In the early hours of March 26, 2017, the Star Ferry Terminal in Hong Kong.
An old man who is almost old, independent of the cold wind, after glancing in a certain direction, he jumped into the sea. When the fishermen near
saw this, they quickly called the police in Hong Kong: someone jumped into the sea to commit suicide!
The old man who committed suicide by jumping into the sea was named Yang Qinji, a retired senior teacher.
Before jumping into the sea, Yang Qinji even left a 4D suicide note, pointing directly to the superstar Andy Lau
In this 4D suicide note, every stroke is full of the old man's anger and resentment. One of the sentences: Liu Germany Hua, your heart is black.
even showed the old man's anger.
Why is an old man so sad and angry with the superstar Andy Lau?
All this starts with a dream of Yang Qinji's daughter Yang Lijuan ...
01
In 1994, 16-year-old Yang Lijuan had a dream:
dreamed of a mural of a handsome man. On the left and right sides of the painting by
are written: You approach me in particular, you and I meet with true love.
woke up from the dream, but Yang Lijuan wrote down this man. She felt that one day, this man would come into her life and appear in her life.
However, what Yang Lijuan didn't expect was that for a long time, this man would appear in her dreams every night, bringing her sweetness and peace of mind.
Sometimes, when she is playing in the sea of flowers, the man will look at her quietly.
Sometimes, the man took her hand and took her for a walk on the beach, feeling the temperature between his palms, which made her feel both sweet and warm.
More often, she was in a villa, and there was a photo of her and a man in it. On the back of the photo was written: You are my woman.
is 16 years old, which is the age when love first started.
And the man in the dream satisfied all Yang Lijuan's fantasies about love, making her unable to extricate herself.
She firmly believes that this man is her real son, and she must find him if she has a chance.
However, Yang Lijuan's personality is sensitive and introverted, and she doesn't like to interact with others at ordinary times. When she was 14 years old, she dropped out of school and stopped going out.
So, even if she wants to find the so-called real man, there is nothing she can do.
During that time, Yang Lijuan's only chance to know her "lover" was in her dreams, but every time she wanted to ask about her "lover", she woke up.
is the so-called never forget, there will be echoes.
Once, a classmate came to play at her house and showed her a poster.
Until then, she didn't know the identity of her "lover", the superstar Andy Lau.
Yang Lijuan was overjoyed when she learned the identity of her "lover", she felt that she had found her lifelong destination.
That night, when Yang Lijuan met her "lover" in her dream, she asked the other party, "Do you have it in your heart?"
But "Andy Lau" clenched her hand, looked into her eyes, and replied affectionately: "I have you in my heart."
At that moment, Yang Lijuan was wrapped in a huge sense of happiness.
- Yang Lijuan told her father Yang Qinji what happened in the dream.
Who knows, Yang Qinji also told Yang Lijuan that he had the same dream.
Actually, Yang Qinji didn't think too much about it at the time, he just wanted to make his daughter happy.
However, Yang Lijuan was affirmed by her father and secretly made a decision: she would never marry without seeing Andy Lau.
02
Many people are puzzled, why does Yang Qinji dote on Yang Lijuan so much?
The year Yang Lijuan was born, Yang Qinji was 40 years old.
Therefore, Yang Qinji loves his daughter in every possible way, even to the point of doting. At that time, Yang Qinji worked at in Agan Town, Lanzhou, while his wife and daughter lived in the urban area of Lanzhou.
In order to see her daughter, Yang Qinji would sit for two small seats every day after get off work.When the car returned to Lanzhou city.
As her daughter grew up, Yang Qinji's doting on her daughter became more and more serious, to the point where she could respond to her needs.
Once, Yang Lijuan wanted to drink Red Bull , but Yang Qinji agreed without thinking.
went to the convenience store, only to find that Yang Qinji didn't bring any money.
In order to allow Yang Lijuan to drink Red Bull, Yang Qinji took a can of Red Bull while no one was paying attention.
Yang Lijuan wanted to drop out of school, but Yang Qinji agreed immediately and went to her daughter's school to tell the teacher about dropping out.
When the teacher asked the reason for dropping out, Yang Qinji said directly: "The child doesn't want to study, what can I do." The teacher looked surprised.
In Yang Qinji's eyes, nothing is more important than her daughter's request, even if the sky falls, she must fulfill her daughter's request.
Therefore, when Yang Qinji said that his daughter was in love with Andy Lau, he would only agree with him.
Even if he knew that Andy Lau and they were not from the same world, he would do his best to help his daughter realize her dream.
However, what Yang Qinji didn't know at this time was that these words to make his daughter happy would kill him in the future.
03
As the days passed, Yang Lijuan became more and more obsessed with Andy Lau. As long as
is about Andy Lau's surroundings, Yang Lijuan does not hesitate to pay for it.
Gradually, Yang Lijuan became dissatisfied and saw Andy Lau on posters and TV.
Instead, she hopes to meet the real Andy Lau. She even believes that as long as she sees Andy Lau and tells him everything about her dream, he will think of me and fall in love with me.
What's even more terrifying is that as Yang Lijuan told her dreams over and over again, Yang Qinji and his wife also believed that Andy Lau was destined for her daughter.
let Yang Lijuan meet Andy Lau, which became the family's only goal.
In 1997, in order to support Yang Lijuan's pursuit of love, Yang Qinji took out all his savings, a total of 99,000 yuan, and asked Yang Lijuan to go to Hong Kong to find Andy Lau. After
came to Hong Kong, Yang Lijuan walked all over the streets, looking for Andy Lau.
However, Yang Lijuan did not see Andy Lau himself until all the money was spent.
However, Yang Lijuan's pursuit of love has never stopped, and her father Yang Qinji is still fully supported.
In 2004, Andy Lau came to Beijing for a concert.
In order to meet Andy Lau, Yang Lijuan once again emptied her family and came to Beijing.
However, for Andy Lau, who has tens of millions of fans, Yang Lijuan's existence is just a drop in the ocean, as small as gravel.
Therefore, even if Yang Lijuan spent a lot of money to buy the front seat of the concert, she would not be able to get the opportunity to meet Andy Lau alone.
However, Yang Lijuan has already gone crazy. In order to meet Andy Lau,
proposed to his family to go to Hong Kong to find Andy Lau.
At this time, it is already 2005, Yang Qinji's retirement salary has risen to more than 2,000, and he can already live a good life in a small city like Lanzhou.
However, over the years, in order to support his daughter, Yang Qinji's monthly salary has been spent with nothing left.
's family savings were also emptied.
So, this time, Yang Qinji was a little hesitant.
Yang Lijuan said angrily: "You don't support me looking for him. After that, I will marry him. If I have money, I will definitely not support you." Decision: Sell the house and support my daughter at all costs.
In October, the Yang family and their daughter came to Hong Kong.
This time, they found Andy Lau's villa and squatted at the door every day.
But until their money was spent, Andy Lau didn't show up.
Yang Lijuan had to entrust the letter to Andy Lau's neighbor and returned to Lanzhou.
and a family of three also moved into a rental house of 400 yuan.
Yang Lijuan, who came back from Hong Kong, lived a life waiting for Andy Lau to reply.
At this time, the matter of Yang's house selling and chasing stars also attracted media attention.
During the period of, the reporter almost stepped on the threshold of the Yang family and interviewed Yang Lijuan.
One of the reporters asked Yang Lijuan, "Who is more important than Andy Lau?"
Yang Lijuan said, "For me, Andy Lau is more important."
Such an answer shocked all the visitors and also caused public opinion There was an uproar.
Yang Lijuan didn't have time to care about public opinion. Seeing that Andy Lau had not responded to her letter, she was very anxious, so she was ready to pack her bags and go to Xingang again.
However, at this time, the Yang family has long been a scumbag and has a lot of debts, and they are unable to support Yang Lijuan's star pursuit.
Seeing his daughter so anxious, Yang Qinji made a decision that shocked the world : Sell her kidneys and support Yang Lijuan to continue chasing stars.
04
Yang Qinji sold her kidneys to support her daughter's star chasing. After the media continued to ferment, it completely detonated public opinion.
Many people in the community condemned Yang Lijuan's behavior of forcing her father to sell her kidney.
However, Yang Lijuan was unmoved and didn't care, she just said to her father indifferently:
"I think you'd better borrow it, it hurts your body."
Seeing Yang Lijuan's attitude, some reporters can't stand it anymore Then, he advised Yang Qinji to give up the idea of selling his kidneys.
However, Yang Qinji said publicly: "I am still alive without a kidney, but I can let my daughter see Andy Lau; only by seeing him, our family can live well! "
It can be seen that seeing Andy Lau, has become a The obsession of the Yang family.
At the same time, Yang Lijuan's deeds also spread to Andy Lau's ears.
However, unlike Yang Lijuan's fantasy that Andy Lau would be moved, Andy Lau said: is incorrect, abnormal, unhealthy, and unfilial.
However, Andy Lau's attitude not only did not extinguish the flames in Yang Lijuan's heart, but instead became more and more crazy.
Over the years, she has paid too much for Andy Lau. When
got such a response, she was unwilling and unwilling to believe it.
So Yang Lihua wrote to Hong Kong officials, hoping to help her meet Andy Lau.
Of course, this letter also fell into disrepair.
Later, the Andy Lau fan club learned about Yang Lijuan's situation, and out of empathy among fans, they arranged for Yang Lijuan to attend Andy Lau's fan meeting.
To this end, Yang Qinji and his daughter once again exhausted their savings and came to Hong Kong.
The two had no money and could only sleep in a 24-hour fast food restaurant.
Even so, in the face of her long-cherished wish to be fulfilled for many years, Yang Lijuan couldn't help but be overwhelmed. She imagined countless times in her heart that when Andy Lau saw her, she would hug her tightly and cry with joy.
However, the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment.
On March 25, 2007, Yang Lijuan finally got close to Andy Lau.
However, this was a streaming fan group photo session. Yang Lijuan didn't stay by Andy Lau's side for 10 seconds before being invited off the stage.
There is no fantasy hugging and weeping, and there is no love at first sight that has changed fate.
was just an ordinary meeting, and Andy Lau only regarded her as an ordinary fan.
After Yang Lijuan stepped down, she told her parents about it.
, a family of three, completely collapsed.
Over the years, the Yang family has sold houses, owed debts, and emptied their savings for this so-called marriage.
can be said to be, all of it.
didn't expect that, in the end, it just changed a photo?
Yang Qinji's heart was full of grief and anger, he decided to make the last bet for his daughter, and an even crazier move appeared.
05
On March 25, Yang Lijuan finished meeting Andy Lau that night.
Yang Qinji silently wrote a 4D suicide note, and finally came to Hong Kong's Star Ferry Terminal, jumped into the deep sea.
Yang Qinji's death completely pushed Yang Lijuan and Andy Lau to the forefront.
All the media are armed with long guns and short guns, and went to interview Yang LiJuan, I hope to be able to dig out some fierce materials.
In everyone's eyes, her father Yang Qinji died, and Yang Lijuan should let go of her obsessions and live a normal life.
However, Yang Lijuan is still obsessed, and also said: Andy Lau has a certain responsibility for his father's death, he should come to worship his father, and then fulfill his father's last wish. "
However, Andy Lau did not respond to such unreasonable accusations and questions.
Later, with the support of the airline, Yang Lijuan and her mother returned to Lanzhou.
and singer Yang Chengang after hearing about the matter, She also donated 20,000 yuan to deal with Yang Qinji's funeral.
Yang Lijuan still didn't give up. At the donation meeting, she called Andy Lau again, asking to meet again.
However, the propaganda went to nothing.
As time went on, the incident happened. The popularity gradually subsided, and the media did not report on Yang Lijuan anymore.
However, Yang Lijuan thought she was being used and brought a number of media to the court.
However, she eventually lost the case. After
walked out of the court, Yang Lijuan disappeared from the public eye.
Until In 2019, Yang Lijuan, who was over 40 years old, was interviewed by the famous host Luyu .
Yang Lijuan appeared in the public eye with a new face.
She returned to the life of ordinary people and rented with her mother in Lanzhou Low-rent housing.
and also found a job as a shopping guide in a supermarket, with a salary of 2,000 a month. She is warm to customers and gets along well with her colleagues.
She can no longer see the slightest paranoia on her face.
Although it looks on the surface Everything is harmonious, but her heart shields the outside world.
Over the years, she does not watch TV, surf the Internet, and accepts new information. Occasionally, she goes back to a choir to sing, and when she is free, she goes to worship her father.
Yang Lijuan also claimed that she had come out of the haze, but Andy Lau had become a taboo. In fact, Yang Lijuan may have known until now that Andy Lau helped them pay off their family's foreign loans anonymously.
The occurrence of the Yang Lijuan incident was caused by many factors, including Father's doting, the media amplifies and intensifies, and the public opinion fuels the flames.
But no matter what the reason, the root cause is Yang Lijuan's own desire.
If it wasn't for Yang Lijuan's desire, there would be no so-called love for life Dreams, there will be no so-called Hong Kong search, and father Yang Qinji will not jump into the sea for it.
It is normal for a person to have desires, the key is to distinguish them in time and treat them with a normal heart.
If you have desires, you keep betting on everything , will pay an extremely painful price.
So, don't let others pay for their own desires, in the end, it will become a flame that devours everything and devours your life.
Source:
"Yu Jian Later" No. Issue 3
Southern Weekend: "You Don't Understand My Sorrows"
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