was recently watching a TV show called "The Disappearing Child", which was adapted from the novel "Sea Anemone" by Becker Bang. The play is divided into three lines, telling the audience the stories of three families, one of the protagonists is played by Wei Chen . The character played by Wei Chen in
's play is named Yuan Wu. He was originally a top student who graduated from a famous school, and his future should be bright. However, he lived as if his wife and son were separated, his family was not married, and he played a good hand in a mess. Whose fault is this?
First of all, I think one of the reasons is that it appeared in Yuan Wu's family. There is no doubt that the original family has a great influence on children.
Yuan Wu's parents are more than enough to dote on Yuan Wu, even a little morbid. From childhood to adulthood, from life to study to later marriage, Yuan Wu could not do without his mother's shadow. All his actions were the transformation of his mother's thoughts. So much so that he himself has no basic life and pressure resistance. Therefore, when he witnessed his mother's death in a car accident, he would be devastated, and he felt that his spiritual palace had collapsed.
Come again, I think the reason also appears in Yuan Wu himself. Although it is said that parents are our first school, they play a pivotal role in our life education. But I think it would be biased to blame our parents for everything.
Yuan Wu's own reason is that he knows he is wrong, but he is willing to sink. To say that the unfortunate beginning of his life began with the death of his mother, then getting addicted to gambling is the beginning of his life's sinking.
would be fine if they didn't gamble. Another round will always turn over. Gambling is always a contest of luck, but no one can win this contest forever. Timely stop loss is the most clear understanding. However, Yuan Wu did not realize this, and could only sink deeper and deeper in this sinking. Even the death of his father did not bring him back to the sinking state. As a parent,
should know what his position is, and correctly teach his child how to live independently is the greatest responsibility for his child's life. Instead of intervening all the time, it is important to know that it is impossible for parents to accompany their children.
As a child, you must learn to be responsible for your own life. You can make mistakes in a while, but don't get stuck in deeper and deeper. It is the greatest responsibility for yourself to get out in time.
