what kind of girl the other party liked? Before waiting for the other party to answer, Huang Han said directly: "I want to fall in love with you and get married after graduation, can you consider it"?
Facing the sudden confession, Yuan Jian was a little surprised. When he looked down and saw the shyness on Huang Han's face, he couldn't open his mouth to refute, he nodded dumbly.
Huang Han smiled slightly, like a beautiful poppy , blooming with her own beauty. Yuan Jian's heart was filled with indescribable joy, just like eating honey. The love in
's student days is very pure, there is no benefit, and there is no cunning comparison. After the two came together smoothly, they planned the future.
Her love is just like what she explained in "If You Are the One": "Sometimes love is impossible to find, the list is perfect, but you can't find the same, often people will encounter unexpected surprises" .
Huang Han's surprise was Yuan Jian who was not on the list.
In 1991, Huang Han and Yuan Jian got married and gave birth to their daughter Yuan Shimeng six years later. Her life is very simple. Every day is to teach at school, and then go home to take care of her daughter and read her favorite books.
It was not until she met Meng Fei that she completely changed her life and welcomed the first "storm" in her life.
03, from a teacher to an emotional mentor, her daughter is prettier than her
In 2008, Huang Han and Meng Fei met, and through the exchange of Meng Fei, they found that Huang Han had his own unique view on love. Two years later, "If You Are the One" will start broadcasting. As an important host, Meng Fei has the right to choose a partner.
So, he said to the producer: "I know a teacher is very good, she has her own ideas emotionally, it is better to invite her to the show."
That's it, in just a few words, Huang Han went from the school podium to the variety show stage. After Huang Han received a call from the producer, he hesitated. The other party said that Mr. Meng Fei said you were very good, so why don't you try it.
At that moment, Huang Han's heart seemed to have a desire, and he really wanted to jump out of the circle of two points and one line. When she told the people around her that she was going to be an emotional mentor, her colleagues said that her decision was very ideological.
In their opinion, a teacher is a very glamorous profession, but as a mentor in a show, it is full of criticism. Perhaps because a sentence is wrong, it may cause public opinion from the audience. A high-risk job like
is really not suitable for Huang Han who has been staying in school all the time.
But no matter how incomprehensible family and friends are, Huang Han finally went to "If You Are the One". Indeed, compared to Meng Fei and Le Jia's sharp words and straightforward opinions, Huang Han's words were too euphemistic.
Her views on love are very honest, but they are too derailed from society. At that time, some people in the program group had done a survey on how much the audience liked the three teachers.
And in that survey , 76% of the people think that Huang Han is not suitable for the stage . Fortunately, Huang Han was not defeated by these difficulties. She still insisted on her own ideas as always, and proposed the most correct concept of love for everyone.
"To know a man is good or bad, you have to see what kind of friends he has around him". "Men are not as good as imagined. They can love but cannot love deeply. They should leave a little way for themselves."
"A story between a woman and a man, not justSex, as well as understanding and support.” Mr. Huang Han’s words, like the spring breeze blowing through everyone’s heart, are so gentle and comfortable.
It is undeniable that the existence of Mr. Huang Han makes a blind date The show has risen to another level.
It turns out that love and marriage are not only vulgar and beautiful, but also need to consider more people's life levels. In Huang Han's view, no love is perfect, and getting along in There must be frictions and twists and turns together. How
solves difficulties is the key, rather than questioning why the other party doesn't understand him? When
was an emotional tutor, her daughter was already in junior high school. Because of her busy work, she had no time to accompany her daughter. Because of this relationship, my daughter has had many conflicts with her.
Once, Huang Han was busy recording videos in the program group, but his daughter asked her to go shopping with her. Huang Han told her daughter that she had grown up Now, it's not the little girl I used to be. She wants her parents to accompany her all the time. When
finished saying this, Huang Han was very painful and tangled. She knew that her words hurt her daughter. is like what she said, on stage Wisdom, when it comes to life, it will become a different scene.
Later, she did not go shopping with her daughter, and her daughter did not make trouble for her to accompany her.
In 2014, Huang Han received a special gift on the show It is a song recorded by her daughter and dedicated to Huang Han.
When Huang Han saw the video recorded by her daughter, she cried and laughed, she was really moved. It turned out that a powerful emotional mentor, She also has her own vulnerable side.
In order to keep her daughter and husband from being troubled by the outside world, Huang Han has never disclosed information about her family, but from her words, it can be found that she really loves her husband and daughter.
It is reported that occasionally The husband would bring his daughter to the show group to visit the class, but he seldom let Huang Han know about it. He took his daughter to see him in a hurry and left.
They didn't want to cause trouble to each other, and used their own methods To guard this home. Huang Han left the most gentle side to everyone, but she left her bad temper and guilt to her husband and daughter.
Perhaps, this is why she chose to leave "If You Are the One" in 2016. She wanted to take good care of her daughter and accompany her husband more.
When Huang Han left, Meng Fei was very reluctant. For him, Huang Han was not just a friend, but more like a confidante .
She understands his thoughts and can cooperate with his thoughts. Unlike Le Jia, who fights against him every time, which makes the show more popular, it also smells like gunpowder.
When Huang Han left, he said that he still had a lot of things to do. In fact, after she left the stage, she silently returned to the former podium. Every day, I live a life of two points and one line again, either at home or at school.
In the blink of an eye, four years later, "If You Are the One" ushered in a revision, and Huang Han received an invitation from the program team again. When she and Meng Fei reunited on the stage, nothing seemed to change, but the audience burst into tears.
The former "Mama Huang" and "Grandma Huang" are back, this time no one dislikes her nagging, and her views are too old.
In 2022, Huang Han's identity has changed again. She is the mentor in " Let's Fall in Love " and a guest of "Variety Show Big Bang".
It is undeniable that Huang Han has achieved self-breakthrough in life with repeated transformations, and she has taken care of both career and love very well.
Conclusion:
56-year-old Huang Han has become an excellent emotional mentor and an admirable people's teacher.
And her love is also very sweet. During the 31 years of love with her husband, they have learned to understand each other, support each other, and give each other for their families.
is like what Huang Han once said: "My husband and I live a very ordinary life, just like ordinary people."
maybe between themThere have been quarrels and complaints, but these twists and turns have not made them give up on each other. , on the contrary, in these pains, let love thrive and become a towering tree.
