revisited " Xinghan Splendid " recently, I suddenly thought, if I were to comment on a good man who is most worthy of marriage in the play, which one would be the best choice?
thought about it for a long time, and I finally determined that in the play, Erlang is very good, but only Emperor Wen is a good man who can be entrusted to him for life. What is the standard for
to judge a good man?
is first and foremost filial piety.
In the play, Emperor Wen should have lost his father and mother when he was a teenager. He was raised by King Ruyang and his wife. They were his uncles and aunts. King Ruyang was out of town to make a living, while Princess Ruyang was at home to manage the housework and take care of the children. Princess Ruyang is not a person to be with. She has high self-esteem and is not willing to raise other people's children, so she is not friendly to Emperor Wen's siblings.
Emperor Wen's sister was not in good health. She often fell ill because of her weakness and needed nutrition. Emperor Wen asked her aunt to buy some meat, but the old princess was unwilling to pay for it, and she didn't care whether her niece would get sick and die. Forcing Emperor Wen to hunt in the mountains in the cold winter and twelfth lunar month, after the elder brother Huo went into the mountains to find him, Emperor Wen was bruised from freezing and almost died, but even so, the old princess was hard-hearted and unwilling to do anything for him. He extended medical treatment, and it was Huo's brother who borrowed money to help, and everything was settled.
Aunt treated so harshly, but Emperor Wen did not take any revenge after he ascended the throne. Although he was not very close to the old princess, it gave her a decent amount of respect. The old prince did not want to live with the old princess. His wife was not in court, separated or married. He would rather let the old prince go to Sancaiguan to recuperate, and he did not blame the old princess. Treating the old princess with great respect, it can be regarded as fulfilling the duties of a junior.
Of course, even if the old princess was sent to Sancaiguan to cultivate her self-cultivation, it was because she made it herself. Relying on her being the aunt of His Majesty, she was arrogant and self-righteous, and even made a scene at the engagement banquet between Ling Budo and Cheng Shaoshang. , openly came forward for Chunyu's clan, and committed a big taboo. It can be said that he is old and not dead is a thief.
Then there is the responsibility.
Whether a man is worthy of trust also depends on whether he can bear the responsibility, the responsibility of a husband and a father.
As a husband, you should love your wife so that she can fully feel happiness and respect in this marriage.
Wendi first married the woman he liked the most, who was also his childhood sweetheart. Distinct, like a fiery fire, with a sharp mouth, he can attack all directions, but he fell under the gentle offensive of Emperor Wen. Emperor Wen respected her, loved her, and tolerated everything about her. Even after he became emperor, this love has not changed.
You've seen Yueheng drive Emperor Wen out of the palace, but you've never seen Emperor Wen be more than half harsh to his beloved wife. Although they have been married for many years, she is still making trouble and you are laughing. The harmonious scene, really happy! [Caiying]
was in urgent need of the help of Lao Gan An Wang during the uprising of Emperor Wen. In order to keep the two families as close as a family, Lao Gan An Wang took the initiative to marry his niece Xuan Shen An to Emperor Wen. Marry a wife, but for the sake of the great cause of the world, you can only marry the Xuan family.
After he married the Xuan family, although he did not give her love, he gave her enough respect. After he became emperor, he made the Xuan family the queen and the son of the Xuan family as the crown prince, which gave her enough dignity and respect. He has never neglected the Xuan family just because he doted on the Yue family.
In the same way, he gave respect to the Xuan family, and he didn't want the woman he loved to be wronged. Although he only made Yueheng a concubine, he specially ordered the two palaces to be in the same position, which is equivalent to the east and west palaces, and their status was equally noble. This means that although the Xuan family is the queen, Yueheng does not need to salute her, as she has the same status.
And Emperor Wen knew that he was sorry for Yueheng, so he rewarded her family greatly. Yueheng's three brothers, all of them were knighted, one of the three princes, showing his favor.
From ancient times to the present, how many men, especially those in power, have left the six palaces in the cold for the woman they love dearly, or they have left the three thousand beauties in the harem vacant for the sake of the woman they love deeply. Those beautiful women, after entering the palace, It is like entering a tomb, guarding it alone for half a lifetime, and spending time in the palace.
Or, after being powerful and powerful, abandoning the original wife, marrying another beautiful wife, or taking many beautiful concubines,Hug left and right hug, so happy, euphemistically called, to enjoy the happiness of the people, it is really shameless. [Caiying]
Ke Wendi has been in charge of the world since he ascended the throne. He is the most qualified person to elect the six palaces and enjoy the blessings of the people. The general trend of the world to marry Xuan Shenjun, he did not set up any more beautiful people, but only guarded one queen and one concubine, and concentrated on state affairs.
The third is to see how he treats old friends or meritorious servants after gaining power.
said he treats old friends first.
In the early years, Emperor Wen was in the countryside, and he entered into a marriage alliance with his old friends. After several decades, he conquered the world, organized the country, and ascended to the highest position, but he still never forgot this marriage contract, even though he was with him at this time. The identities of the former friends are worlds apart.
's old friend is still a farmer, but he is the master of the world, but he still takes the initiative to send someone to propose marriage, and it is for his eldest son, who is now the Prince of the East Palace, and the old friend has a daughter. With this marriage contract, he became the crown prince and concubine.
shows that Emperor Wen is a very trustworthy person.
is not only that, but Emperor Wen is also very fond of his old feelings, especially those soldiers who lived and died together with him, and those heroes who sacrificed heroically to support him. [Caiying]
If the hero who conquered the country together is still alive, he will be rewarded according to his military merits, just like Cheng Shi, who was born in a poor family, after fighting for decades, when he comes back, he enters the Houmen, crosses the class in one fell swoop, and becomes the capital of Beijing. The upstart Marquis of Quling, such as Wan Songbai, joined Emperor Wen's family early and became a general under his command. He was born and died on the battlefield and had numerous military exploits. After his return, he was already a wealthy family in Kyoto.
If the hero who has conquered the world has been killed in battle, Emperor Wen will also take great care of the descendants of the hero. If he is an individual, he will be given opportunities to cultivate and serve the country. Don't worry about food and clothing, and be a wealthy idler with peace of mind.
is like Ling Budo. He was raised in the palace by Emperor Wen since he was a child. He was regarded as his adopted son. It is the only blood in the blood of the late brother General Huo Da.
is like King Xiaogan'an, this person is cowardly and has no responsibility. After the death of King Gan'an, Emperor Wen will give the fief Shouchun to King Xiaogan'an, and use the power of a city to support him as a rich and idle man. It is a pity that he was extremely dissatisfied with this. He developed copper mines within the fief and minted counterfeit coins privately, which was a major taboo for the country. But even so, after the defeat, Emperor Wen did not order the execution, but only took back the copper. Mine, let it introspect in Fuzhong. [Caiying]
Looking at history, after Han Gaozu ascended the throne, he killed Han Xin, tracked down Zhang Liang, a minister of merit, died and escaped; Emperor Hongwu Zhu Yuanzhang came to power even more He slaughtered the Quartet, and the heroes who assisted him in conquering the world at the beginning were all beheaded by him; Song TaizuZhao Kuangyin, when he first came to the throne, he came to a cup of wine to release the military power , euphemistically called An Ding Junxin.
But Emperor Wen, after winning the world, was able to reward the heroes, appease the people, be loyal to his wife, and take care of the heroes afterward. All kinds of deeds can show that this man is really perfect and impeccable!
Of course, this kind of near-perfect man can only appear on TV for everyone to appreciate.
