When my son started chasing this drama, I didn't care, I thought it was just a youth idol drama, and I couldn't escape the plots of rebellion, boredom, love, and family parent-child relationship. The reason why I watched it with my son, It is entirely out of a mentality not to be left too far by the son, and to try to be in sync with him.
In the end, after looking at it, I realized that I was wrong. This is indeed a youth campus idol drama, but it is not a pure idol drama. It still has campus love, friendship, learning, etc., but I found that It solves almost all the confusion problems of adolescence from teenage to youth.
Among them, there is my son's confusion now, and I am in search of answers, confused and helpless.
The question of choice
Life is the result of choices, and every choice you make may create a different world. When we look back, do we regret the choices we made? If you could do it all over again, would you make the same choice?
Lin Chaoxi, who just graduated from a prestigious university, worked as a teacher at school, learned to drive, learn to cook, and blind date. She seemed to follow the steps step by step, but it was not her ideal. Lin Chaoxi, who studies philosophy, actually hides a seed of mathematics in her heart, but in the comparison between the math genius father and Pei Zhi, she feels that she is the one who has no talent.
just, are some things really only geniuses can do? Lin Chaoxi seems to have compromised her life, giving up mathematics and studying philosophy, but the love for mathematics hidden in her DAN is always on the move.
She bought the book for the postgraduate entrance examination in mathematics, but she was worried that after four years, she would be hesitant and slow.
In fact, Lin Chaoxi's journey to the "cheese world" was not so much an accident as it was her subconscious choice, because she wanted to start her life again and make a new choice. Therefore, her only purpose in coming to the "Cheese World" was to participate in the Math Olympiad training camp and win the gold medal in the Math Olympiad - this was the root problem that she did not do in the "Strawberry World", thus giving up mathematics.
Mathematical Olympiad competition is not an ordinary mathematics study. It not only requires multiple efforts, but also talent. "You have to admit that some things require talent, and some people are God's reward." Teacher of the Olympiad training camp Zhang Shuping said so.
However, this time, Lin Chaoxi used an adult's vision to look back and forth at her past life. She knew how to choose and would not regret it.
01 When we encounter difficulties in learning and ability, do we still insist?
Lin Chaoxi in the real world has not participated in the Olympiad training camp because she did not pass the exam. This time, when she traveled to a parallel world, Lin Chaoxi was confronted with Difficulty in elimination.
Do you try to persevere, or do you admit that you can't do it and give up? Of course Lin Chaoxi knew what to choose. However, she is not very talented. She not only has to pass the level by herself, but also helps her teammates. Because the Olympiad training camp implements a "group elimination system", if she doesn't want to be held back by her teammates, she has to work hard to drag them forward together.
When some teammates wanted to give up, Lin Chaoxi said to them: "If you always feel that it doesn't matter if you miss it at this time, it doesn't matter if you can't do it or not, then maybe we will regret it one day when we grow up.
Even if you don't understand why you should do it, or if you are destined to fail, don't give up, because if people always live with the mentality that I have another way, then one day they will regret it."
This is the meaning of effort.
02 When dreams and reality conflict, what should we doWhen Xi went on a blind date, he thought that Lin Chaoxi should not give up Pei Zhi, whom he had always liked, nor should he give up mathematics, which he had always loved.
However, Lin Zhaoxi told him that she has no talent for mathematics, and it has been four years since Pei Zhi left without telling him. She has given up because she has grown up and learned to compromise.
Lin Zhaosheng said: "'There is nothing difficult in the world, as long as you are willing to give up!' Is this growth?"
Lin Zhaoxi went back and said, "You didn't give up the opportunity to study abroad and better research to support me. Opportunities in mathematics? Do you choose to be a humble accountant in a school?"
However, Lin Zhaosheng did not give up mathematics, even if life was bleak, he still insisted on his dream, in the real world, and also in the parallel world.
It doesn't matter whether the dream can be realized or not, because the process of exploring the unknown is happiness in itself, and it is the luckiest thing to have enthusiasm.
is just like myself. Writing articles and submitting articles is profitable, and doing public accounts is not profitable. However, this is what I love. If I give up my own account and make money by submitting articles, that is something I don't like to do at the moment.
And my son is like Lin Chaoxi of "Cheese World". Lin Zhaoxi supported his father, Lin Zhaosheng, to give up the tutoring class and prefer to work in the reception room and have more energy to study mathematics. The son also supports me.
Reality and dream, one has to compromise with the other, it depends on how you choose to be happier.
"As long as I am willing, I can live as I wish!" This is the answer given to us by the Basic Law of Genius, and it is also what I often say to my son.
However, the "Basic Law of Genius" also tells us: studying hard will give you the ability and courage to choose more, which is the only requirement I have for my son.
03 When love and family are irreconcilable, how do we choose
Pei Zhi took the initiative to travel to the "cheese world" in order to meet his deceased father again, and brought Lin Zhaoxi over by accident.
came to the "Cheese World", and a couple who fell in love with each other in the "Strawberry World" had differences. Pei Zhi regained the warmth of family reunion. "Strawberry World".
Lin Chaoxi is worried about his father, Lao Lin, who is sick in the real world, and is eager to go back to take care of him.
There is an irreconcilable contradiction between love and family, but the two boys and girls in love choose family without hesitation.
This does not seem to conform to the "three views" of the 21st century. I also read an article today saying that the order of family should be husband and wife, children, parents, brothers and sisters, but since ancient times, two people's marriage is not a matter of two people. It's a matter of two families. Mr. Yang Jiang wrote in his letter to Mr. Qian Zhongshu : "It is useless for both of us to be happy now, as long as both parents and brothers are happy, the happiness of both of us will never be hindered."
, The problem between Pei Zhi and Lin Zhaoxi is not whether their parents agree with them to be together, but the problem that someone must abandon their parents.
In pursuit of free love, today's young people fall out with their families and parents everywhere. Whether the parents are too conservative or the children are ignorant, it is really impossible to generalize if we need to analyze specific things objectively.
Future and Destiny
TV series finally expounds the question of future and destiny.
A few days ago, I chatted with my son about studying and also talked about this issue.
He said: "I feel bored in studying now because I can't find the will to work hard.righteous. "
I said: "Only if you work hard, can you have a better chance of being admitted to the ideal university!"
He said, "What about after you get admitted?" What to study? What will I do after graduation? "
I don't know how to answer for a while, yes, now everyone is confused and anxious, and they seem to be working hard, trying to earn money to support their family and children, buy a car and buy a house, but what about life? Is life the same as making money?
adults are confused It's because I can't find the meaning of life and my child is confused. I think it's because I no longer have the word "ideal" in my heart.
I remember when we were in school, we talked about "ideal" every day, and wrote it in our diaries and essays. Some want to be scientists, some want to be doctors, some want to be teachers, some want to be writers...
Of course, ideals are just "fantasy" to us ordinary people, but today's children are not even "fantasy" No, or many children have long determined that they are "earth talents" and will never become geniuses. Just like Lin Chaoxi in "Strawberry World", they have determined their own life trajectory early on - giving up what they love and willing to be plain , vulgar life.
However, Lin Zhaoxi regretted it, so she said in "Cheese World": "Anyway, opportunity is opportunity, it sometimes behaves very hard, sometimes it looks ugly and difficult, and sometimes it results. It is bound to make you feel sad, but in short, try to seize every opportunity! After all, many things, often when we do them seriously, can we find the real meaning.
In fact, life is really full of infinite possibilities, and you are moving forward, because you can't see the future, so you often think that those possibilities will never come to you. But the possibility has always existed.
I used to be afraid of the future, of fate, of unsuccessful efforts, but I am not afraid anymore. "
I can't answer the question of my son, "The Basic Law of Genius" gives the answer - don't be afraid of the future, don't be afraid of fate, and don't be afraid of working hard but no results, because the possibility, in fact, always exists.
What is a genius ? In fact, genius has no "rules", but "consistent efforts, life without slack." Small accumulations every day determine the end result, and this is the answer. "
