is called by the majority of netizens as the mainland small Zhao Yazhi .
and Yang Zi , Liu Yan , Dilireba , Zheng Zhongji and other first-line big names have cooperated a lot.
has filmed more than 50 dramas for more than 50 years and has always been tepid, but it reached the top of the hot search on the day of his death.
is known as for helping his younger brother to pay tuition fees, rent, and even buy a house.
had a protruding lumbar disc during filming, often staying up late and soaking in ice water in winter.
has not saved a single point of savings after five years of filming.
worked desperately to repay the debt for his father.
dare not spend a penny on himself.
and then the third she became the pillar of the family.
's parents use her as an ATM.
festered and died, and his life stopped at the age of 26. Why did
feel relieved on his deathbed?
Let's take a look at the story behind this actor!
Xu Ting, a beautiful woman from Wuhu, Anhui Province, was born on October 3, 1990.
is the third eldest in the family, the most profitable but the least favored existence in the family.
In such a poor family, there is a serious patriarchal ideology, and parents have a feeling that they will never give up until they have a son.
's parents continued to have children in the 2nd year after giving birth to Xu Ting, and did not stop giving birth until they gave birth to a younger brother.
At this time, Xu Ting had two older sisters above, three younger sisters and one younger brother below. Facing such huge expenses for a family of nine, her parents had to give away her two younger sisters.
Some people say that it is not necessarily a bad thing for my sister to leave this family. If she is sent to a good family, everyone will be happy, but if it is not as good as this family, so what?
At least in the eyes of children of that age, no matter how bad their biological parents are, they are better than outsiders.
At that time, Xu Ting was still worried about where her biological sisters would go in the future. When she grew up, she must have hoped that she would be the one who was sent away! The daughter of
who is left behind in such a family is the most painful, and her suffering is gradually beginning from now on.
And Xu Ting knew how to watch words and expressions since she was a child. In order not to be sent away by her parents, she knew how to share with her family when she was sensible. Everyone in the
family revolves around the younger brother. Everyone knows that the younger brother is the core of the family and the treasure of the parents. The
sisters naturally took on the burden of the family.
In addition to taking into account his studies, whenever he has spare time, he has to work part-time during winter and summer vacations to subsidize his family.
's father has been a tea merchant for generations and has branches all over the country.
unfortunately fell into the middle of the family, and her father was in huge debt. In order to make life easier for the family, Xu Ting went straight to Beijing in 2009 with 300 yuan to make a living.
often eats the last meal but not the next, and is often hungry.
Xu Ting and her second sister were in Beijing, a city they didn't know well, and without anyone's help, they were completely relying on their own efforts and exploration. The only good thing that
's parents gave Xu Ting was her appearance.
But she still chooses to work steadily and earn every hard-earned money, instead of selling herself to make quick money.
Fortunately, Xu Ting has studied acting for a period of time, and was successfully admitted to Sichuan Media College with the first performance in Anhui Province.
's good looks, a little acting experience, and a little luck allowed Xu Ting to successfully open the door to the entertainment industry. In 2010,
Xu Ting accidentally heard that the daughter of Hongqiao Town of China was going to select a model. With the mentality of giving it a try, she broke into the top 50 in the Chengdu competition area.
was discovered by director Lu Chuan , and participated in the national casting of Yu Ji in " King's Feast ". This time, it was a little better than the last time and won the top 20 in the Chengdu competition area.
later participated in the Tianrun City Broadcasting and Hosting Competition in August, and won the first place. In December of the same year,
was caught by You Xiaogang found that he participated in " The Secret History of Xi Shi ". Although
is still a breath away from being first-tier and top-notch, Xu Ting also has some high-gloss works of her own. For example,
partnered with Zhang Yishan and Yang Zi in 2012 in " Dad Comes Home ", playing the heroine's best friend. In 2013,
participated in "The Little God is Coming", and cooperated with Qian Feng , Qiu Qiming , Liu Yan, Zhang Yishan and other big-name actors.
plays a pure wheelchair girl here, and she acts vividly.
and Yu Xiaoguang starred in "Second Uncle".
can also see Xu Ting in " brings love home " starring Shen Mengchen and Yu Haoming . In 14 years,
played the heroine Tian Duoduo in "The Fairy Tale of the North Drift" starring Li Zhinan .
In 15 years, Xu Ting, Dilireba, Mire co-starred in " Backlight Love ".
and Chai Biyun , performed " Hou Tianming's Dream ". In
and even Rao Xueman 's adaptation of " Painful 17-year-old ", the eldest sister in juvenile management institute made Xu Ting act arrogant and domineering, but it didn't make people feel very contrived, and her acting skills were fine appropriate. In 2016,
co-produced the movie " Funny and Wonderful Night " with Zheng Zhongji.
has filmed nearly 50 movies in 5 years. Although he is not a big player, he is constantly moving towards the direction of a big player.
thought that everything would get better, but the disease focused on Xu Ting. When
died, his whole body was so rotten that he couldn't bear to look directly at him because of cancer.
The whole family is like a blood-sucking worm, lying on Xu Ting to suck blood. What makes
even more chilling is that on the day of Xu Ting's death this year, the sisters did not miss her at all. Instead, they all enjoyed life on the basis of the material provided by him and shared a good life.
On the contrary, those netizens who are not blood relatives with Xu Ting came out to fight for her. What a sadness, relatives are not like relatives, but strangers are more kissable than relatives.
Xu Ting also knew that she had a terminal illness, and told her family that she didn't need to waste extra money on her. All the money she finally earned was given to the hospital, and her illness was not cured.
Don't let a family that has finally lived a better life get a debt, Xu Ting thinks this is a kind of filial piety. How could
know that her parents really didn't plan to give Xu Ting any further treatment, and she was always in a state of passive treatment. Even if her parents really did what she wanted, Xu Ting still felt a little chilly.
But this is her family, her relatives, and her birth. No matter how cold-blooded she is, it is her only support in this world.
Fortunately, Xu Ting has always been a cheerful person. When the patients who live in the same ward as Xu Ting feel sad and hopeless because of this disease.
Xu Ting will enlighten them with her optimistic, cheerful and positive attitude.
Many patients were greatly encouraged, at least during the period of time when they were patients with Xu Ting, they were so happy.
Xu Ting has always used the power of her Weibo to shine and warm the people around her. If not, she must have suffered from depression long ago!
Xu Ting suffered from acute lymphoma, coupled with a severe lung infection.
finally passed away on the afternoon of September 7, 2016 at the 304 Hospital.
In front of Xu Ting's spiritual position, on the condolences, the mother cried heart-breakingly and burst into tears, but everyone could not feel the pain of a mother losing her child, but it was like losing a money tree that could grow bigger and bigger. Feel.
Because after Xu Ting's death, the parents' first reaction was not to be immersed in the sorrow of losing their biological daughter and unable to extricate themselves. Instead,
first went to check all the bank accounts under Xu Ting's name to see if there was anything they had missed, worrying about the loss of a penny. In such a situation,
first cares about property issues.
Xu Ting's pain in the past few years can be traced on the social platform account she created herself.
Among all the children in the family, Xu Ting is considered to be outstanding in appearance.
's beautiful facial features and cheerful personality are all just appearances. Whenever it is quiet at night, Xu Ting will think of those unloved bits and pieces.
It was only because Xu Ting later found out that she had cancer, not only did she not have the fear, pain, and reluctance of ordinary people, but she had a state of detachment and relief. Faced with such a family,
has no choice, and it seems that this is the only way out.
only hopes that Xu Ting can have a loving parent and a warm haven in the next life.
People like Xu Ting, who grab a lot in real life, these people are invisible and will not be easily detected by outsiders. People like
can only see their original appearance when they walk into their homes.
And there are a lot of people like Xu Ting in the entertainment industry.
For example, Cai Shaofen 's mother, addicted to gambling, owed huge loans many times, so Cai Shaofen had to be Liu Luanxiong 's mistress.
even cut off relations with her mother for a time. It is said that her mother quit gambling addiction later, but the country is easy to change, and her nature is hard to change.
Cai Shaofen's ending is good, there is a Zhang Jin who understands her.
The same is true for Anita Mui 's mother. After her death, she has been litigating for years in order to compete for her daughter's inheritance of nearly 100 million Hong Kong dollars.
Anita Mui did not leave it to her mother during her lifetime, presumably because her heart was cold!
People like , Fan Shengmei and still have a little sense of resistance at the end, but Xu Ting is almost willing to give it.
It is also possible that she feels that she has a long future in Japan and has a lot of time to live for herself, but who knows that God did not give her this opportunity, and at the age of 26, he drew a terminator for his life. Therefore,
also left regrets for her own life. This is the regret she said, and she did not live for herself!
If her parents could be considerate of her, even if they gave her a little warmth and let her take a breath from time to time, she would not be so tired.
Looking at Xu Ting's life, it seems to be all dedication.
's parents love his younger brother so much that they can let him buy a house by himself. Xu Tian's younger brother is only 4 years younger than Xu Ting.
A little man should take up the burden of the family and let sisters have more warmth.
led to this cold and thin family state, or because of the parents' serious preference for sons and daughters .
has heard the most since ancient times about unfilial sons, which hurt the hearts of parents, but there are also many who have hurt the hearts of children, right?
