Have you watched this suspense drama?
"The Disappearing Child" focuses on the disappearance of Yang Yuan and Tao Fang's son Yang Mo. Because Yang Mo disappeared in the corridor, the secrets of several families were involved.
It seems to be a suspense drama, everyone is worried about Yang Mo's final ending, and the disappearing children I saw in this drama are not only Yang Mo, this drama is not just a suspense drama, it is Tell us the story of how to love.
In addition to Yang Mo, Xu Enhuai and Yuan Wu, who have grown up in the play, are not children who disappeared. They have a deformed family, Yuan Wu cannot survive independently due to the excessive doting of the original family, and the parents' indifference and indifference make Xu Enhuai unable to feel the warmth. And Xu Enhuai and Yuan Wu are other people's children in terms of learning...
Do you want such other people's children? In addition to disappearing
, there are also a lot of family education and self-growth that we need to think about in this drama:
1. Who doesn't want to have an outstanding child? The parents in the
play all want their children to succeed, but none of the three children in the play has anything to do with the word "happiness". On the contrary, they are all very tragic, which makes people feel helpless, makes people feel embarrassed, and makes people think about the reasons.
2. Blindly only "achievement theory", is it really for children? In
, Yang Mo has no choice but to study. Even a dog will delay his study. Tao Fang doesn't really understand Yang Mo. She treats Yang Mo well in her own way. She seems to have paid a lot, but the mental burden is placed on the child, and he is overwhelmed and burst out! In the
drama, Yuan Wu was overly spoiled by his mother, and his words and deeds were based on his mother's plan. After the death of his mother, he began his dark and helpless life, paralyzing his life with gambling!
3. How is Enhuai independent in the original work?
"When I was a kid, other kids had to wear diapers for naps in kindergarten, so I washed my clothes by myself. After elementary school, I woke up every day to make breakfast. My mother was worried that the gas leaked from the , so she hid under the quilt and looked at me. Once I had a fever, I went to the hospital for an IV, and then I walked back alone, and later found that my mother was far behind."
Mother deliberately trained Enhuai to be too precocious and did not make Enhuai feel loved, the reason why her mother put her To cultivate stoic independence is to hope that one day I can leave her as soon as possible. And the relationship between Enhuai and her father is not close, and her father does not love her that much.
Enhuai always thought that all parents were like that, until she met Yang Yuan's family, and her longing for love was completely pulled out and became even darker!
After watching this show, what should we think about?
What kind of love should we give our children? What kind of person do you want your child to be? Do you think your child is mentally healthy? Should you make a change next?
