In the hit drama " Dear Life ", Huang Yunling is a winner in life no matter how she sees it in the eyes of outsiders. She is already the director of the Obstetrics and Gynecology Department of Shengji Hospital at the age of 40. She is pregnant with a second child and has a happy family. , The couple is a model couple in the eyes of the outside world.
However, it is also Director Huang who is very powerful in the hospital. Even though she is pregnant, she is still subjected to domestic violence by her husband countless times at home, and her husband even refuses to sign before giving birth!
Then some people are puzzled, why did Director Huang not choose a divorce in the face of her husband's domestic violence? Instead, she endured her husband's domestic violence again and again.
is actually quite simple, for two reasons.
First, Huang Yunling is a very strong person. She is resolute in the hospital and is envied by many people. In the eyes of outsiders, she is a winner in life and a model husband and wife. She does not want others to know that her life is so embarrassing, nor does she want Gossip by others.
Second, Huang Yunling still has expectations for her marriage. She expects her husband to improve. She said this.
On the one hand, I thought all this was temporary, as long as he figured it out and his career was good, he would change. On the other hand, I really want my kids to grow up in a healthy environment, so try to be patient.
From this, we can see Huang Yunling's residual love for her husband Lu Yu, and at the same time she wants to give her children a complete home. But if the child really grows up in such a family, will he really grow up as Huang Yunling imagined?
I think most of the results are not good. Children are sensitive. Does he really not know the relationship between parents is broken? In such an environment, can children grow up happily and healthily?
But fortunately, Huang Yunling came to her senses and realized that there was no solution to just forbearance, so she filed for divorce. However, 's husband, Lu Yu, not only did not reflect on his wrongful behavior of domestic violence, but instead kept her at home.
cut off Huang Yunling's contact with the outside world, saying that she suffers from depression , forcing Huang Yunling to take medicine. These actions leave us horrified, and without the help of her colleagues and son, Huang Yunling's consequences can be imagined.
It is these things that make Huang Yunling completely disappointed in this marriage, and also make Huang Yunling completely wake up.
must stop the loss in time. Once you find that this person is not suitable, you can't be soft-hearted, you can't bear it, and you can't pin your hopes on the other party's change. Huang Yunling in
"Dear Life" woke up, but many people in reality did not wake up. For them, home is no longer a warm harbor, but a source of nightmares.
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If We have encountered domestic violence , and we should take the following measures to protect our rights.
1, get out of danger and call the police quickly. 2. Report to relevant agencies. 3. Apply to the people's court for a personal safety protection order . 4. File for divorce and seek damages. 5. Seek judicial remedies and bring the perpetrators to justice.
At the same time, we also need to collect evidence to further protect our rights and interests.
1. Written materials produced by relevant units. 2. Legal documents of public security organs. 3. Witness testimony. 4. Audio-visual materials. 5. Documentary evidence.
