's " Dear Life ", two pairs of CPs are paired together, and there is a tragic character who may be doomed to die alone.
He is Wu Congrui's ex-husband - Feng Yuanhang.
Feng Yuanhang gave me the feeling that he was very calm in everything, typical rational thinking, while Wu Congrui was perceptual thinking.
Especially after Wu Congrui was married for many years, he finally had a child, and he accidentally shed it. As a husband, Feng Yuanhang didn't even have a word of comfort, which made people wonder if he loves Wu Congrui or not?
However, after watching 36 episodes, I found out that Feng Yuanhang loves Wu Congrui, but in the wrong way. He used a "concealing" way to love Wu Congrui, but finally pushed the person he loved into the arms of others.
's love for children
Wu Congrui is Bai Fumei who has never suffered much since he was a child. He has a wealthy family and a doctor of medicine. Because of her strong empathy ability and high emotional intelligence, colleagues in the hospital and the family members of patients like to deal with her.
She seems to be happy all day, but she also has her own troubles - she has been married for many years and has no children. Although
competes with his friend Du Di for the general position in the hospital, in Wu Congrui's heart, work is far less important than children.
So when he learned that he was pregnant, Wu Congrui was so excited that he almost poked the pregnancy test stick into Feng Yuanhang's face.
Feng Yuanhang didn't have the joy of being a new father at all on his face. While he was talking about "Shouldn't--", he analyzed Wu Congrui's career promotion plan.
The excited Wu Congrui and the expressionless Feng Yuanhang formed a stark contrast.
It seems that Feng Yuanhang is not looking forward to the arrival of this child at all, and even makes people feel that the unexpected arrival of the child completely broke the original plan of this small family .
Wu Congrui secretly shared his good news with his best friend Du Di before he was three months pregnant with the child.
Du Dimian is cold-hearted and warm-hearted, but he does bad things with good intentions. For fear that Wu Congrui contracted the virus in the operating room, but accidentally caused Wu Congrui to miscarry.
Feng Yuanhang advised Wu Congrui not to blame everything on Du Di from an objective point of view, and comforted her that "abortion is a natural selection". But in Wu Congrui's view, Feng Yuanhang is ruthless, and he doesn't expect anything from children.
But doesn't Feng Yuanhang love children?
is not.
He stood outside the ward, listening to Wu Congrui crying in the ward after losing his child, Feng Yuanhang was not feeling well himself.
He typed "Little Gourd, Dad loves you" stroke by stroke on his phone, with tears in his eyes and a solemn expression.
In fact, Feng Yuanhang is also full of love for this child, but he is used to hiding and did not show the sorrow of losing the child in front of Wu Congrui.
He thought this was a way to comfort Wu Congrui, but Wu Congrui never wanted calm company.
What she wants is a child's father who can empathize with her , maybe a hug, a comfort, far more comfort than his calm and objective analysis can comfort the bereaved Wu Congrui .
's love for his wife
Wu Congrui has no children, and his whole person has become a little extreme. She wanted to conceive another child, but Feng Yuanhang's attitude towards her was always in a state of escape.
He didn't know how to comfort Wu Congrui, so he wanted to ask Du Di to help him persuade him.
But Du Di was also hated by Wu Congrui. The two broke up for a while, and Wu Congrui didn't even want to look at Du Di.
Feng Yuanhang at this time was actually very helpless. For him, this was not only the first time Wu Congrui had lost his own child, but also that he had lost his own child.
However, he still chose to avoid talking about it, and even hoped that Wu Congrui could forget about the child as soon as possible.
Wu Congrui wanted to be a mother wholeheartedly, even to the children of other mothers. in order to regainFor her own child, she directly bought silk pajamas at a high price of 2,600 yuan, just to create a romantic night to welcome the arrival of the next little life.
Compared with Wu Congrui's excitement, Feng Yuanhang's eyes dodged, and his face was full of resistance.
What Wu Congrui was thinking, Feng Yuanhang knew very well, but what Feng Yuanhang was thinking, Wu Congrui was not clear.
Facing his wife's enthusiasm, Feng Yuanhang was unavoidable, and Wu Congrui blocked all his excuses. At the end of
, Feng Yuanhang had to confess: he ligated .
Wu Congrui was dumbfounded. When she was thinking of a harmonious family of three in the future, her husband told her that she was ligated.
's dream is broken, but so is . Many people can guess what happened after
. Wu Congrui couldn't stand Feng Yuanhang's important thing and didn't even say hello to him. The two soon became strangers and chose to divorce.
However, what people never expected was that Feng Yuanhang sterilized himself because he knew that Wu Congrui had congenital cervical insufficiency. Once pregnant, there will be miscarriage. If you are forced to protect the child, it will be very hard to be a mother. It may be necessary to do cervical cerclage from the day of pregnancy, and stay in bed all the time to protect the fetus.
Feng Yuanhang's original intention of concealing this matter was that he did not want to burden Wu Congrui. But it was precisely because of his concealment that his beloved wife became someone else's woman.
In marriage, he refused to be a "mouthless gourd"
Feng Yuanhang thought that by concealing Wu Congrui's illness, it was for her good, and he even let himself be blamed.
If this is a novel, maybe someone will praise the greatness of love. Is
realistic?
managing a relationship, a marriage, is never a matter of one person. This small home requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife.
's blind silence and concealment seem to be from the perspective of "being good for TA", but whether the other party appreciates it is one thing, and whether it will outweigh the loss is another.
If Feng Yuanhang and Wu Congrui made it clear at that time, and then continued to take care of Wu Congrui considerately and tenderly, maybe their marriage would be very happy.
I wonder if you have any different views on Feng Yuanhang's "silent giving"? You are also welcome to leave a message in the comment area.
