In the ward, the doctor rescued and the husband called. The whole process of
lasted less than three minutes, and Gao Ying, an internet celebrity lawyer who had just given birth, was gone.
There are still many unfulfilled wishes in this life, and the woman who only left a child for her husband as a souvenir will never come back.
Gao Ying's departure makes the doctor who is used to life and death feel distressed for her.
Because, if she is obedient, not only will she not have to die, but she will be able to accompany her husband and children to live a happy life for a few more years.
It's a pity that Gao Ying insisted on doing her own thing, and she was cruel to herself in order to have a child.
I remember a saying on the Internet: "Women are not ruthless, but their status is unstable."
However, after reading Gao Ying's experience, I realized that there is a kind of ruthlessness that is fatal to women.
The tougher the people, the worse the ending.
Gao Ying has been an academic bully since childhood, a proper child of someone else's family. After graduating from college, she wanted to become a lawyer.
However, fate played a big joke on her.
Gao Ying was diagnosed with congenital heart disease when she was 30 years old. The high-pressure profession of
lawyer is obviously no longer suitable for her, so Gao Ying can only resign and stay at home.
At this time, her husband thought that her body was not suitable for having children, and he resolutely divorced her.
Overnight, Gao Ying lost her job and her marriage. Her life was like a roller coaster, rushing from the highest point to the ground.
However, Gao Yingyue never gave up on herself.
Her persistence and self-confidence gave her a second spring.
's current husband treats Gao Ying very well. Seeing that she is so favored, Gao Ying feels that she has to repay her husband's love.
The best way to repay your partner is by giving him a baby.
However, Gao Ying's body is not suitable for pregnancy.
No matter how the doctor objects, Gao Ying wants to give birth.
She read a lot of information, combined with the same case abroad, and finally believed that she could have children just like everyone else.
However, she ignored that the situation abroad is completely different from that in China, and her body and other factors are also different from those of foreigners.
When Gao Ying was 25 weeks pregnant, her heart began to fail.
In this case, many doctors advised her to keep the big and abandon the small.
However, Gao Ying did not take the doctor's advice.
She thinks that the child is a gift from God. She wants to live and the child should be well.
Therefore, after being rejected by three hospitals in a row, Gao Ying was forcibly admitted to Shengji Hospital and published the diploma of Director Tian of Gynecology on the Internet.
Gao Ying does not give herself a way out, nor does she give Shengji Hospital a way out.
Shengji Hospital is a leader in the industry. If they do not accept Gao Ying at this time, it can only show that they are not capable.
For the sake of reputation and saving lives, Shengji Hospital accepted Gao Ying, and at the same time asked Director Tian as the attending doctor to deliver her birth.
Director Tian called everyone to discuss countermeasures. After some discussions, they finally confirmed the operation plan.
However, Gao Ying refused to cooperate.
Director Tian clearly told Gao Ying that due to her physical condition, she might not be able to wake up during the operation. In order to save her life,
will use general anesthesia for the surgery, so the chance of saving her life is as high as 90%.
However, Gao Ying asked for half anesthesia.
She is worried that if she really can't wake up after general anesthesia, she will not even see the first face of the child, and she will regret it.
Ban Ma, Director Tian refused because it would only increase Gao Ying's death rate.
At this time, Gao Ying began to refute Director Tian's suggestion with her own findings.
Director Tian managed to persuade her, and Gao Ying made a new request.
She can choose general anesthesia, but requires the doctor to change her heart and lungs immediately after the cesarean section.
Not to mention whether the hospital has a suitable source of heart and lungs at this time, even the body that has just given birth, can't survive such a toss.
So, Director Tian refused.
Before the operation, the doctor in charge of the bed had persuaded her many times to take a good rest after giving birth and not rush to do a heart transplant.
In the end, the doctor's kindness was regarded as a donkey's liver and lungs by Gao Ying. Not only did she not listen, she also drove the doctor out of the ward.
Later, Gao Ying gave birth to a child successfully through surgery.
Maybe God favored her. When her heart was about to fail, the hospital just had a heart source to donate to her.
Everything looks very good. As long as she takes a good rest, Gao Ying will have no problem spending a few years of happy time with her children.
However, Gao Ying acted as a demon again.
She disliked that the heart donated to her was not energetic enough, it was not as good as the one she had before.
Gao Ying was lying on the hospital bed, complaining to the doctor and her husband that she wanted to be replaced again. In order to force the doctor to accept her opinion,
quietly hid the anti-drainage medicine that the surgeon must take. Because of her stubbornness,
led to a rapid lung infection, and eventually died due to ineffective rescue.
Gao Ying is really too ruthless, if she hadn't made fun of her life time and time again, she wouldn't have died at such a young age.
She said that the child was a gift from God to her and her husband. Unfortunately, she left alone, which is cruel to her husband and child.
Coincidentally, before Gao Ying, there was a strong woman in her 40s who lost her uterus because she was too cruel.
When a strong woman was young, she did not dare to have children because of her career. Later, she became a vice president and her husband also opened a company. At this time, she put the issue of childbirth on the agenda.
When the due date was approaching, the strong female talent was hospitalized to give birth.
However, after staying in the hospital for a few days, there was no movement in his stomach. The strong woman
is in a hurry to have a baby, she even plans not to confinement, and will go back to work immediately after giving birth.
Originally, if she was in such a hurry, she could choose a caesarean section, but the strong woman insisted on giving birth , because she could be discharged from the hospital in only three days.
Therefore, when she sees no movement in her stomach, the strong woman keeps
urging the doctor to give her oxytocin. Doctor
refused, so she asked her subordinates to go to private hospital to buy herself an injection, and while the doctor was not paying attention, she gave herself oxytocin while lying on the hospital bed.
In the end, she lost her uterus after giving birth because her navel was too large.
We often hear people say: women have to be hard on themselves.
However, some ruthlessness can make women better protect themselves and make themselves rational to deal with the bad things in life.
However, when these ruthless deviates from the track, they become domineering and powerful.
is just like Gao Ying and strong women. He only has himself in his heart. He can't listen to other people's consolation. In the end, he can only pay for his own behavior.
's many life examples also show that, for domineering and powerful women, few people can live happily, and their endings are mostly tragic.
However, a woman's greatest wish in life is to pursue her own happy life.
Therefore, women who want to truly live a happy life need to be both ruthless and soft.
must remember:
is ruthless, it is not a process, it is a result, it is who chooses ;
is soft, it is a process, and a negotiable attitude.
[The pictures are all from the stills of "Dear Life", invaded and deleted. ]
