poked the hearts of many women who were ignoring the safety of their lives in order to give birth to children. There is a question on Zhihu, which moment is the greatest woman?
's number one is that a woman is the greatest when it comes to childbearing. After watching "Dear Life",
deeply agreed.
Also as women, most of us have experienced the pain of having a baby. The pregnancy reaction and the pain of childbirth, many women have endured silently. After
watched "Dear Life", I realized that the reaction during pregnancy may only be a small problem faced by women.
For some women who risk their lives to have a baby, having a baby is really a game of life and death.
has two women's reproductive experiences in "Dear Life" that touched me. I have to sigh again, women are really great.
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The most touching scene in "Dear Life" is that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law gave birth to a child together. At the same time as the child was born, the husband and mother-in-law's son, the mainstay of their family, died of leukemia .
's mother-in-law is very old, but her physical condition is very good in all aspects. They have always wanted a second child.
's eldest son is in his 20s and has a family. After the eldest son found out that his father wanted a second child, he was very supportive.
At this time, the daughter-in-law also wanted a child. During the early examination, the daughter-in-law was estimated to have been found to be pregnant with a stump uterus.
In such a situation, the doctor would recommend aborting the child, because once the danger occurs, the pregnant woman will face the risk of heavy bleeding and even loss of life.
But this daughter-in-law risked her life, and with her own efforts, let the child persist until the moment of delivery.
Why do pregnant women desperately have to give birth to their own children? The main reason for
is that she wants to leave a child for herself and her husband, who is terminally ill. When she learned that her husband was leaving soon, she chose to give her all her life.
In order to keep the child belonging to her husband, the woman chose to continue the pregnancy regardless of her own safety.
However, just when she was about to give birth, her husband's strength finally ran out, and he didn't last until the child was born.
's mother-in-law fell asleep on the spot when she knew that her son had left during childbirth.
Two pregnant women, one old and one young, can only lie in the hospital, the most important person in their lives is gone.
watched her mother-in-law unable to eat before her daughter-in-law told the secret of her husband's death.
It turns out that his son has long known that his lifespan is not long, and he also knows that if he leaves, his mother may not be able to live.
So, the son was very supportive after knowing that his father wanted a second child.
However, the son still did not see his brother and child.
There are only two women left lying on the hospital bed, crying into tears. They have new lives, but they can't be happy.
I can't imagine that if a woman's life is in danger when she gives birth, and her daughter-in-law, son, and grandson are not at the same time, how will the mother-in-law survive? I also admire
, this daughter-in-law who gave birth to a child regardless of her own safety. For love and for her husband, she worked hard to win.
This scene hurts the hearts of many women. As women, they bear the responsibility of childbirth, and as wives, they bear the responsibility of love.
When fertility and love weigh on them at the same time, maybe they can't step back.
Even if he loses his life, he has to give it a try. This may be the greatness of a woman.
At that moment, we learned that women are not easy. They live for love and do their best for responsibility.
They also want to be healthy and happy, but in the face of life and death, they may not have a choice.
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In "Dear Life", a woman is pregnant four times, but the child does not survive.
But it was still pregnant with the fifth child, however, the child was also dead shortly after birth.
The relationship between the woman and the man is very good, and the two are in love with each other, but there is an ignorant in the familymother-in-law.
After the daughter-in-law and son got pregnant several times and the child did not survive, the mother-in-law always thought that the child was squeezed and left by .
What they don't know is that because they don't know medical knowledge, they made women suffer 5 crimes.
In the show, the woman faints when she hears the 5th child is lost again.
Fortunately, the man who is the husband finally chose to understand his wife and not let her have another life.
fell in love with each other and made them overcome the problem of not having children, but the five losses left a scar on the woman's heart.
We can't imagine how she'll bounce back after losing again and again. In addition to overcoming physical problems,
also has to overcome psychological problems.
But in order to be a mother, she still chose to get pregnant without knowing the problem.
Some people may say that she is ignorant, if she checked earlier, maybe she could avoid the problem.
That's right, the family is ignorant in a way.
is such an ignorant woman, but it still hurts the hearts of many women.
On her body, many women can see their shadow. A child is the crystallization of a period of love, and even after a few ravages, many women still want their own children.
It was a moment of pain and joy, so most women would rather suffer by themselves than have their own children.
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When postpartum depression, when various bodily reactions during pregnancy appear on women, women do not flinch, they still want their own children.
Having a baby is an ordinary thing, but it is also an extraordinary thing. Because women have to bear not only love and responsibility, but also psychological and physical pressure. Some cases in
's "Dear Life" are real. As a mother, I also know my worries and anxieties when various problems arise during pregnancy.
However, we still have to choose, have children, this is the path that most women will choose.
The director of the documentary " " once said:
"It is said that childbirth is a matter of two people, a matter of husband and wife, but it is not.
really faces everything, only women." , those who have not experienced it may not know. Maybe they say they understand, but in reality it is difficult to empathize with them. The greatness of
women lies in this, and they have become accustomed to them silently.
