35 years old seems to be a hurdle for women to have children.
Women who become pregnant after the age of 35 become advanced mothers, which is the reason why many women are frequently urged to marry by their family members not long after they get married.
But in " Dear Life ", there are two super-high-necked mothers who would rather risk their lives to have a child. The reason behind it is very sad.
The 48-year-old mother-in-law who lived with her daughter-in-law in the double delivery room
The 48-year-old Shang Guifen and her daughter-in-law Meng Shuang were admitted to the same maternity ward for labor, which became a spectacle in obstetrics and gynecology for a while.
The nurses whispered in secret, saying that the younger son and the eldest grandson were born at the same time, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had to confinement, so the family was busy.
After Shang Guifen and Meng Shuang were hospitalized, Shang Guifen's husband stayed in bed every day, but their eldest son, Meng Shuang's husband, was always invisible.
either didn't show up, or just stayed in the ward for a while and left immediately.
Father-in-law was a little disgusted. The new nurse guessed that the eldest son was not happy because his parents wanted a second child.
Shang Guifen shook his head and said that his son was very supportive of them wanting this second child.
Shang Guifen's husband always wanted to have a daughter. After his son learned that his father had this idea, he kept persuading his parents not to worry about himself and to have a child if he wanted to.
But the face of the daughter-in-law Meng Shuang has always been ugly, and the face of the hospitalized childbirth has not shown the joy of welcoming the little life at all.
The nurse guessed again if the daughter-in-law was unhappy because her mother-in-law gave birth to a second child, and in the future, one more person would compete with her husband for the family property.
Shang Guifen's husband immediately said that in order to appease his daughter-in-law, he could leave their house to the young couple. Shang Guifen burst into tears all of a sudden, and said with some grievance and distress: What about this one in her stomach?
Meng Shuang needed a caesarean section because of a stump uterus pregnancy. On the day of the operation, her husband did not show up.
Halfway through the operation, her husband finally appeared, but before he could speak, he spit out a large mouthful of blood and fell to the ground.
At this time, everyone knew that Meng Shuang's husband had been diagnosed with blood cancer very early. Originally wanted to divorce Meng Shuang, but was rejected by Meng Shuang, and even risked pregnancy in the stump uterus to leave a child for her husband.
And her husband is also worried that his departure will make the parents "white-haired people send black-haired people" and can't stand the mental blow, so he persuades the parents to have another child.
saw that her mother-in-law Shang Guifen didn't eat or drink, Meng Shuang cried and persuaded her mother-in-law that her husband left at 11:28, and the uncle was born at 11:29, so the husband did not leave, but returned to Parents continue to be their filial sons.
The 48-year-old Shang Guifen gave birth to a child at an advanced age, giving a crumbling family back to life.
A 50-year-old mother is seeking a child
is also an elderly mother. When 50-year-old Zhang Xiufen found her daughter Du Di, she was faced with her daughter's cold-faced opposition.
Zhang Xiufen and her husband Du Yongfu found their daughter Du Di, who works in the obstetrics and gynecology department of the hospital, and asked Du Di to help create a file. Du Di said with a cold face that she would not help with this, because she knew very well that Zhang Xiufen suffers from high blood pressure and diabetes, and such a body is not suitable for having children at all.
At the same time, Du Di also understands that the reason why Zhang Xiufen took such a big risk to have a child is because her father, Du Yongfu, always wanted a son.
Du Yongfu is obviously well aware of his daughter's thoughts, which is why he traveled from his hometown to the city without the knowledge of Du Di after Zhang Xiufen was more than 5 months pregnant.
And he knew that Du Di would not give him a good face, but he still went to the hospital where his daughter worked to file for only one purpose: he wanted to know whether the baby was a son or a daughter .
Du Yongfu even put his idea on Du Di's colleague, but the colleague was tight-lipped and did not tell the child's gender.
In order to achieve his goal, Du Yongfu acted as a rogue in the doctor's office, forcing Du Di to tell her the sex of the child. The honest and responsible Zhang Xiufen also knelt down and begged Du Di for this family.
z0In fact, Du Di didn't know the gender of the child, but in order not to make Zhang Xiufen suffer more, she lied and said that the child was a boy.Du Yongfu smiled happily, and soon took Zhang Xiufen back to protect the miscarriage.
The thinking behind the continuation of the new life
The two small lives also bear the expectations of their parents. The former I believe that children will grow up in an environment full of love, while the latter may grow up in an environment full of complaints.
The selfish Du Yongfu keeps scolding his daughter for being ruthless and cold-blooded, but has he ever thought that children are like a mirror of their parents. If it wasn't for the selfishness and cold-bloodedness he once had, how could his daughter become like him when she grew up?
The birth of a child should not be just to fulfill a parent's wish. They are not wishing bottles, they are not dolls, they have their own personalities, they have their own ideas.
Selfish parents like Du Yongfu really don't deserve to be parents.
